Did you ever regret friend-zoning a girl?

[Anonymous]

Guy who friend zoned me now regrets it after I disappeared from his life completely.

Yes

No

[Anon-ymous1]

No, and your guy is weird then, because if we friendzoned her in the first place it's for exactly one of two reasons (or both I guess), and those reasons alone:
1) We don't consider her to be attractive, and unless she loses weight or something, that's probably not going to change, or
2) She's crazy, and that's probably not going to change either.

Your guy may be crazy or a pushover himself I guess.

[Anon-ymous1]

Thanks for MHO

[colorsoft]

Why would I regret it? I was never interested romantically, and if she chooses to "disappear from my life completely" it just shows that she's incredibly immature and doesn't deserve my friendship, never mind romance.

[Asker]

Maybe it has nothing to do with being immature. Maybe she cared about you too much to be just friends and thought ur was in everyone's best interest to stay away. Sometimes being just friends is too painful.

[colorsoft]

And that's immature, with a little twist of being weak.
My best friend and I have had instances of falling for the other, and we've both been honest about it, but we're still best friends. Wanna know why?

We care about and value each other enough to realise that we lose nothing in not getting together.

So no, I don't regret ever "friendzoning" a person.

[chives]

I wouldn't say I friend zoned her just wasn't attracted to her as she just 'too young' for her age, but a year later she changed a lot and looked like a sexy woman i was thinking "dahmm "

[Anonymous]

Guys who friend zone girls usually don't exploit them (have them pay for meals, fix their cars, etc.). We might use them for female advice or a wing woman.

But nowadays I straight up tell girls the truth about how I feel. I've been fucked over before when I was younger so I don't want to do that to someone else.

[brocklee]

No. It means I am not attracted. I have yet to have an instance where I suddenly developed attraction that was not there initially.

[ManwithaConran]

If I friend zone someone I tell them on friend zoning them and why I'm friend zoning them. it's usually because I see them as a friend, nothing else. And I prefer to be honest about it.

[Dre_808]

If I friend zone a girl it's usually for a specific reason, if it's something I can't get over then I can never see her as anything except a friend. It would suck losing a good friend but if that's how it has to be then life goes on.

[BHooper]

Yes. One of my sister's friends was obsessed with me and asked me out so I put her in the friend zone. A few years later she is the girl of my dreams and the only person I want to be with. What can I do to get her?

[DivideByZero]

No I don't. Because I have more than enough other decisions to regret.

[Elnigro]

But i didn't noticed i had friendzoned her untill she became even prettier than she already was.

[Deformate]

I never had the luxury of being able to friend zone a girl.

[l33tboot3r]

Damn right I regretted it. But the past is the past.