What's the silliest reason to reject someone?

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What is the silliest and most insignificant reason you've given or heard for rejecting someone?

Answer 1

blondfrog | 3.8K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

It's hard to say cause I've heard some really ridiculous outrageous reasons why people reject others. I don't believe them though. I think that's just an excuse people use to hide the real reason why they rejected that person. If you find somebody good looking you can look past all those stupid small stuff. Like when a girl says I rejected that guy cause his shoes were ugly, or that guy who said he rejected that girl cause she has an annoying sneeze. That's just a fake reason they give to others and the person who got rejected. The real reason is cause of some other big flaw that they had that wasn't attractive or a personality that they didn't like.

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Belgie | 2.5K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

I usually don't pay attention to when other people break up. So the silliest reason I ever broke up with someone (when I was much younger) was because of politics. She had a very different upbringing to mine, and hence different political views. And although I was the older of the two of us, the fact is I was not mature enough to know how to deal with someone I loved holding such a fundamental different point of view.

Thankfully, I've matured a lot since then.

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Answer 3

Belorum

Xper 6

Well I've rejected a guy because he was a smoker. Personally I don't think that that was silly (for me the smell alone is disgusting) but for someone it'll sure be.
Or I haven't make any move towards a crush because I thought he would be too good for me. Like in the matter of attractiveness. A few years later he made a move on me himself and we are in a relationship since then. xD

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PrincessPie | 1.2K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Influencer

Something superficial i guess.
if the person seems perfect for you in every single way but then there's one thing about there appearance you don't like? or something like that.. would be a silly reason as eventually you can look past things if your connection is strong enough.

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Gianna17 | 84 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 6

Legit heard someone say "I told him to take my virginity and he said "are you sure?" So i broke up with him, like, of course i was sure i can make my own decisions wtf."

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Answer 6

RJGraveyTrain

Influencer

"He answered my texts too quickly."

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es20490446e | 4.3K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

Never gave an excuse. The reason I told them is that we shared nothing.

Basically she wanted to stay at home, and watch TV all day. And we didn't talk about anything meaningful. Which rarely happens to me with any other person.

She just wanted to have that kind of life, and I didn't.

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Answer 8

didigo182

Xper 6

Im sorry but 95% of rejections you guys should know that people just did not want us. Or we did not want them either.

Who wants and wants, and that is that. The reason does not matter, but people make excuses to justify it, escep in cases of pure immaturity such as influence of friends. I witnessed cases like this the girl wanted the guy, but the friends did not approve so she rejected him.

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Answer 9

Kuraj

Yoda

I personally like when people use the "or more" argument, practically saying they want a partner who has to offer them more than they themselves can offer.

Totally not shallow at all.

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brocklee | 787 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

All explanations are just excuses for "I am not into you".

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Answer 11

SleeplessEleotriada

Xper 5

one guy rejected me because I wasn't a hardcore gamer and that I liked plants and birds.

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azzntittiz

Guru

Not tall enough but I'll be silly all day, not changing that requirement.

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Answer 13

Anonymous

Girls tend to reject guys for various silly reasons, for example, just liking their photos on facebook is sufficient reason for them to get mad at you (from my personal experience).

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Queen_gamer | 173 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 6

I rejected this guy because he had really bad speech problems and I don’t have the patience to wait 5 minutes for him to finish one sentence

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Answer 15

0112358

Master

Some people have requirements that don't seem like something important to me.

But if it's important to them, it's important to them. People should be with those they want to be with.

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Answer 16

Anonymous

I'd say the silliest reason to reject someone is because "you love them".

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Answer 17

Anonymous

Height is rather stupid. You have no control at all over how tall you are.

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TruthBurns

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No you don't, doesn't mean it's not a good reason to reject someone. A person with down syndrome has no control over how many chromosomes they have but I still wouldn't date one
Opinion Owner

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@TruthBurns
height is not but downs is a significant thing that requires a lot of work. to me they are completely different.
Opinion Owner

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so no, height is not a good reason
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TruthBurns

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Being a short bastard is unattractive, being retarded is unattractive, sure one is worse than the other but they're still undesirable
Opinion Owner

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@TruthBurns
height is insignifcant to the overall person, being one that is mentally challenged requires a lot of work from the other person to have it be functional. you're point makes no sense.
Opinion Owner

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your*
TruthBurns

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Alright fine, we'll take an ugly cunt for an example instead, a cock-eyed goof with crooked teeth, recessed chin and massive nose, he has no control over his facial structure but it doesn't mean its any less attractive, same thing with being short
Opinion Owner

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@TruthBurns
height is a really stupid reason to reject someone. you are not going to sway me on this. and for your information, before you start, i am five eleven.
Kkaos

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By your logic not being attracted to someone based on something physical is always going to be stupid and I GUARANTEE that there are women out there who you would reject based on their physical appearance which makes you a hypocrite and your opinion is flawed.
Opinion Owner

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@Kkaos no, i only said height. that is my argument. why don't you understand this?
Opinion Owner

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@Kkaos
your opinion is flawed. i would date a woman regardless of her height and in actuality i have yet to reject anyone. your argument is invalid
Kkaos

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Nope. I'm not just talking about height, would you date a women who was green, with 3 eyes, a face covered in warts and giant nose? @TruthBurns already alluded to this and you just ignored it.

You can't single out height as being uncontrollable and therefore unfair to reject someone based upon it if you're going to ignore ALL the other various uncontrollable physical attributes that people might also have no control over.

I could give you MANY, MANY reasons why shorter men are less desirable.

My opinion is based on logic, your opinion is based on hypocrisy and insecurity.
Opinion Owner

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@Kkaos
enough. i only mentioned height being stupid as a reason to reject someone. to me your argument is invalid as i mentioned nothing else but height being stupid reason to reject someone. Stop bothering me
Kkaos

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Nope. Why is height stupid? And no you can't say because people can't control their height because we've already destroyed that point. If you believe that then you can't single out height, you don't deserve to have any physical preference whatsoever and therefore can never reject anyone based on how they look, man or woman.

You put out an opinion buddy, you're just saying 'stop bothering me' because your opinion is flawed and you don't like people addressing that. If you don't want people 'bothering' you, don't comment.

Answer 18

TruthBurns

No you don't, doesn't mean it's not a good reason to reject someone. A person with down syndrome has no control over how many chromosomes they have but I still wouldn't date one

Answer 19

Opinion Owner

@TruthBurns
height is not but downs is a significant thing that requires a lot of work. to me they are completely different.

Answer 20

Opinion Owner

so no, height is not a good reason

Answer 21

TruthBurns

Being a short bastard is unattractive, being retarded is unattractive, sure one is worse than the other but they're still undesirable

Answer 22

Opinion Owner

@TruthBurns
height is insignifcant to the overall person, being one that is mentally challenged requires a lot of work from the other person to have it be functional. you're point makes no sense.

Answer 23

Opinion Owner

your*

Answer 24

TruthBurns

Alright fine, we'll take an ugly cunt for an example instead, a cock-eyed goof with crooked teeth, recessed chin and massive nose, he has no control over his facial structure but it doesn't mean its any less attractive, same thing with being short

Answer 25

Opinion Owner

@TruthBurns
height is a really stupid reason to reject someone. you are not going to sway me on this. and for your information, before you start, i am five eleven.

Answer 26

Kkaos

By your logic not being attracted to someone based on something physical is always going to be stupid and I GUARANTEE that there are women out there who you would reject based on their physical appearance which makes you a hypocrite and your opinion is flawed.

Answer 27

Opinion Owner

@Kkaos no, i only said height. that is my argument. why don't you understand this?

Answer 28

Opinion Owner

@Kkaos
your opinion is flawed. i would date a woman regardless of her height and in actuality i have yet to reject anyone. your argument is invalid

Answer 29

Kkaos

Nope. I'm not just talking about height, would you date a women who was green, with 3 eyes, a face covered in warts and giant nose? @TruthBurns already alluded to this and you just ignored it.

You can't single out height as being uncontrollable and therefore unfair to reject someone based upon it if you're going to ignore ALL the other various uncontrollable physical attributes that people might also have no control over.

I could give you MANY, MANY reasons why shorter men are less desirable.

My opinion is based on logic, your opinion is based on hypocrisy and insecurity.

Answer 30

Opinion Owner

@Kkaos
enough. i only mentioned height being stupid as a reason to reject someone. to me your argument is invalid as i mentioned nothing else but height being stupid reason to reject someone. Stop bothering me

Answer 31

Kkaos

Nope. Why is height stupid? And no you can't say because people can't control their height because we've already destroyed that point. If you believe that then you can't single out height, you don't deserve to have any physical preference whatsoever and therefore can never reject anyone based on how they look, man or woman.

You put out an opinion buddy, you're just saying 'stop bothering me' because your opinion is flawed and you don't like people addressing that. If you don't want people 'bothering' you, don't comment.

Answer 32

Nivinxus | 444 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

Got rejected because I was wearing a Rick and Morty shirt at the time.

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rozequarts

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well they have no taste haha
Nivinxus

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@rozequarts Yep, didn't even want to date them anyways after that reason hahaha

Answer 33

rozequarts

well they have no taste haha

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Nivinxus

@rozequarts Yep, didn't even want to date them anyways after that reason hahaha

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TripleAce | 4.9K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

Your left shoulders droops a little and I like men with good posture
lol

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Answer 36

TruthBurns

Xper 3

The reason they give you is irrelevant, the bottom line is they either like you or they don't

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Answer 37

Anonymous

Because I don't want to hurt the person and I'm not ready for a relationship.

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Answer 38

winterfox10

Master

One time a girl rejected me because of my zodiac sign.

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PrincessPie

+1 y
Seriously? thats crazy!
winterfox10

+1 y
Yeah, no kidding! Haha! I think I even asked her if she was for real or if she was just fucking with me. She was quite serious. Apparently the stars weren’t in alignment.
PrincessPie

+1 y
She sounds bonkers honestly you got out of that one easy lol.
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winterfox10

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@PrincessPie You ain't lyin' about that! That was one of those "I think this probably works out for the best," type moments.

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PrincessPie

Seriously? thats crazy!

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winterfox10

Yeah, no kidding! Haha! I think I even asked her if she was for real or if she was just fucking with me. She was quite serious. Apparently the stars weren’t in alignment.

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PrincessPie

She sounds bonkers honestly you got out of that one easy lol.

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winterfox10

@PrincessPie You ain't lyin' about that! That was one of those "I think this probably works out for the best," type moments.

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Elliegirl | 416 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

No. I have to wash my hair.

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Answer 44

Anonymous

i once had a guy reject me because i have to moms i hate him now lol

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RuthAnn1781 | 306 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Explorer

I broke up with a guy because he didn't read

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TruthBurns

+1 y
Are you fr

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TruthBurns

Are you fr

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