I think he needs to cut at least a little to be with you But over all maybe he also needs to find a game you can both play I don't get LOL or Frontire my self but I can play a decent Brahalla or Overwatch I think over all games is a good way to have fun and know someone in a more agrasive wzy 🙄
If you guys don't live together and don't get to see each other every day then yeah he needs to cut back or not play when you're around. That's not fair to you. If you lived together and/or saw each other every day then it would be a different story.
And I will never wrap my head around that game either and I'm a gamer. I really don't understand the hype over it.
I wouldn't want the guy I am with to give up something he enjoys. Maybe limit the time. on that activity. I don't play video games but simpler games like Mario cart, etc I have played with a guy. I also like to lay on the couch while he plays and put my feet in his lap or rub his neck
He goes to work and the moment he’s home he’s gaming. I cook the dinner, he comes down to eat it, and he’s back on until ged. At weekends he games for 12-18 hours per day. And then he blames me for us not spending enough time together.
Wow. That sounds irrational... But of he wants to try and blame you, than maybe you should just go ahead and pick a weekend away or even just a little date night and then let him know. If he refuses your plans, than you can remind him of that the next time he tries to blame you for not spending enough time together. I've seen some people who love gaming. I do as well, but I also don't wanna play nearly that many hours a week. That's pretty up there. Best of luck!
@Jacquelinee94 I do that. But sadly I have no stable income and he earns £2,000 a month. My dad charges £200 rent and the rest is pocket money.
If I suggest plans he’s “too tired cause I’ve been working” (not too tired to drive 200 odd miles to see a friend or spend hours gaming).
I’m given up. I had dreams of marriage and children but I’ve buried those dreams. If he asks he’ll get a no. It’s my lifelong dream and he’s shat on it. I don’t him not to lead me on and he did exactly that.
If you're making time to see him, he ought to make time to spend with you, and ditch the games when you're around. With my ex I chose to skip various social events to spend time with her when I could. If all he's gonna do is play games then you should find something better to do with your time.
Well, I would eventually spend the most possible time with her, have fun time, everything my girlfriend could enjoy. On the spare time, I would play videogames, but with her too. After all, girls also need to learn boy's stuff if they want us to do their things too. ;)
This is why gamers rarely have girlfriends. I personally would rather turn my girlfriend's knobs than those on a game controller. If I had a girlfriend that is the last time you see me playing video games. With that being said, my wife told me if I go skiing one more time she'll leave me. I'd be lying if I said I'm not going to miss her.
Update: I'd hold the controller higher or to the left or right, to give her unfettered access. Then I'd lean back a little for better access to the section of my penis closest to the testicles. I might pause the game during climax.
Well i wouldn't choose to play video games over spending time with girlfriend but i wouldn't give them up. You shouldn't make your partner girlfriend or boyfriend give up something or try controlling what they do. But id say it's not unreasonable for to want him not to play if your there.
I'd try and find a balance, I'd say for a lot of people guys and girls games are a pretty important part of our daily activities, I think it's unreasonable to completely cut out an element of your personality just for your significant other (unless dehabilitiating). For this I'd cut back a bit on time in certain games or try and see if there was anything we could both get into and enjoy games or otherwise
No lol cause to me everyone can have one interest they do very often (accept drugs or alcohol). My girlfriend loves to read and takes a few night a week to sit in our home office alone and read a good book. I hate reading for fun so I wouldn't do that. I let her read cause she likes it. I view it as my girlfriend and i have been together long enough to need our space so we let eachother do what entertains us and have me time.
When I go over to my boyfriends house, we sometimes take turns playing fortnite together and just have fun with it but he always goes to turn it off when I first arrive cause he knows I like attention.
Just try talking to him about it. He can do video games when you’re not around.
Nope. Im a hard gamer playing 7,8 hours a day if I dont go to school (holidays, weekend). I would never quit playing games for someone But I have awesome girlfriend that supports me and even though she hates games she still playes them with me because she loves me. Ofcourse when she is with me I give her all the attention and I cut my time playing to go out with her. But if you love games dont quit them for anyone just spend less time playing and more time with your loved ones
Ewww you said league of fortnite lol 20 hours. 20 hours is all it takes to get decent at something. Take 45 minutes a day and really read up to understand league of legends. Fortnite i still am terrible at atm. But read up and section it apart and learn about it that way and in 2 weeks you'll understand enough to actually start having fun with it. I wouldn't give up something i find enjoyable because i would try my best to incorperate her into it.
No, and I don't even play them that much. Unless it was somehow affecting her health (like of she were sick and I needed more time to take care of her) I'm not changing anything about me or my behavior for someone els. Exceptions include my child, wife, and other close family if It were absolutely necessary.(I'm not gonna ride a motorcycle or do any kind of drugs beyound lighy-social if I have a kid)
I cut back and try to spend more time with a girl when we are seeing each other. Its important that everyone has their hobbies but i feel putting a partner first is a must. To me, if you have a hobby he feels like takes too much time away from him its only fair he cuts back on a hobby that does the same and vise versa. Its all about compromise and communication
I'd never ask him to give them up, because we both enjoy gaming and I like watching him play, but mine literally chose COD over sex with me last night so just tell him that you feel it's important that you're also paid attention to.
I'd let him and even play with him sometimes or just watch him play. I love video games myself and I'm never going to ask a guy to give something up for me. Hell I'd probably even buy him games and cause him to get an addiction
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I think he needs to cut at least a little to be with you
But over all maybe he also needs to find a game you can both play
I don't get LOL or Frontire my self but I can play a decent Brahalla or Overwatch
I think over all games is a good way to have fun and know someone in a more agrasive wzy 🙄
If you guys don't live together and don't get to see each other every day then yeah he needs to cut back or not play when you're around. That's not fair to you. If you lived together and/or saw each other every day then it would be a different story.
And I will never wrap my head around that game either and I'm a gamer. I really don't understand the hype over it.
I wouldn't want the guy I am with to give up something he enjoys. Maybe limit the time. on that activity. I don't play video games but simpler games like Mario cart, etc I have played with a guy. I also like to lay on the couch while he plays and put my feet in his lap or rub his neck
Every evening, I play exactly 2 multiplayer rounds of Halo 5 after work; sometimes only 1.
I would just definitely cut down for my significant other, but I wouldn't give it up completely.
However, she comes first; always! People always first; things and leisure come 2nd, 3rd, or 4th.
Is halo 5 online still kicking? Like is it easy to find games?
I think so. Why? Was it supposed to be dead?
My boyfriend won’t. He’s admitted his addicted.
He goes to work and the moment he’s home he’s gaming. I cook the dinner, he comes down to eat it, and he’s back on until ged. At weekends he games for 12-18 hours per day. And then he blames me for us not spending enough time together.
Wow. That sounds irrational... But of he wants to try and blame you, than maybe you should just go ahead and pick a weekend away or even just a little date night and then let him know. If he refuses your plans, than you can remind him of that the next time he tries to blame you for not spending enough time together.
I've seen some people who love gaming. I do as well, but I also don't wanna play nearly that many hours a week. That's pretty up there.
Best of luck!
@Jacquelinee94 I do that. But sadly I have no stable income and he earns £2,000 a month. My dad charges £200 rent and the rest is pocket money.
If I suggest plans he’s “too tired cause I’ve been working” (not too tired to drive 200 odd miles to see a friend or spend hours gaming).
I’m given up. I had dreams of marriage and children but I’ve buried those dreams. If he asks he’ll get a no. It’s my lifelong dream and he’s shat on it. I don’t him not to lead me on and he did exactly that.
If you're making time to see him, he ought to make time to spend with you, and ditch the games when you're around. With my ex I chose to skip various social events to spend time with her when I could. If all he's gonna do is play games then you should find something better to do with your time.
Well, I would eventually spend the most possible time with her, have fun time, everything my girlfriend could enjoy. On the spare time, I would play videogames, but with her too.
After all, girls also need to learn boy's stuff if they want us to do their things too. ;)
Honey I game too 😏 he doesn't have to give up gaming, he only has to play it with me. I'm totally upset if he plays league without me 😫
This is why gamers rarely have girlfriends. I personally would rather turn my girlfriend's knobs than those on a game controller. If I had a girlfriend that is the last time you see me playing video games. With that being said, my wife told me if I go skiing one more time she'll leave me. I'd be lying if I said I'm not going to miss her.
Update: I'd hold the controller higher or to the left or right, to give her unfettered access. Then I'd lean back a little for better access to the section of my penis closest to the testicles. I might pause the game during climax.
Well i wouldn't choose to play video games over spending time with girlfriend but i wouldn't give them up. You shouldn't make your partner girlfriend or boyfriend give up something or try controlling what they do. But id say it's not unreasonable for to want him not to play if your there.
I'd try and find a balance, I'd say for a lot of people guys and girls games are a pretty important part of our daily activities, I think it's unreasonable to completely cut out an element of your personality just for your significant other (unless dehabilitiating). For this I'd cut back a bit on time in certain games or try and see if there was anything we could both get into and enjoy games or otherwise
and for the update of the question if she started going down on me full attention to her
No lol cause to me everyone can have one interest they do very often (accept drugs or alcohol). My girlfriend loves to read and takes a few night a week to sit in our home office alone and read a good book. I hate reading for fun so I wouldn't do that. I let her read cause she likes it. I view it as my girlfriend and i have been together long enough to need our space so we let eachother do what entertains us and have me time.
When I go over to my boyfriends house, we sometimes take turns playing fortnite together and just have fun with it but he always goes to turn it off when I first arrive cause he knows I like attention.
Just try talking to him about it. He can do video games when you’re not around.
Would you give up your drama or any other female tv shows when he's around?
Her going down on me in the middle of a game is a pretty good reason to stop playing lol
Nope. Im a hard gamer playing 7,8 hours a day if I dont go to school (holidays, weekend). I would never quit playing games for someone But I have awesome girlfriend that supports me and even though she hates games she still playes them with me because she loves me.
Ofcourse when she is with me I give her all the attention and I cut my time playing to go out with her. But if you love games dont quit them for anyone just spend less time playing and more time with your loved ones
Ewww you said league of fortnite lol 20 hours. 20 hours is all it takes to get decent at something. Take 45 minutes a day and really read up to understand league of legends. Fortnite i still am terrible at atm. But read up and section it apart and learn about it that way and in 2 weeks you'll understand enough to actually start having fun with it. I wouldn't give up something i find enjoyable because i would try my best to incorperate her into it.
No, and I don't even play them that much. Unless it was somehow affecting her health (like of she were sick and I needed more time to take care of her) I'm not changing anything about me or my behavior for someone els. Exceptions include my child, wife, and other close family if It were absolutely necessary.(I'm not gonna ride a motorcycle or do any kind of drugs beyound lighy-social if I have a kid)
I cut back and try to spend more time with a girl when we are seeing each other. Its important that everyone has their hobbies but i feel putting a partner first is a must. To me, if you have a hobby he feels like takes too much time away from him its only fair he cuts back on a hobby that does the same and vise versa. Its all about compromise and communication
I'd never ask him to give them up, because we both enjoy gaming and I like watching him play, but mine literally chose COD over sex with me last night so just tell him that you feel it's important that you're also paid attention to.
I'd let him and even play with him sometimes or just watch him play. I love video games myself and I'm never going to ask a guy to give something up for me. Hell I'd probably even buy him games and cause him to get an addiction