Your Lover Forgot your birthday. How would you react?

[hazal21]

What you will do if your girlfriend/boyfriend forget your birthday?

[DaniaMQ]

Well i would be disappointed coz I wouldn't forget his b-day BUT I would text at the end of the day ( Just In Case he remembers During Any Time Of The Day ) and tell him " U made me a bit sad today :( " He'll ask why and i would just Tell him , so He would tell me the reason, ask Me To Forgive Him For forgetting , Promise He won't Forget Again and I would understand :) ! But if he forgets it again... Oh boy... Haha :)

[hazal21]

But if he forgets again then its time to leave him. I think.. 😊

[DaniaMQ]

Hahaha I dont think I'll leave him :D but he better have a REALLY GOOD excuse To Not make me sad this time coz I will be disappointed especially that he promised he won't forget it again SOOO in order for me to cheer up he will have to apologize AND bring any gift even If it was a bunch of flowers haha :)

[DaniaMQ]

My b-day is in August , lets see if he will forget :o Haha :D I hope not lol !

[hazal21]

Haha yeah 😊 hope he remembers it this time !

[DaniaMQ]

Haha I really hope that too :)

[Shawnilulu]

Id start kickin ass what chu mean? lol haha well id prob not say anything till the end of the day or the next morning and be laughing id doubt he would forget but now I kinda want him to so i can attack! but how do you forget September 11th!! lol

[hazal21]

Lol !!

[Stacyzee]

I would be upset :(

But I would quickly get over it after a little while.
If they made it a habit to do this, only then would I make a huge issue out of it.

[hazal21]

finally someone thinks just like me :P
i would also create a huge issue haha :D

[Stacyzee]

lol! yeah.. its my day :P how dare you forget and keep forgetting!! lol

[hazal21]

haha yeah and i would be like ''yah don't talk to me for 1 week until you buy me chocolates flowers stiletto, pumps, kitten heels shoes, elie saab's dresses' :D i would make him suffer. :o. why did he even forget my birthday?

[Stacyzee]

Does he always forget your birthday? :( He has a bad memory.
He should write it down.

[hazal21]

nope he forgot it only once and i was really hurted. i didn't say anything to him but i just ignored him. Later he apologized deeply and i just want to see if he remembers it this time or not.

[Stacyzee]

Give him a chance.. im sure he remembers. When is your birthday?

[hazal21]

21st September.
yes i already forgave him a long time ago :)
i just want to see if he remembers it this time or not.

[Stacyzee]

He better remember!!

Or you'll go Mike Tyson on him.

[hazal21]

haha yeah i hope he does remember :)

[hazal21]

I can't stop laughing, Ofcourse i will go mike tyson on him haha

[Stacyzee]

Lol! :)

[hazal21]

im sure you read it from the opinion comments of the FBI bert :D

[Stacyzee]

huh? lol?
no. he didn't even say anything like that.

[hazal21]

no i said that i will do a wrestling if he forgets my bday :D

[Stacyzee]

lol! ;P that's funny.
He better be scared

[hazal21]

hahahaha yeah

[llorando]

If they don't care enough to remember my birthday, hard to tell what else they don't care about. Not remembering my birthday I'd be extremely sad and disappointed.

[llorando]

Thanks for MH :D.

[hazal21]

Pleasure :)

[JohnBhoy94]

If they forget your Birthday, they don't care - full stop.

[hazal21]

yeah. :( true

[zombiebabe]

makes sense

[Mycsph]

Birthdays are important to me. I'd be hurt. I wouldn't forget important dates about him so I expect him to do the same.

[hazal21]

yeah :) your right. i also do the same. i always remember all the important dates about him and i also expect him to remember mines too.

[rgb008]

My birthday isn't that important to me.
I'd rather forget I'm turning 21 and entering the real world eventually hahaha

[hazal21]

Hahahaha. The real world haha yeah

[MissNowhere]

I'd be sad and upset. Birthdays are not that important to me, but it'd still hurt that they forgot.

[hazal21]

yeah it really hurts when your lover forgets your birthday

[MissNowhere]

Did it happen to you?

[hazal21]

yeah only once

[MissNowhere]

That sucks :(

[hazal21]

yeah really. but still its better to let your lover know that your hurt if they care they will apologize if they don't. Then probably it's time to think about a break up
did it happen to you too?

[MissNowhere]

Lol no, I've never had a ''lover''

[hazal21]

i hope you get one! :)

[MissNowhere]

I hope so too XD

[Strider90]

Indifferent. I forget such dates all the time. There are informations more important that I must have in mind.

[hazal21]

well do you have a girlfriend? if yes Then you MUST remember her b-day date at least. :P

[Strider90]

Im single.

[hazal21]

then keep the informations in your mind :)
Good boy! sexy free and single. No Tension about remembering someone's Birthday :P

[Strider90]

Thank you for the kind words :)

[hazal21]

:) My Pleasure haha

[mooky06]

I would be hurt. I hope he would make it up to me though.

[Levin]

She's done it before (an ex). I found it hilarious. I waited til the end of the evening, and then said, 'so, what have you gotten me for my birthday?', haha. Her face, all the colour drained, she thought I'd go mad. I didn't care. I guess I'm pretty understanding... Those few seconds of her catching on, her expressions, priceless.

[hazal21]

you didn't cared? then it means you both didn't loved each other truly. because she forgot your birthday and you didn't seem to care lol

[Levin]

Course I cared. I cared deeply. But it's just another day. I don't place much importance on birthdays. It's just another thing that you're conditioned to believe is important. It's pure superficiality, stupid gestures and materialistic nonsense. Relationships are about communication, and deep intimacy. I don't need her to prove her love for me. I know it. I'm not insecure about it...

[tragicallyinlove]

I'd be slightly offended, but it's fine. He's bad at remembering dates.

[hazal21]

oh dear no, talk to him about it and let him know that you were hurted.
A True lover will always remember your birthday no matter what.

[AmethystAngel]

I would be greatly disappointed but if they had a reason then I would let them be.

[BertMacklinFBI]

I assume I'd be disappointed but shit happens

[hazal21]

like what kind of shit happens?

[BertMacklinFBI]

well them forgetting is part of shit happens lol but prior to that they could have been super busy or caught up with something or been drastically stressed lately or all combined which could have contributed to them forgetting my birthday. I won't hold it against them.

[hazal21]

well that makes sense. but still they can wish by calling or sending a text message or through someone or something else they can even wish at 11:59 pm? lol

[BertMacklinFBI]

true they can, but you know anything can happen. sometimes people just make mistakes. we're human.

[hazal21]

Agree. But what if they weren't busy? they were enjoying playing etc. to be honest i would've had a wrestling with him if he forgets my b-day even when he's not ''that much'' busy.

[BertMacklinFBI]

if that were the case, then I'd be bummed but I wouldn't bring it up to her.

[hazal21]

well you should bring it up to her. let her know that you felt sad. so that she may be careful for the next time :)

[BertMacklinFBI]

ill wait and see if she catches herself and brings it up to me :P

[hazal21]

haha after she sees the calendar :D

[BertMacklinFBI]

that cheater! well it happens lol

[hazal21]

hahaha

[I_am_repulsive]

That would totally suck, but maybe they will come up with a surprise birthday party?

[hazal21]

yeah just wait till 11:59 pm. if no surprise then it means he/she forgot your birthday

[I_am_repulsive]

Like I said, it would suck

[hazal21]

lol yeah totally suck

[Kenzy-Yinn]

Disappointed, but she better makes me feel better

[MattAyyy]

No big deal. Birthdays are just like any another day except which you just happen to be born in.

[hazal21]

but if your loved one forgets your birthday? won't you feel hurt?

[MattAyyy]

I was only being specific to the fact that my lover forgot my birthday, forgetting isn't a crime and there is no reason to make a big deal about this.

I would be pretty pissed if they forgot it every year or at least didn't acknowledge it after realizing it like "Hey, I totally forgot it was your birthday yesterday, I'm so sorry"

And thanks for the downvote guys.

[hazal21]

Your more than welcome

[Bigclit]

hm i wouldn't care.. my own mother forgot so it wouldn't bother me

[hazal21]

lol :D

[Bigclit]

lol :D

[BehindTheFront]

Qualify lover.
Is it a boyfriend or just a sf?

[hazal21]

Boyfriend

[KFettario]

I would not care. I would remind him.

[hazal21]

And what about him? he is supposed to remember and he should care about your birthday and to give u a b-day present. why would you have to remind him? he should remember it by himself

[KFettario]

I just mean it is a little thing.