Why is there such a high physical standard for women, but not men? (Page 6)

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Women must have big boobs, big butt, no stomach, be thick but with no fat in the undesirable regions, be pretty, have long hair, be average height. Men can look however they want and still shame women for not having what they want. This is because I saw a post online saying "How do you flat ass girls feel when you walk past a group of guys knowing you about to ruin their day?"

Pizza_lover159 · Answer

Because most women go for money. Not love. Of course men will want a hot woman. .

jwarren265 · Answer

As a guy who has had my imperfections plainly known, having it effect my life and how many friends i have, how many girl will even give me the light of day, I find this post extremely offensive

Snowball_ll · Answer

Not all guys are into those types of bodies... just saying. Men actually have it tougher - we have to have good careers and lots of money, which takes years and years of work and luck to obtain. Really, a year of dieting will take care of 90% of appearance issues for girls.

Nothanks700 · Answer

Maybe. But men also get body shamed for being fat, ugly, too skinny, too big, etc. it’s a bit of a fallacy to suggest women are the only recipients of that judgement.

rinx91 · Answer

some women ignore physical standard cause they realise thats its not the main point to have good relationship... its the character or the person matters..

mrcatkins · Answer

Men want attractive girls. Girls want successful men who are not too ugly. PS I like small boobs better then the really big ones.

deuslapis · Answer

First of all, me and most of the guys I know dont have those crazy standards for women. Secondly men are also held to standards just like women. Just different standards.

AndyDoc · Answer

We all have different physical standards and not every person is the same. I know some men and women who have the highest standards of the century and others who barely have any as long as you have a good personality.

ArnHro · Answer

Ehe, women usually like men with huge muscles instead of big hearts, no worries, social preassure isn't just for girls, it's just that we are rised in a Sexist society where girls are there to please men in exchange of bringing money at home.

Soblfob · Answer

We go for good looking dollybirds, you go for oligarchs, didn't matter how old and fat and ugly I am, all you want to know is how much money I've got, we're both as superficial, we deserve one another.

german_of_steel · Answer

This is just plain wrong. I wouldn't be surprised if it's actually higher for men but it seems kind of impossible and pointless to compare. Do you really think you should generalise from one troll post to all men?

ArronTheSubwayKid · Answer

Women have the same standards they just ignore any men who dont fit their own standards. Also we as men gotta have everything else like a house, car, money, dick, aggressive take charge personality etc

Paradoxicfox · Answer

Its when dudes start believing THEY can drezs how they WANT and look good. Nope. More guys need to ask an honest, clasdy lady what looks really really dumb n what not to ever walk ouy in public/ mow the lawn in.

Angeladalene · Answer

I don't really think it's just guys fault, women do it as well. I think personally that everyone has their idea of a "perfect" person that fits them. It's just really based on the type of person you are attracted to.

dandiecandie · Answer

Because i increased the standards with my fabulousness lol

Malik00 · Answer

the fuck are you remotely talking about? Do you know how many women start ripping at men who dont look like this?

Anonymous · Answer

Never said men didn’t have body standards I’m saying the standards for women hurt my feeling because I am a woman I am 4”9 117 I love all types of body types stop straw maning what I said to push your agenda I’ll restate the question because I don’t think most of your understand what I was saying or just didn’t give a shit. WOULD YOU BE WITH A WOMEN WHO didn't MEET INSTAGRAM SLIM THICC TYPE STANDARDS AND LOVE THEM FOR THEM?

Dim1213 · Answer

Wanna bet girl!!! I'm constantly skinny shamed by poeple.

nealwilliams224 · Answer

Good question. We've come a long way in terms of social equality, but we still have a load road ahead of us.

rain_maker112 · Answer

With my height, I am considered as dead by the majority of people. This question just makes no sense to me.

The1Guy · Answer

Don't take everything you read on the internet to heart. Be more selective.

Brand-O · Answer

Excuse you? Try being a man that is 5ft6in tall and tell me that there are no rediculious physical standards placed on men by women...

PoliceLivesMatter · Answer

BIOLOGY. Studies show that men AND women view women as objects and men as people.

dosiax · Answer

Lol stfu dude do you even hear urself? U women are fucked up about looks, u always want the prince charming, not us. Gtfo

Holyguga · Answer

Ummm think you are ignoring the standards for men just because you don't feel the pressure they feel.

Swifting_Through · Answer

I think this is not always the case - for instance I have a chubby belly and small (ish) breasts and guys usually find me sexy/desirable.

Anonymous · Answer

Everyone's shallow in one way or another. And the men and women on here CONSTANTLY berade each other. Do most of the stupid ass questions they ask in regard to appearance do have a certain charm to them.

Takewithagrainofsalt · Answer

Its the same way that guys have to be super extroverted, confident, funny, and successful. And a girl doesn't have to be any of those things to be attractive.

JonnyTrauma · Answer

Actually guy get it too flat stomach stylish hair gym body beard no beard body wax body hair and the list goes on. Both genders can be demanding of certain standards

studDMuffF1n · Answer

Women: be lean, the rest is genetics, through in some ass workouts if you want. Men: be lean with as much muscle as possible, be tall, rest is genetics.

MasterMichael · Answer

Um... there is no double standard. There are high physical standards women have for men. Many men like myself don't measure up. We are rejected a lot and called ugly a lot by women we are attracted to.

Ljd213 · Answer

I have standards because I don't want to get f**ked over from the person I am dating.

The girls I keep meeting are super dependable on me, my money, my time, everything. So this lady better be worth taking care of.

ABHI0007 · Answer

Its the problem for those guy who dont love they need a body just as a machine for sex so they talk like this way when girl willask the same question to them then boys can't answer them so love soul not a body

mcget · Answer

Man have to be trained, with sixspack.. good muscled.. nice trim. Oo and cute and sweet and strong and we need to do everything for you. But you are such a strong woman..

How many guys do you dislike or are not good enough for you?

monkeynutts · Answer

You should try and get some statistics to back that up. Unfortunately this site rarely ever gets used as an educational tool. If what you say is 100% true than I'm an exception, and the rest of you are doomed.

AD240pCharlie · Answer

It's not like a lot of women will refuse to go out with a man who's 5'5 only because of his height...
Everyone has a type. You can't blame anyone for that.
Also, EVERYONE should have high standards and not just "settle" for something.

Dixipulok · Answer

i like. flat, small, big, and all kind of ass... lol

Trapistan · Answer

IT GOES BOTH WAYS. Ypu answered the questipn for you'reself by putting *PHYSICAL STANDARDS* Of course Girls have higher standards for looks, but that evens out for the fact that men have higher standards for they're manhood.

Anonymous · Answer

I would try not to focus on what the media depicts as beautiful. There are people out there who will love you and your body as they are.
The same goes for guys. We can't look at most magazines without seeing ripped abs and toned bods. can't live life trying to make everyone else happy.
Just stay healthy for you and love yourself. Everything else will fall into place.

pasimuscle · Answer

I just don't think that that's the way it is. Most of these guys will be idiots and there sure are girls like this too

deric_97 · Answer

Cuz we weren't equal physically. And humans are pretty shallow, they mostly judge what they see. So there you go. Fuck you, 3 day notification.

MMM369 · Answer

I don’t care about that much.. as long as she has a normal butt that’s not flat or long looking and her boobs are at least a B I could care less

InformMe87 · Answer

I wouldn’t say there isn’t. Obviously both genders have extremes, however women’s is more acknowledged than for men.

damoM · Answer

Simple, women have reduced themselves to nothing but sex objects. That's what happens in a hookup culture. The quality of sex is paramount

Buzzard9510 · Answer

I'd suggest you just ignore the flat ass comment. That person is an idiot. Also, women have standards for me as well...

Joe_R0yAle · Answer

Um guys have standards too both physically and financially

SpiritBear · Answer

I say that there are many expectations of guys too, but that doesn’t make me worth any less, and neither are you.

yruhere4now · Answer

its a lot tougher for guys in the dating world than for women. that said, guys that bag on women they are not attracted to are idiots. pay no mind to that. go find the right guy for you

G35guy94 · Answer

Not sure what you mean. There is a high physical standard for men also. I've heard women say they only go for men with muscular arms and a six pack, be above 6ft also.

grkmanga · Answer

Um... as a man... if he wants any chance of competing in online dating... especially like tinder... you better believe he needs to be on his game and look the part. Competition is huge.

Anonymous · Answer

that's b's, you've been triggered by a male troll lololol

AynonOMouse · Answer

I don't like big boobs or too much curves (wide hips) because to me both of those make her seem too fat.  Long or medium hair is accurate. I don't want a pixie cut dyke looking girl.

Aynsof · Answer

I think women have higher standards for men than men do for women However it may possibly be that fewer of these standards women have for men are purely physical...

dansx · Answer

Personally I have never seen an ugly girl. They are all beautiful. I do prefer a petite figure but I also like the full figure too. To me it's not about looks but personalities

zombiebacon21 · Answer

It kind of funny most of time I don't feel like I look good enough or something a woman would be proud of it, so ikind of get what ur say about woman feel not good enough most of the time

YHL6965 · Answer

First, your idea of high standard is false since standards are subjectives. Second, women have standards too. I don't know what message you are trying to tell us here.

abhivashisht98 · Answer

Actually thats not true, its a lot easier for girls to get guys than for the guys to get girls, like fat girls still get guys but fat guys are mostly single

name_is_eric · Answer

Men have to have refined abs, wide shoulders, must be above 6.4", must have at least a 9" member, must have a chiseled jawline, must have symmetric face. See? It works for both genders.

Shoenron · Answer

Because you are self centered. Physical standards are for every gender. Women have it better than men because as a guy there is nothing you can do about your height/baldness/penis size/facial hairs.

RicoSuave123 · Answer

what sense does that make lol the guy is dumb big or small we end up looking anyway lol we like women no you do not have to fit some stupid standard hun do not worry dress normally you will be fine

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