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Good points about why women go for creeps, but I disagree on studying misogynists. The QA should learn how to be a genuinely good, confident, socially-savvy "nice guy" instead of a narcissistic, manipulative creep who ONLY cares about getting girls in bed.
I'm not suggesting that an overly nice guy who's too compliant and obedient should go all the way over to the other side. Nice guys who are puppy dogs don't get the girls. Learning some of what the douche bags do can take him into the middle with the best of both sides.
That makes sense. I guess I would have just phrased it differently. To tell a nice guy to "study the jerks and douche bags" could potentially mislead him and cause him to force-change his fundamental character, not believing he's "good enough" as he is. I do see your point though; a truly "nice" guy is unlikely to go that far.
"You'll find a woman who appreciates you!"That's what they all say. This is when I can ask: Why don't YOU appreciate me for this? :P
But have you thought that most girls are very untrusting on "the nice guy" because so many assholes play that role, making it even harder for a nice guy to be noticed.
"Girls want to be girls and wear the skirt in relationships"... Why? Do you learn this from your parents that "this is how a girl should act, this is what a girl should do"? Why do girls want to feel "they are women"?
Um, because most people want to feel like their the gender they are? Most people expect to be stereotyped in this world, and are, e.g. "why do girls ALWAYS end up with jerks?" how do you know girls "always" end up with mean guys? Now that's just a large and untrue assumption.
It's so much easier for you women
To the socialgamehater....dating can be really fun. You have to love freely, its the only way...to always WIN. Hate and anxiety are FEARs relatives.
So basicly you want jerks, but want them to be real men. I used to be and still am a nice guy, deep inside, but I always do what the a jerk would do, lived happily ever after.
Yet you know perfectly well how to reject the genuine nice guy!
I honestly think this is one, if not, the best answer... :)
So why do you react to his words that way?
You have no idea what your talking about. I'm one of this nice guys and I find that I have sort of the same problem. The thing is that I'm 6'3'' weigh 265lb and I do mma, so f@&k off punk!
so true! be sweet and bad boy at times
Uhhhh... Most sociologists say the opposite.
Are you referring to cognitive/mental maturity or emotional maturity? There is a difference.
Sadly enough I have to agree!
Unfortunately true, the worse I treat a girl the more she digs me. I don't know WHY?
Women just have to be hot and cute, that's all, nothing else in order for us guys to accept them, like, but us guys have to be more than that
You guy really disappoint me. Nothing but a bunch of punks
BUT WE WANT TO KNOW WHY THE LIKE THE JERK
Lots of girls like to believe they aren't ALL jerk, otherwise it may just be based on the physical oooor she may think she can't get any better.Personally I prefer the more shy guys but each to their own :)
The nice guys befriend so the girl would approach. If the girl likes them, why don't they approach back? I don't get it, it just doesn't make sense!
Because most girls don't approach. they need to see interest, and its the jerks that show interest at first.anybody could befriend you, but if you want more, there's a certain way to go about it.
The interest is shown in the befriending, I do not see your point. What would I have to do, tell you to s--- my d---? Then I would just be a total asshole, not your perfect love. If you found kindness an attractive trait, this would not be an issue.
"jerks approach, disguised as the nice guy"Do women really think jerks are nice guys at first?
@mesonfielde ...When I get a friend vibe from a guy...that is where he stays...a friend...@rocksongwriter...Yes we do...if we don,t know the guy...and he seems really nice and smooth (the good players act shy)..so we think your that sweet guy that actually took a chance and approached us even if you're usually shy...so you must be really into us...nywho...the good 'bad' guys know how to play the game!!!
Obviously not. befriending does not mean interest. and we don't know they are jerks. that is why it's "disguised"
I think that's exactly like she said! The jerks always approach as the nice guys don't
Perhaps if women didn't shoot down so many nice guys for sport, they wouldn 't be so afraid to approach.
You do recieve the nice guys will approach 1 girl in 100 while the jerks will approach 95 girls out of 100. You do the math
so enjoy the jerks!
what does the term nice guy with an edge mean...