Why are men particularly in their 20s afraid of commitment?

[Anonymous]

[Krouki]

They tend to fear commitment simply due to the fact they themselves are still growing and trying to discover how their lives will play out in the long run. A lot of times simply they may see themselves unfit and not ready to take you or anyone else in a committed relationship to adhere to the lifestyle they're living.

[chaoticwings]

Well a lot of guys are taught by peers to play the field and will make fun of them for committing to a girl. And like in highschool they value their friends a lot more. Honestly if they can't find time for you and commit to you they aren't worth your time.

[Anonymous]

Quarter life crisis

[goaded]

Because they know they can date until they're in their late thirties/early forties and, intuitively or mathematically, know that the best approach to love is to play the field until they're half way through their dating life and then marry the first one who's as great as their best partner up until then. (Maybe not half way, maybe 1/e, so a bit over a third; I've got a maths book around here somewhere that claims to prove it.)

[crswalkerr]

Because some believe commitment now means settling down with somebody. 20s is too young to do that, it's no longer 1930, you dont have to raise kids and marry off young. .

If you're also asking why aren't some men in their 20s loyal, or dedicated to one girl, then that's harder to answer. Some guys are just idiots.

[mattmanyah]

you're not attracting the right guys... there will always be guys looking for a quick trick... You have to do the searching into what these guys really think

[HungLikeAHorsefly]

Mainly because young men have yet to be crushed by life and realize nothing ever happens for a reason and they're going to spend the next 30-60 years doing repetitive meaningless tasks to prolong the fact that they will eventually die alone.

[robske]

well since we've already wasted a quarter of our life with the wrong person, now we feel its time for the right one.

not just men tho, gals all the same.

[RidingForever2]

Those men are not afraid to commit, but to lose money and assets should a commitment fail. Have you seen the laws of some countries for relationships and cohabitation? They are very bad.

[TXKen]

Because they are too young to really know who they are or what they want yet. I got married at 29. When i was 23 for example i was nowhere near ready to think about long term commitment

[Cammy137]

Im not. In fact most of my friends are in committed relationships and they're all in their 20s

[El_Samir]

Because we are scared to settle into a life we do not want.

[tyber1]

"Afraid" isn't the right word, we avoid it. Women ask for too much.

[WeirdoWerdo]

Well everyone is trying to have fun in their 20's a lot of parties and not be stuck down with a girlfriend or babies or something? I gues..

[blondfrog]

Because women at that age are also afraid and are usually non loyal..

[Joelgeorge9595]

Because we are young and we are still learning. We like this young freedom and don't know if we want to settle yet. We like the comforts of it but miss that independence.

[MisterSir]

being afraid of something and plain and simply not wanting it are two different things, hunny buns.

[BraveHeart97]

We're not. We're just afraid that our girlfriends might cheat or brake up with us for no reason.

[manliness402]

Cuz they are morons. Simple. 🤗

[trollbuddy74]

Because all the think about is woman and having sex with as many woman as they can.

[Anonymous]

Because we still need to live life and get everything out our system.

[deaston]

I guess we want to retain freedom?

[zzzondarrr]

I'm in 20s and commitment is the only thing I want