Girls, do you date men you think are physically unattractive? (Page 2)

[0wlette]

Sometimes guys who aren't all that good looking when you first meet turn out to be very handsome once you get to know and care about him. The inverse is also true, ie gorgeous guys who get uglier when you get to know them.

[ADFSDF1996]

So it’s more of a illusion. I doubt a guy that looks like a ogre will suddenly turn into a supermodel after a woman gets know him. I’ve always wanted women to find me visually attractive at first rather than later.

[lizziepooh03]

I agree with owlette, as you know from previous discussions. And just as you should know from previous discussions, just because a guy may not be attractive to a female initially, that does not mean that she can not find him attractive later, after she gets to know him.

I know this is hard to comprehend but just because it is hard to comprehend does not make it any less true.

A woman can not find a guy attractive and then later can find a guy attractive and the attraction is not any less real if she originally found him attractive.

It is just how it works for females even though you hate it and do not really believe it. It is what is and the attraction is not any less true or sincere because of it. :)

[ADFSDF1996]

@lizziepooh03 I’m referring to attraction based on looks. I don’t consider liking someone for personality attraction.

[lizziepooh03]

Whether you want to admit it or not does not change the fact that how a woman feels about a person affects her attraction to them or not. It is just how it is regardless of whether you want to believe it is true or not.

[lakphge93]

I did with my first boyfriend but he treated me like shit so i went for someone hot in my next relationship and he also treated me like shit

[TacosRAwesome]

I did. Only then I'd discover their personality matches their looks. So now they neee to look decently cute.

[blizzardz]

No. As much as I'd like to say so, I dont think I could date someone who was unattractive.

[LuWe22]

He is not a Model but he has a friendly face and normal body

[Natisha]

These who said yes, just why?

[Emily_77]

No. I need to be attracted to him.

[Shir2018]

There's gotta be something she finds attractive right...

[ADFSDF1996]

I doubt it, attraction is primarily based on facial aesthetics.

[allylew]

Hell no. There has to be an attraction

[Noora1]

If he is everything I needed why not.

[ADFSDF1996]

So he would be more of a asset than a lover?

[Noora1]

Of course, he would be my lover.

[ADFSDF1996]

Even if he’s ugly?

[Noora1]

Yeah

[ADFSDF1996]

Then you’re not actually attracted to him, you only like him as a person.

[Noora1]

Well.. Just because he is seen ’ugly’ in the society does not mean I will not see him as an attractive person.

[Goliathena]

Looks for me are irrelevant.

[Yuki_JPN]

Absolutely not!

[who-am-i]

my boy friend is attractive

[ADFSDF1996]

In regards to looks?

[who-am-i]

he is attractive inside and out

[alice55]

I wouldn't.

[hasrett]

Nope.

[iamnash]

Well no but maybe