Guys, would you date a girl who is a loner?

[ilikegum245]

If you really liked her? Would you be embarrassed to talk to her around your friends, or to even claim her? Would you try to keep the relationship secret?

[Randoftheaiel]

If I am attracted to a girl, meaning I think she is beautiful, and I value a girl, it doesn't matter if she has friends or not. The question is WHY are you a loner. Because you just moved to a new place? Just independent and not an attention whore? Those are good things. But if you are a loner because you are shallow, hateful, cruel, dishonest, etc. than that is a deal-breaker. And with people who don't have a social circle this is usually the case. That is why someone who is socially affluent is attractive, it's kind of like these other people think that you have qualities that balance out your faults(everyone has faults, it's a matter of limiting and compensating for them) and make you a person that is worth investing time and energy into.

This comes from my experience. The loner girls I have reached out to have usually ended up being too needy(co-dependent) or narcissistic(selfish).

[TryingToBeHonest]

To be honest, I don't see how that would make any difference. I would hope she'd be up for hanging out with my friends and I every once in awhile, but I feel like that would be a different issue if she didn't. I can only imagine this being an issue for someone who's quite shallow.

[Dan2287]

Id love to - our personalities would go really well together actually, id almost prefer it :P

[mike5150]

Well I'm a loner myself and I wouldn't mind going out with a girl who is one.

[ThatOtherGuy]

Personally it wouldn't matter to me what other people would think of her no matter the situation because its not them in the relationship its me.

Than again not all guys think the same way I do so.

[Guile]

Hell no id be proud no matter what