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From my point of you a girl willing to split on the first is rare and earns my respect.
I'm still waiting for the day a girl offers to pay for me on the first date (or on any date actually).
I think it’s a good idea to, because you still don’t know if you want to continue dating each other
Yes, that's how it should be until you guys are serious
In the era of gender equality, splitting the tab only makes sense
Absolutely fine with me. Is either we go dutch, or I treat him the next round. I will insist to go dutch actually.
I personally think it’s a great idea for a first date
I think whoever did the asking/invitation should pay.
I'd much prefer that tbh I can't stand the idea of owing someone
In my humble opinion, whoever did the asking is asking the other person to tolerate them for an evening, see if they're truly worthy. So, the least the asker could do is pay for the first date. Almost all subsequent dates should be split
Sure, doesn’t really matter. It’s nice if they pay, but I don’t mind splitting the bill
It is either he paying or me, I am not fan of splitting.
All for it. I think if you meet a friends with benefits for the first time, and she wants to get a room, it should be split too. Why do I need to pay the whole amount
No dutching I would pay the bill. I am sure each and every girl would want to be independent... paying for their own item but still I would pay... I have money and it is too b spent...
I dont mind, but... who will proceed to ask for the second date?
Nah if invite I pay.
Money is the last thing on my mind on a first date.
I feel if the consensus was go Dutch then I feel it'd be fine but as a guy you can't say go Dutch after the bill is recieved. I've never had any experience with going on a date, but this is what I think
Maybe I am from the old school but if someone goes on a date with me I will pay for her and mine self.
I prefer paying at first , later would be alright. Its the chivalry way of doing things.
Everyone would be better served with this being the norm
That's fine, but I'm not eating anything out of the oven.