Romance makes me cringe?

[TheMoroccangirl]

I'd rather be sarcastic, tease, playful. etc.
The typical romantic stuff makes me cringe unless the mood is very right.

Gurl, same!

Meh. Gimme romance.

[BlueCoyote]

I consider myself a very romantic person but I think romance has to be unexpected and surprising to me nice. Trying hard to make something romantic doesn't work, it just makes things cheesy. For example I hate romantic movies because there is a subtle "expectation" to get into a romantic mood. They almost force you to be/feel romantic and that's extremely unromantic.
But sometimes, you should happen to be somewhere and things happen to be wonderfully perfect and that can be very romantic. For example during one of my very first dates I had with my wife in the beginning of our relationship, I decided to take her for a walk to the forest. I really didn't think much about it, I just thought it might be nice for her to experience the forest because she grew up in a gigantic city and never got to see a real forest.
However, it was January and when we got to the forest, it started snowing a lot. Within just half an our or so, the whole forest was covered in a thick layer of snow. It was kinda late in the afternoon but it felt like the snow was lighting up the path in front and the trees around us. Everything was sparkling and shimmering and we didn't meet any other people. The air was super fresh and crisp, as though you could cut through it with a knife. I hadn't planned for this but it just kind of happened. It is one of the most romantic things I ever experienced.

[Uday154]

No worries girl... m sure you'll love the Romantic stuff too later on but if you don't even then it's not a deal breaker

[TheMoroccangirl]

I'd only like romance at certain moments, not all the time that's just no. I need to compete

[Uday154]

that's definitely normal

[Anonymous]

Lmao i thought i only found it cringe cause i was a guy and we're less emotional.
Honestly dont see how a flower petals and chocolate is gonna seduce a girl? For me it just takes ass and tits, romance is just so extra to me

[TheMoroccangirl]

I'm very emotional but I'll be just as confused as he will be with flowers and chocolate 😂 I don't understand it either, especially flowers. Like what's the use?
I'm very simple tbh, I look at gentle actions. It tells me more than gifts or romantic words.
That's the turn on.

[Prime_Sol]

define sarcastic/ tease

[TheMoroccangirl]

"Teasing is the curious action of deliberately confusing or annoying other people. In two words, it has been described as 'playful vexation', which suggests the intention of fun and a lack of seriousness."
With teasing I also mean teasing the hell out of that guy until he gets so wild and needs to do stuff. (if you know what I mean)

With sarcasm I meant not the hard sarcasm where you literally hurt the other, but more the soft playful one. I don't know its exciting to me.

[Prime_Sol]

The former is part of romance though

[TheMoroccangirl]

Disagree, I have another view of romance

[theFantasticJ]

why can I relate so much!!

[TheMoroccangirl]

Glad to see I'm not the only one

[emerald77]

Same haha xD

[TheMoroccangirl]

Yasss

[JuanFrank7]

High five gurl!

[TheMoroccangirl]

✋h5✨

[JuanFrank7]

Nice emoji tho

[Blitzkrieger]

wow serious?

[TheMoroccangirl]

Yup I can't stand it and see it in most relationships all the time. It makes a relationship less interesting and exciting if it's too often. I definitely dont want to go that way. Romance should be only at certain times where the mood is high. When there's no mood its just cringeworthy and using romance too often leads to boredom cuz one will get used to it.

[Blitzkrieger]

you dont know what romance is.

[TheMoroccangirl]

Well disagree but tell me

[Blitzkrieger]

romance can be small gestures as well. it is a state of mind you know. it is just how you are in a relationship.

[TheMoroccangirl]

You mean being gentle? that's a different category for me

[CT_CD]

Gurl, same!

[TheMoroccangirl]

Yasss

[Nahid1234]

No. ☺️💕

[KIIROKI]

same here