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not really, you'll be happier with a great partner rather than anything else, no money/career can replace that
@dusan57 thats a matter of how you percieve happiness. some find themselves happier to be with a partner which is totally understandable but others find happiness in achieving success or even by helping those less fortunate. besides the question is why does society look down on singles so what you are saying is irrelevant
I was referring to your answer, not the question
@johanmdsn "tbh its just the shallow view of society" INDEED IT IS!!
I totally agree! You are looked down upon when you are single almost like “what’s wrong with you?” It makes me want to be in a relationship but I am not putting myself out there to try to start one 😜
Pretty much, the older previous generations' attitudes are like that. They expect that you conform to their ideals, standards, etc. But I say fuck 'em. The planet is overcrowded and things are not going to get better or easy for the future generations, we don't need to bring more people into existence onto this planet, it could do just fine without more people added to it constantly on a regular basis as there are a limited number of resources on this planet. And obviously they don't pay attention to or care about the fact that divorce rates on average are about 50%. The whole continuing a family line thing is a selfish fallacy. Everybody eventually will die, even family lines eventually terminate and die out involuntarily. If they stress over you not passing on your genes, then they're all completely deluded.But decide whatever it is that you want to do with your live and how you want to live your life and don't let ANYBODY else tell you otherwise.
Not going to address this but you have a funny opinion.
@UptightLight no.. no one really cares who is single or not. so? you have a funny opinion to think that people care loll because trust me.. your love life is not important to anyone as they are to focus on their own and weather or not they are getting laid or not.. to think about anyone else. trust me.. 99.9% of the shiz you think other people care about.. no one really does.. jsjs
See which is why this is funny. Cause the minute you think you can go out in life doing your own thing people have their disrespectful opinions. Yet no one cares. If that can make sense.
@UptightLight yeah, their will be people who say things.. there will always be people that run their mouths and try to make you feel bad.. you can be single and they will make you feel bad or you can be in a relationship and they will make you feel bad.. those are people that are just super irrelavent and people that you shouldn't have in your life.. and at the end of the day anyways.. you shouldn't care what they say because it just shows the reflection of who THEY are, and what troubles THEY are facing.. and kinda they only talk to hear themselves talk.. they actually don't care.. their motive is to bring you down or get a reaction from you.
so that is why you don't feed into them.. and tbh like I said they don't care if you are in a relationship or not. they are just using whatever they can to hold against you and make themselves seem better.
How do you feel about relationships?
@UptightLight how do I feel about them? I feel like they can be a lot of work, and stress, and if it isn't a good relationship it can lead to a lot of pain and insecurities and problems later on. I feel like relationships are fun and it is AMAZING to have someone there for you and to be by your side threw everything.. but.. (I know I am contradicting myself with what I posted recently) I feel like relationships should take time, and need to worked on slowly, and not to be rush.. I feel like no one should feel obligated to be in one, or that they need to be in one to feel like are worthy of w. e and I feel like people should first find who they are and live life to the fullest no matter how long it takes before getting down with someone seriously.. especially how no a days all these relationships are lucky to last longer than 6-7years.. so in short answer.. I feel like relationships are amazing to have.. but.. it is also a lot to deal with, and you gotta find who you really are first
Glad to know you are well prepared on the matter. I'm not worried about contradictions. I feel they make an argument. If one can spin a negative connotation into their supportive argument they're seriously winning. I was for Hilary. She took in new data she made new considerations and adjusted her position. The idiots say she never had a set ground i say they don't know what it means to adapt. Change is constant, every second's new. I asked cause i was speculating that you had some bad memories or relationships but before casting my suspicion i decide to inquire about your stance on the matter.
@UptightLight I had some bad.. but I should never let the bad over come the good, that will come.
Good for you 🙂 I'm glad you feel that way.
Holy smokes 15 upvotes
@AlexBlack007 aww thank you
This thing is kind of cool n we have kind of same problem so u might understand me so thats y wats app snapchat or whatever u say
Personal message here itself
I m kind of unable to thats y i m asking otherwise i would have done already
don't let them feel bad! you still have some time to settle down! besides.. it is better to wait and find the right person to be with than jump into something serious and have it crash down in a few years like most of peoples relationships now adays!
They want someone to share the same miseries and struggles they are going through, and if you're single throughout, they can't relate to you. Relationships aren't easy, it comes with much hard work and sacrifice, risks, and requires maintenance, if somebody isn't fully up for it, then don't even bother starting and getting involved in one. Some people don't get it and aren't willing to accept differences, but it all depends upon their views and their upbringing and how open minded they are in accepting differences from other different people than themselves.
Wow awesome point. You are so right that society always throws this idea that everyone needs to be in a relationship and if your not in one clearly somethings up
I can relate! It's very irritating. My mum can't have more children because her husband (who's not my biological dad) Produces weak sperms. So the baby won't survive pregnancy, and even if it does (which there's a very low chance) it will likely turn out to have disabilities. And my mother is pretty much putting her dreams onto me and relying on me to bring the grandchildren quickly. I don't want to be a mother anytime soon (one day but not yet). And it triggers me off so much when she makes references to having grandchildren and all. She's even got me ranting about it to a user on GAG 😫
I feel bad for your mom. It must be so disappointing to her that she can't have as many children as she wants. It's still not right for her to push this on you though. Your relationship with her must be shaken by this "responsibility" she put on you. How are you holding up?
Me too. Are you ready to mingle?
through the net? Nah. And besides, i am super boring.
No you're not, dear Social Butterfly. I like girls who think they're 'boring'
She isn't single... She's my girlfriend... I asked first loool 😋
Lol 😂😂😂 Wat? 😂😂😂
*your genetic legacy will be diminished
im single by choice >:( , not my choice, but its still a choice.
13 talking about people lacking self worth. Scary intelligence.
Maybe im 31 and have dyslexia... altho I like the compliment so I shall stay quiet and smile politely screaming for more behind my single dramatic tear
Wellllll doesn't take away from my joy. 🙂
Now I've gotta know. Whose intelligence is this the 13 year old or the 31 year old.
Lel, guess u'll have to stick around figure that out 😏
Im too old to be sticking around a 13 year old. Commenting young intelligence is fine. Steady Interaction even I do not condone.
I meant stick around on the app... there's no harm in comment wars. But I'm not 13 lel, don't worry, I won't send u to jail 😂
True. However I can not so enjoy the app and spread your opinion. Have fun.
People determine there self worth by having people rate them or by how many like they get on selfies, instead of judging people by the content of their character to paraphrase Martin Luther King
at least you don't have to buy costly gifts for your Valentine#SaveValentinesMoneyForPIZZASandMOREPIZZASSS
@Halucinator True.. I can go shopping all by myself and spend that money on my own shoes and my own pizza lol
and if you're kind enough, you can also buy a pizza for a really nice guy here. His name is Halucinator I guess😜
@Halucinator haha.. yeah sure
yayyy! So when and where should I come to grab my double cheese burst farmhouse pizza with extra paprika which will definitely make a hole in your purse? lmaoo