After being in a 10 year relationship I'd be nice to just enjoy the "single life" for about a week maybe once a year or every two years. sadly every vacation and every break I have I have to enjoy with someone else just because we are in a relationship. I don't mind being in a relationship, but wanting a week to myself is somehow disastrous for our relationship.
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I don't look down at single people, I look down at my self because I try going for what I want I fail over and over again. It's not that I'm single, it's that I'm a failure. If you're single by choice and doing what you want that's good, you're living how you want to live.
@shanshaniii I believe people would be more likely to “look down upon” a single person who constantly mopes about, woe is me, I wish I had someone, etc vs a single person who seems happy, content, confident in ones self
There is an entire industry built on serving couples, being single means no money for them. There is an even larger divorce industry, another group of people you aren't paying by benefit of your relationship.
I have barely encountered any stigma in being single in my 23 years of lifetime. Embrace your status I'd say. Nobody is holding you back from enjoying yourself 💙
cause its human nature to have a parnter and make babies, evolution, plus being single means you're a shitty person who no one wants to be with (hardly the case in... a lot of cases, but people will be people )
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Because people fear and hate what they don't understand and no one really understands why people wanna be single
After being in a 10 year relationship I'd be nice to just enjoy the "single life" for about a week maybe once a year or every two years. sadly every vacation and every break I have I have to enjoy with someone else just because we are in a relationship. I don't mind being in a relationship, but wanting a week to myself is somehow disastrous for our relationship.
I don't look down at single people, I look down at my self because I try going for what I want I fail over and over again. It's not that I'm single, it's that I'm a failure. If you're single by choice and doing what you want that's good, you're living how you want to live.
It’s not necessarily but a single persons attitude about being single can be.
How so?
@shanshaniii I believe people would be more likely to “look down upon” a single person who constantly mopes about, woe is me, I wish I had someone, etc vs a single person who seems happy, content, confident in ones self
It means you're not good enough to catch a boyfriend.
I have seen this same problem :/ I am single by choice but many of my friends doesn't seem to approve it :(
I'm single too... wanna start a relationship over the net? 😊
Fuck what they all think. I approve of anybody that chooses to be single, and even moreso if they choose to remain single indefinitely for life.
@JudgmentDay Thank you :)
I don’t think it is looked down on, you can be independent and strong... you don’t need someone to make you better.
Better in what sense
Stronger
I don't understand either. Being single is awesome!
As in, I don't know why it's weird. Is it their single?
It's not... When single people think about it all the time it doesn't mean others who have partners do think about it and look down on it.
Mostly because you miss the cuddling, the hugs, the kisses and the love. In a relationship you are never alone.
There is an entire industry built on serving couples, being single means no money for them. There is an even larger divorce industry, another group of people you aren't paying by benefit of your relationship.
Because some people like to force their agenda on your life and it’s stupid.
I don’t think I’ve ever seen or heard of someone who looked down on single people.
Because a lot of people are stupid, ignorant, insecure, haven't found themselves, or any combination of these.
Because you're a guy, guys are expected to fill the role of Captain SaveaHo, the great superhero of our times.
Strength is misunderstood by people that can't exist without another.
I have barely encountered any stigma in being single in my 23 years of lifetime. Embrace your status I'd say. Nobody is holding you back from enjoying yourself 💙
cause its human nature to have a parnter and make babies, evolution, plus being single means you're a shitty person who no one wants to be with (hardly the case in... a lot of cases, but people will be people )
I don't know but being single is pretty cool my dude
It shouldn't be, but some people believe that no one loves you