I might be old fashioned but I would want to be exclusive from the moment you came to some sort of understanding about the nature of your relationship like arranging first date etc.
That's not true. Most guys have two or three other girls they're going on dates with. Especially with online dating. You're not exclusive until you decide to be.
Makes sense. You couldn't do back then because your friends would know. Now girls and guys will juggle like 5 different people and pick the one they like most. It's ridiculous.
I think there is no true time period. But I think a healthy relationship where both people want to be involved wouldn't take longer than two months for sure.
When you catch feelings. Simple as that. Because if you don't have the feelings then there's no real thing going on between you two, but when I catch feelings I don't want to date anyone else because then it feels wrong. But that's just me.
I was exclusively my man's from day 1. Even if you're not "official" yet you both know where the mutual interest is heading, I could never focus on more people like that at the same time.
I think when two people have decided when they don't want to see other because they feel like the one they are seeing now is a really good match
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I don't see the point. I keep a girl I like for sex, but sometimes the conversation sucks so I need one I like to chill with. Sometimes the one I like to chill with don't like Thai food, so I need one to gt Thai food with etc etc May as well bang em all
I say you should give someone your full attention when dating first starts I mean it's kinda rude dating someone and then go about having sex with someone else or kissing
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My girlfriend and I were exclusive from the beginning
I don't think you should be dating if you're not ready to be exclusive from the get go.
I might be old fashioned but I would want to be exclusive from the moment you came to some sort of understanding about the nature of your relationship like arranging first date etc.
I never understood this.
You're exclusive when you start dating someone.
Just glad to be no longer in the dating scene.
That's not true. Most guys have two or three other girls they're going on dates with. Especially with online dating. You're not exclusive until you decide to be.
@red324 see our age difference.
I was dating before all the online dating was even thought of.
Makes sense. You couldn't do back then because your friends would know. Now girls and guys will juggle like 5 different people and pick the one they like most. It's ridiculous.
I think there is no true time period. But I think a healthy relationship where both people want to be involved wouldn't take longer than two months for sure.
When you catch feelings. Simple as that.
Because if you don't have the feelings then there's no real thing going on between you two, but when I catch feelings I don't want to date anyone else because then it feels wrong.
But that's just me.
I was exclusively my man's from day 1. Even if you're not "official" yet you both know where the mutual interest is heading, I could never focus on more people like that at the same time.
I think when two people have decided when they don't want to see other because they feel like the one they are seeing now is a really good match
I don't see the point. I keep a girl I like for sex, but sometimes the conversation sucks so I need one I like to chill with.
Sometimes the one I like to chill with don't like Thai food, so I need one to gt Thai food with etc etc
May as well bang em all
I say you should give someone your full attention when dating first starts I mean it's kinda rude dating someone and then go about having sex with someone else or kissing
I make clear that I am sleeping with him if he is sleeping with someone else from the very beginning.
That I am not sleeping *
That looks exciting! Whenever you are comfortable and you both know you feel the same way for one another.
For me it's when you get physical beyond say kissing. So he better not want sex on the second date or we're exclusive
if he calls you his girlfriend you should be exclusive unless agreed otherwise.
2-6 months.
Takes time to get to know a girl, until then you should never put all your eggs in one basket early.
When you both feel like you want to have a future together
When you both agree you have something worth building on I guess
As soon as i am sure she is the one for me ill offer.
From day 1.
I wouldn't be 'with' someone unless we were exclusive from the get-go.
After three or four dates. So basicly when you decide to start a relationship.