This isn't always true, as I have seen some instances where unattractive girls date attractive guys, but you are right that the reverse is a hundred times more common.
I mean most guys care about looks foremost, and for some guys it's the only thing they care about.
Girls however, care much more about personality than looks. So a girl would date an unattractive guy if his personality meshed.
Probably in at least one of those three photos, money is the reason. Rich men are more likely to spend it to get a trophy girlfriend/wife. Rich women probably spend their money more wisely.
Women aren't as visual as we are. It's simple. Women care more about personality than looks. This is why it's common to see ugly men with attractive women but vice versa.
This is due to how human's are evolved. A man's SMV is based on both his behavior and looks, with women it's just their looks. This is why good resources can compensate for a man's lack of looks. Men are the providers. Guys with resources (even if they're ugly) can be seen as high value and won't have issues getting women. A woman's SMV is based on her ability to carry the offspring, which only boils down to her looks and not her behavior. (Perky breasts, nice hair, big butt from wide hips, good facial symmetry).
Think of a famous woman, like Whoopi Goldberg, most men aren't checking for her like that, if they are they're likely ugly or broke.
Now think of Jacob Batalon (the Asian kid on the Tom Holland Spiderman movies), he's unattractive but his girlfriend has model levels of attractiveness. If Batalon didn't have all those resources, he'd be with an ugly woman instead.
It's less socially acceptable for a woman to be unattractive due to the reasons aforementioned.
because women are more materialistic than men. in other words, if you're an ugly slob of a man but you have a ton of money, you're more likely to pick up a woman because of the fact that theyre materialistic
What about Pierce "James Bond" Brosnan and his plus-sized wife?
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Trivia: in the bottom of the three photos that the Asker posted, the couple is Noah Tepperberg and Denise Vasi. Noah is the co-founder of several nightclubs and restaurant brands in New York and he is, apparently, a big deal.
Because women's smv primarily comes from their looks which is associated with fertility, while men's smv comes from their ability to provide and protect.
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