Would you date someone until you find someone better? (Page 4)

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Dating a guy who I used to be friends with until I find someone better. I'm going away this April for a few months abroad and he knows this. But kind of feel like I'm just using him for the time being.  We fancy each other and as awful as it sounds. But is it that bad? Feel a bit guilty. He thinks I'm the one. But I want to spend my early 20s finding out the type of guy that I'm into and don't expect any relationships in my early 20s to end up in marriage. He's a nice guy but going to break up with him before I go away. What you date someone until you find someone better matched to you?

hiddenmethod · Answer

Seems like something I would never do. But it is what it is.

Guyofallguys2 · Answer

Depends how much better. Id have to find out if the better person liked me too before doing anything about it.

Anonymous · Answer

Pathetic Af  Don't care about what else you said, you just can't handle being alone

bhsk9900 · Answer

I'm exactly in ur guys position. Don't. I know what am I feeling. He might end up killing himself. Tell him directly and end that shit right away.

EmilyP04 · Answer

Yeah do it. If a guy is nice to you you'll always move on to guy that isn't so that's exactly what'll happen, regardless of whether you feel bad about it.

es20490446e · Answer

If I stop dating someone is exclusively because I don't see a future with that person.

FirsttimeDater · Answer

I would call her/him as a greedy ditch. People are not your barbie dolls.

datgirl · Answer

Um no... i just wouldn't date that person to begin with...

Guava_11 · Answer

Well it's ok if it's dating or friends with benefits but if it's a relationship then no

TheUglyMan · Answer

Lol as if most chicks dont do this its called monkey branching

skykid1992 · Answer

Your a sick person leave hin today not tm when he kills himself u will be to blame

JaySmi · Answer

If you're not dating to last, don't date. Just my opinion.

apple24 · Answer

It was pretty hot. I would date until I was in love

tonycannoil1969 · Answer

Dating is just that, dating. Until you both claim a committed, monogamous relationship you can date whoever you want.

fiftyshades_ofpink · Answer

I don’t think that it’s right or fair to the other person but, unfortunately people do it (both guys/girls)

Furuok · Answer

Not sure if i should answer this. I have always been that guy. A great friend but i go for it and get the rejection notice. Sorry i except my faults

Anonymous · Answer

I think it's cruel what you're doing to him and very unfair and selfish.

rhitteran · Answer

Why not do him a favor and just dump him now? There's nothing wrong with exploring with sex and life in general, but do try to be honest about it, because right now you're just being a bitch, imho.

ayeeadrian · Answer

I believe it's based on your true intentions of the relationship. If you want marriage, then this question is a definitely no. But, if you want to explore then yes.

dhaval23 · Answer

Yes I will do.. because if i can't live with her with my heart there would be meaningless.. so preferred to do a breakup.. but on the other side it's a very difficult to understand for other person

clampfan101 · Answer

I’d only break up if things weren’t working for us.

DamnMan · Answer

It's only terrible when you are not upfront.  My question is why not just be friends who hang out?

ItzPeter97 · Answer

If you plan on doing that to someone you're a horrible person

YOUTOOSHOULDJUDGE · Answer

As shitty as it sounds thats what I did until I met my wife. I kept upgrading until I could get no higher and then I married her.

Decentguy · Answer

Never, because its a very shitty thing to do, with the person you are dating

bootstrap437 · Answer

Well its cheap i guess like if are sure that he is not your type or not someone that you want then just leave him

Omar5881 · Answer

I don't really like to " date " really and the answer to your question is no

TyroneM · Answer

That's twisted just tell him that you just want a buddy or something it's less hurtful and harmful

lilkittycat7 · Answer

I think you should make sure he knows you're not looking for marriage so he doesn't get hurt. Otherwise there's nothing wrong with what your wanting

CHLOEHUGHES00 · Answer

It is kind of bad, but I've done this before with this guy but turns out he was the one for me and we've been together going on 3 years

MrEiffel · Answer

Don't play with people's feelings

Lionelmesssi · Answer

No, I would love one person only and spend my whole life with.

benlamb · Answer

Nope, if you're in a relationship you've committed and should plan to be together.

Nice222 · Answer

No it takes too much effort to waste time. With someone I am not really interested in.

ontarius · Answer

No.. In that context you are still searching for someone; someone of greater interest.

DuckBlind · Answer

No, it's heartless and cruel. It's shit like that makes good people twisted.

Anonymous · Answer

Thats just playing with feelings, I hope he will leave you before you do. Obviously no I wouldn't

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe casually and not let them think it’s a permanent thing

erfeca90 · Answer

Yes of course is better that way you can still have sex for free

seanlowe1288 · Answer

never I would stay with them as long as they want cause they would be considered my soul mate

dudydeeps · Answer

Surely, i will... coz to be succeed one should taste failure

RGabbyC · Answer

If you only date them while trying to get anothers attention, no

Rays143 · Answer

Its not bad to have fun if u follow any rules then ur life get sucked

djysyed · Answer

If you spend enough time with someone, they will become the one person who understands you the most.

StickStickity13 · Answer

Wait until karma hits you, you will regret that.

LunerBlood · Answer

In my city men and women are always looking to upgrade

ReddRuss · Answer

Hell if you comfortable being a piece of shit, sure go ahead!

Anonymous · Answer

I would. But just for attention, but I would get attached too quick and stay with her.

aaleena · Answer

Never. I love hard and deep.

Anonymous · Answer

@lotelle you are a piece of shit. You serve no purpose to society if you are evil enough to do this.

Goodwifie · Answer

nope that's really shitty

Anonymous · Answer

Nah focus on finding the one instead of dating someone you don't love.

LeeKenz · Answer

I’m not that Fucking shallow so no

Markella88 · Answer

No this is what gets people killed.

madhatters4 · Answer

no i wouldn't. that is effectively using someone

CupidSays · Answer

nope, that is immature and fake ass-hat.

confusedconfused15 · Answer

It’s vary wrong! Why would you do that to someone?

Anonymous · Answer

Dating isn't a game. I wouldn't do that

Caaarl · Answer

There's nothing okay about it. So fucked up.

baegirlbae18 · Answer

No I'll never do that wow

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