Interesting, self harm scars are generally a red flag. But with some help a person who does this sort of thing can have a deep and meaningful relationship. YOU HAVE TO LOVE YOURSELF BEFORE YOU CAN LOVE ANYONE ELSE!
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Some scars like these are on the outside, some are on the inside. We all carry baggage, have a past. We all seek to love and be loved. As a sole reason scars would not be a deal breaker.
No, wouldn't bother wasting my time. I have a lot going on in my life to bother on someone else sick life. I have better things to do like living a no drama peaceful life!
There perspective of life would have had to completely change. I couldn’t see someone like me ever getting along with someone that doesn’t value themselves.
No cause they don’t love themselves and if you don’t love yourself you can’t ask anyone to love you.
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Yes I will try to help them as much as possible I did it for a while to
I could date someone with self harm scars under the following conditions:
1) If the scars do not ruin the looks of the person.
2) The scars are not fresh.Of course! I personally see nothing wrong with scars.
I mean, excessive scarring (3rd pic) is quite a turn-off, but surely people would accept these. It is a tail chase, considering it is a constant reason to worry ('will they do it again?'), but not *unnaceptable.*
It's definitely a red flag, people who have cut are usually relatively unstable people and I don't think it's healthy to be around them. Definitely couldn't date a girl with scars
Not too sure to be honest. Might depend on the person.
It would be a shock to see them, and it would definitely warn me about their problems, but that's just all the reason to love them more.
Personally yes... it could be a challenge for me to see if i can calm a dirty and frustrated soul down
I have some scars from self harm and I still do and I believe you can and for me rn I have someone who also has scars as well but we both have been working on each other with each other which seems to be hopeful
Not if they were plentiful. I don't need that drama.
If it's not too much yeah probably
I think that if you love some one there body shouldn't matter more than like 20 %
Why would you want to take on so much baggage?
Since there is love you can
Depends if they were from injections
yes I would
Personally yes x
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