If your partner forgot your birthday, would you be upset?

[Richareens]

Yes

No

Depends

Results

[angelgirl7]

It depends.
If we've only been together like a month it's understandable, but if we've been together for awhile, like 6 months to a year, then I'd be pretty upset.
I'd be disappointed either way but it would be more understandable if you haven't been together long.

[Richareens]

I agree, my Boyfriend forgot mine even though we’ve been together for like a year. That’s disappointing.

[miiszmel]

Yes I would be upset
Its a special day for me
If my partner forgot, that means Im not that important

[Richareens]

What I think too.

[naraku]

I would shit whip her. Forgotten birthday what lame shit is next? I expect nothing but an acknowledgment is nice just as I'm sure she would expect me to remember.

Move on to the next !

[Richareens]

AHAHAHHAHAHA

[Richareens]

Well you wouldn’t! You didn’t slap back your Friend! 😂

[naraku]

No but she wasn't my partner just a buddy. I did get her back though, I always get them back. 😈

So if it's been or is your b'day, I hope you have a happy one Ri ☺

[naraku]

P. S. Hot body too Ri , I'd slap that butt ! ahaha

[Richareens]

Wait so you hit her back?😂

[Richareens]

And I know she wasn’t your partner, silly! And no it’s not my butterfat

[Richareens]

Autocorrect literally changed birthday to butterfat😂

[Richareens]

But thanks Baraku! My Boyfriend forgot my birthday when I randomly asked him, that’s why my ass decided to ask this question 😂 And jeez, don’t slap my butt! It’s sacred as fuck!

[naraku]

No , I didn't hit her. But I put silicone across her car locks so she couldn't access her car. To this day she doesn't know it was me.

Butterfat ? LMAO 😂

[naraku]

Well , I'm not the type of guy to tell you " don't worry " about your boyfriend forgetting your bday. You know me...

Well I like slapping butt , but if I can't then I'll slap something else. hehe

[Richareens]

Ahahahahahah wtf you really pranked her. What does that silicone do though?😂😂

[Richareens]

Yeah I know you have a scary ass side in you that’s blunt and brutally honest 😂🤧 Well go slap your own ass! 😳

[naraku]

The silicone just means she couldn't put her key in to unlock her doors. 😈

Yes I do. Probably too much so.

I've slapped my own ask and it's boring ! Lol
Guess I will ask one of my slaves to do it

[Richareens]

I’ll slap your ass when I come to Australia and be like “Wake the fuck up mate, you got no slaves!” And I see, you’re one sneaky hell of a bitch😩😂 your Friend must’ve gone nuts lol

[Richareens]

😣 gag emojis are jacked, that sad emoji above wasn’t meant to be there!

[naraku]

You can be one of my slaves when you come here. 😉
I try not to put too many emojis here bc they're a bit weird

[naraku]

And yes, she did go nuts. See? Shit whipped. ☺

[Richareens]

You must be drunk, friggin Paul 😂😂

[naraku]

why? Because of the silicone stunt? Or because I said you could be a slave?

[Richareens]

The slave part! 😖😂

[naraku]

What's wrong with that? Pushing my boundaries?

[Richareens]

Sounded wrong ahahaha

[naraku]

Oh OK, Well sorry , I will not add you to my slaves I guess. hehe

[Richareens]

I’m not gonna freaking wipe your damn cracked floors, Naraku!

[naraku]

haha

not the type of slave I'm talking about ! 😉😛

[Leo3572]

I don't care. I guess I would be a bit happy about it. I hate all this congratulations, presents and stuff. Couldn't be happier

[Richareens]

Very interesting.

[PinkChampagne]

Of course... But won't show it...

[anuragk033]

There's no way I'm forgetting you're bd and you know why 😅😘

[PinkChampagne]

😅😘😘😘

[dominatedude]

Hahahahaha. Nope. Birthdays are numerical soup to anyone who hasn't known ya for fifteen years! Hahahahahahah even then...

[Richareens]

I didn’t think it would be that funny 😳

[Noora1]

They do it all the time, and I have actually stopped caring.

[Noora1]

Sorry I read it wrong, I don't even have a partner😂

[Richareens]

It’s fine if you don’t! Thanks for still answering c:

[Noora1]

You're welcome^^

[Richareens]

Hehe😊

[baegirlbae18]

My partners always used to forget my birthday
I've stopped caring

[SilverRain92]

Are you sure that you are very important for him?

[baegirlbae18]

I wasn't that's why they're my ex lol

[Richareens]

Nice 😄

[SilverRain92]

Hang on, girl! You will find some caring guy for sure ;)

[lostgirl_searching]

No I wouldn't care. I actually stopped caring about my birthday after I turned 18. My birthday was on March 30th and I honestly forgot. Until while at work my boyfriend called me and said, " happy birthday nerd " so I was like oh yeah thanks.

[FinalVow]

nope I don't celebrate my birthday, Christmas, Easter, Thanksgiving, Halloween you get the idea.

[Richareens]

Basically you find them useless?

[FinalVow]

no I celebrate them if my friends want to but personally most of these holidays are about demonstrating something you should do anyways all year around. like valentines day. you supposed to treat your SO super special that 1 day. wtf? that is not what valentines day is about. it is supposed to be a day to celebrate 2 people as a couple. I guess I don't do it because most people do it for wrong reasons which killed it for me

[Richareens]

I respect your opinion.

[FinalVow]

well that is great I was worried for a second ;) good question by the way

[Richareens]

Why were you worried? 😂 And thank you!

[FinalVow]

was a joke :) kind of an old fashioned joke. Basically a guy is going to go somewhere blah blah blah. and the person recruiting said guy says your wife said "he goes with my blessing". to which he replies oh thank goodness I was worried I was going without them. I know cringe I should find better material at the dollar store. (double cringe lol)

[Richareens]

Yeah cringe ahahaha. But I like the cringe part!😂

[GirlyGirlPrim]

Um, yeah! I would be furious! How do you forget the day I was born.

[Richareens]

😂😂😂

[Ahsthen]

Remembering your birth date, and caring about celebrating it are different things.

[Queen_gamer]

I’d be more confused if he forgot because our birthdays are in the same month and I talk about it for the entire month there should be no way he could forget

[Richareens]

Haha I would be worried af too 😂

[hahahmm]

No. Because SO usually remembers & tries to be giving. If a family memory with a history of being self-centered forgets it has a totally different meaning. I have also noticed that if I forgot yo give a sister a mother day’s card she just happens to forget to give a BD card a month later. But my reaction is to not give af.

[zaza111]

Depends, I dated once a guy who forgot my birthday, when he found out that the day before it was my birthday, he went out and returned with like 300 of flowers, I found it silly, spending all those money on flowers, but I was also touched by his gesture and appreciated it! So, I din't mind he forgot my birthday.

[imredheaded]

Not really, no. I don't think birthdays are that important. If she forgot my name then we've got a real issue

[Richareens]

Yeah the name part would be pretty fucked up😂

[VIVANT]

dont care. i feel like my birthday happened already when i was born. i dont need to keep harping on it. feels indulgent.

[Hannah0304]

I would be upset and feel like he doesn't care or if he is trully busy. But I know it doesn't really matter as a lot of people around me dont celebrate or even remember their special days. I have stopped to celebrate it 2 years ago as well.

[M0NG00SE]

I'm 32 now, really only the 5 and 0 years matter now so if she forgot one of those, yeah I'd be pissed

[Richareens]

5 and 0 years?

[M0NG00SE]

35, 40 etc

[Richareens]

Why do they matter more than others?

[Dxk007]

Nope, since I myself forget my family's birthday. But, if my friends forget my birthday even though, they are on Facebook, I'd never forgive them.

[Richareens]

Ahaha the latter statement was funny.

[Dxk007]

Although, I seriously cut ties with them.

[Richareens]

Now that’s a bit too far, don’t you think? 😳

[Dxk007]

Nope, since they always ask for a treat or party.
Even if, I was absent that day, they ask for it tomorrow.

[Ayer93]

I never forget my partner's birthday and I would most definitely be upset if they forgot it.

[Richareens]

That’s good!

[alexjohn]

Well it's the natural thing well my birthday is at 14 feb and believe me my love one always forget to wish me but that fine unless no one wishing you

[Richareens]

Do you get upset or remind her?

[alexjohn]

When i was a child,,,,,, sometimes i cried that people didn't care about me but it's a natural thing which i get to know with the passage of time...

[alexjohn]

Anyhow happy birthday

[alexjohn]

🎂🎂🎂🎂

[Richareens]

Aww you should tell your love it upsets her! But then who am I to say that, I gave my man a cold shoulder and he was like “Okay be mad” in which I ignored his reply. We haven’t talked since, it’s been some many hours 😂

[Richareens]

And no it’s not my birthday but thanks a ton dude! :)

[Richareens]

It upsets you**

[alexjohn]

Well my breakup was already done and she didn't even wish me after that... but that's fine bcz i have my parents to celebrate my birthday with me

[Richareens]

Aww that’s sweet, parents’ love never dies.

[alexjohn]

Definitly,,,,, believe me they always give me the shoulder whenever i need them specially my mom...

[Richareens]

Aww, Glad to hear that. I love my mom too! Actually more than my dad, admittedly.

[alexjohn]

Well i guess we just come out too much away from your question,,,,,, i guess i'm always like that start explaining myself and if we continue the talk i'll just start telling you all the incident of my life and i don'T want that infront of so many people,,,, Anyhow nice too meet you and hope you'll get your answer

[Ahsthen]

I haven't observed such shit for decades. I've had to beat some of my SOs off with a spoon because they wouldn't give up on it.

[Richareens]

Spoon? That’s nasty aha.

[Sovrin]

I hate my my birthday it makes me feel old, and I'm only 18, so I'd consider it a good thing if my partner forgot.

[Richareens]

Different thoughts.

[Ahsthen]

Fu-ckin me-ntal.

[1nittol3arn]

I'm pretty bad at remembering birthdays. I forget them often, so I wouldn't be upset.

[Richareens]

My boyfriend gave me the same reason. That he’s bad at numbers and he can’t even remember his sister’s.

[1nittol3arn]

Yep. I only remeber my brothers. And that's because it's on Valentine's day. 😂

I wouldn't remeber his either.

[1nittol3arn]

I'm glad you put polls on here. Curious to find out the end result. 😂

I think that more guys wouldn't be upset and more gals will be.

[Richareens]

You guys are mean 😜😂

[1nittol3arn]

So are most gals. Part of give and take 😂😋

[Richareens]

I remembered my man’s birthday, he didn’t! 🤧 I remembered the day he first asked me out (after 4 days, I said yes), and he didn’t! Doubt he’s forgotten the anniversary too.

[Richareens]

Doubt he’s remembered*

[1nittol3arn]

Never celebrated anniversaries. 😶

[Richareens]

Cool.

[1nittol3arn]

I don't know if it is... You got me thinking now...

[Richareens]

Haha well don’t think too much.

[motownplayer2000]

Nah, it’s not a big deal to me... I try to forget my bday anyways...

[Richareens]

Why so?

[motownplayer2000]

I’ve just never had people celebrate my bday... even my parents as much... so I’m use to it just being another day...

[Richareens]

Aww that’s kinda sad :/

[motownplayer2000]

Nah, it’s fine... it’s just everyday life... I move forward... lol

[Richareens]

You’ve got a positive attitude.

[motownplayer2000]

That’s the only way to get through life is too be positive. Real, but always have a positive outlook about it.. and where you want to be! I’m all about that!

[Richareens]

Aww, you do you!

[motownplayer2000]

What is your outlook on life? How do you view the world?

[Richareens]

I like to be positive but I get dragged down by negative thoughts sometimes. It’s not always easy.

[motownplayer2000]

What negative thoughts do you have that brings you down?

[BlackParade]

Lmao my dad forgot my mom's b day twice in a row 😂😂😂

[Richareens]

Haha and my dad doesn’t give a shit about birthdays!

[jaidee]

I forget my own birthday sometimes.
If she's pretty busy, then she has a valid excuse and gets a pass.

[Malita55]

Omg yes. I would never forget his and I would expect the same. He knows how much I value my birthday. And he knows me too well to forget it

[PeachyyPrincess]

We all forget things sometimes it's really not something to make a big deal about

[makay000]

I hate birthdays so I don't think I'd care that much

[qxeenrrose]

Do I look like a calendar.
No.
Neither does other people.
No shame in forgetting.

[Guanfei]

Not really, since people usually never wish me, I often end up forgetting about it myself.

[Richareens]

Haha aww.

[Glass_Cat]

Nope, I’m terrible at remembering dates so if they forget mine that’s fine with me lol.

[BigBo269]

No one can ferget B-Day these days because if u have a FB it tells u who BDay it is so if u didn't pay any mind to it then Hell yeah come on glue

[Richareens]

We don’t use Facebook much.

[zecky]

Of course I would be upset is like they're forgetting aboiut you little by little.

[Richareens]

True.

[ralphjones292]

Were all getting lof of age older noct

[ralphjones292]

Its ok to for get at the end of the night.. as long as You remember and noci

[zecky]

Of course you will forgive them eventually but they have to make up for it is still not acceptable.

[kaskas19]

No. I don't care about my birthday. Hell, I even forget about it sometimes.

[LucyGrace]

It rewlly depends. If he is in a clinch then I it's fine.

[reiko3636]

If it was a spur of the moment question, I can't hold that against them... bc I would forget too... but if it was the actual date... and they're getting a shit ton of notifications from all over... there's no excuse

[ralphjones292]

No i won't be upset cause every one do forget
Things from time to time..

[Richareens]

Well you’re forgiving.

[ralphjones292]

I guess we all gut a take on who would be up set and who wouldn't

[Snowomann]

Once I forgot my ex's birthday and he was very angry and upset with it lol despite being 24 years old

[dannyuk]

I've never forgotten a birthday but I've never done cards or gifts either. She gets a happy birthday in the morning and that's about it.

[veronicalynn]

We have been together 17 years so he best not be forgetting lol

[AquaBoo]

Not really. After a certain amount of time however it would become a problem.

[ThePundertaker]

I don’t care about my birthday. Except for like legal things. Besides that I really don’t care and I wouldn’t expect a nice girl to.

[Rica001]

It depends on his or her distance and what he or she is passing through.

[2tall2handle]

It’s just another day to me, so I really wouldn’t care if she forgot.

[trocev16]

I say it depends because given what's gone on at the time, I've forgotten my own birthday. You never know what somebody else could be going through that they're not telling you.

[Mrblueballs42]

Of course because if they love me they will remember.

[JulieXO]

Yeah definitely, especially if it were a long term thing.

[inhalemydong]

No, because I can't remember anyone's birthday so I'm not mad when someone forgets mine

[Bonitaermosa]

Prepare for battle baby... i would kill him!! Lol...

[MrMatasch]

ahahaha

[Bonitaermosa]

@MrMatasch remember your only alone once the party leaves... so figure the rest!!

[spartan55]

Dumped a girl for this.

[Richareens]

Harsh but you do you lol😗

[spartan55]

It was the last straw in a pattern of selfish behavior from this girl. Not a sttand alone thing.

[Richareens]

I see, wise decision.

[icedragoom]

For the first 2, 3 years I wouldn't be up set but after that I would start to wonder if she is paying attention to me

[teddybear10]

No because they probably don't care if your with someone who loves u they should remember everything that makes u happy and that is ur birthday so

[Streamhopper]

It's happened twice now, so no, I'm fine.

[Richareens]

Do you remind them?

[Streamhopper]

Yeah. She's really bad on dates. I do love her, though. I know it's not intentional.

[Richareens]

That’s good you’re understanding.

[joekool]

Yes but I will understand if there are circumstances

[Krusty]

I would be very upset, unless she did something to foegive her

[Shimy]

No, I just forgot my own birthday so... :3

[Aribella]

Same

[Richareens]

Aww haha :)

[Salih06]

Of course I would, being forgotten permanently hurts the heart

[GrantGoodnight]

Yes, a good partner remembers special dated in there partners lifes!

[Slim57]

Of course I make it an effort to find out soon when each others birthdays are

[mb26x26]

I too forget her birthday.. haha lol nope i dont upset

[dannyako1]

Lol I don't remember anything so I am 100% going to forget

[psywarrior84]

It would honestly depend on how serious the relationship was, and how long we've been together.