Have you ever been in a relationship with someone below your 'league' in terms of physical looks? If so, how did you feel about it?

[AaronTupaz]

Yes

No

[Anonymous]

I guess others would say that I have. I found something very attractive about them that wasn't visually obvious to those outside of us. I didn't care.

Presently from outside views, I am dating up. But when you look at the situation as a whole, I am probably on par. Her physical attractiveness is above mine, but I make up for it by being the balanced half of the equation. We have these areas where one is stronger than the other in a way that levels the field nobody outside of us can see.

[Cosytoasty]

Never. Always dated up.

I already get bored of girls as soon as I start working on the next one. I don't think I'd date someone I don't find very attractive.

[valerietyne]

Actually, I've been in that relationship for four years and counting. My boyfriend is incredibly attractive and is always getting checked out. Don't get be wrong, it's nice that he's handsome on the outside too, but I will admit, I do get a bit self-conscious sometimes.

Still, it's best to try not to pay too much attention to it. We all age someday, and some of us are going to get miiiiiiighty weird-lookin' in those later years. So why worry?

[up_here]

The guy in the photo makes me feel short of breath.
And to answer your question, I have. he was shorter than me, ugly teeth but he was so funny and smart. Young profeasor he was. Anyway, didn't last long. I left him because his physics were mo longer interesting to me.

[danadanadana]

I did once... He put me on a pedestal and spoke about me like I was some kind of sex goddess. But that was it - all he wanted was sex out of me and I have a nonexistent libido.

[karahiri]

No. My ex was above my league by miles.

[Malikai96]

I fell in love with his personality, but when I began to see his true character (Very lazy, immature and selfish), I began to resent him and the resentment probably happened more quickly because he wasn't very attractive to me. It sounds horrible, but that's how it is.

[Listening5]

I have, and, I dont think people should be rated or looked at that way.
Sometimes personality and other factors can play a big role in how two people get along or fall in love.

[philipph]

yes - although my ex is a beauty she was not intellectually educated - a no go for me... because i desire connection - i see intellectuality as a part of it...

[Lman3000]

Umm I don't think so my Ex was quite pretty I never dated a 10/10 girl before plus there's like a 5% chance of that even happening to anyone so I don't think can relate to this

[Mousey1212]

I want someone who is beautiful on the inside and outside. I know that it is hard to find but I know it is possible though. I dated someone who was beautiful on the outside but treated me rather poorly. I just don’t want to do that again.

[BronzedAdonis]

I wouldn't commit to a relationship unless I viewed the girl as my equal

[IHaveLists]

Nope and I never ever will

[mis_bossyqueen]

why?

[Swiss_Tengu]

You rarely provide reasoning for your opinions, which makes them not very valuable. Maybe you want to change that?

[2shredded]

That dudes legend, probs got a huge dong

[Anonymous]

you tell me! you look like you are below everyone's "league"

[AaronTupaz]

Nope. I know I'm no prince charming but I only approach girl's out of my 'league'

[Anonymous]

No. I believe inequality

[cupidkisses]

nope i didn't