I am 23 years old, I am a virgin (I have never had any kind of sexual relationship) and I'm saving myself for marriage because I'm a christian. It turns out that I started dating a few weeks ago a guy that I'm pretty sure he's not a virgin anymore... And I'm really liking him! He knows that I am a virgin and he always respected me but he still does not know of my conviction, that I will not have sex with him until we got married.
How can I tell this to him? What if he does not accept it? I'm afraid he'll abandon me for that, but at the same time I can not let go of my convictions. What do you guys think?
Most Helpful Guy
Just be blunt and tell him. If he leaves, then you are better off. If he stays hopefully he is being honest3
Most Helpful Girl
Im think of the same thing, to be reserved till marriage, im also 23, but im pretty much confident that i won't lose it to different occassions (or whoever comes into my life)
here's the deal, dont commit yourself to much to a guy if you have preferences in life. Any guy who won't respect that doesn't deserve a little part of you
Real guys wait, and dont be douchebag with small reason like sex
Sex isn't the main deal in relationship or even in this world. And to us, sex means more than that, i knew you think the same
It doesn't mean that you meet an amazing guy, he is all the amazing guy you want,
Meeting amazing guy just prove that you're amazing person, (ive been with lot of amazing guy)
if that guy doubts you dont be afraid to step back, he isn't the only person in this world thats the truth, if your holding something important to you always think, if you'll get it off for a small reason, your desperate and u won't be seen as valuable at all.
If he sees the value of what you're holding, then it proves him that he matched you, and deserves to share that gift to him
Hold on to yourself... You deserve something more, thats why we waited that long, and will be waiting longer, there's a lot of things that matters in this world
The problem nowadays, people focused too much with confidential issue,
And I guess sex is one of the craze of many people
We dont belong to that group of people, we aren't too bored to focus with one topic
Show them your valuable, and you're more meaningful in this world1