Why is there such a high physical standard for women, but not men? (Page 7)

Question

Women must have big boobs, big butt, no stomach, be thick but with no fat in the undesirable regions, be pretty, have long hair, be average height. Men can look however they want and still shame women for not having what they want. This is because I saw a post online saying "How do you flat ass girls feel when you walk past a group of guys knowing you about to ruin their day?"

Anonymous · Answer

uh, you sure about that?, lol, in fact, men likely have MORE expectations than women do.. it's just women get blamed for it more, if they're not living up to there's because they're supposed to be the "more beautiful sex", right?

74hrbryd6e · Answer

Because the majority of men do not care about how they look, but the majority of women do care how they look.

In reality no-one cares about how anyone looks. Looks are just extra shit that's nice to have

CT_CD · Answer

Women have high physical standards for men. Most women want tall and handsome Chad Thundercock and aren't even attracted to the average looking guy while most men are plenty sexually attracted to even average looking women.

Hellyeahbidi · Answer

Thats is not true at all, all men in movies or magasine or tv show have a perfect jaw line, perfect hair, perfect teeths, perfect muscles, abs, tall. That is not true at all. We just care less i guess.

decent__devil_ · Answer

Its human tendency to want what they desire. Men like such kind of figure, they just talk about it, if they see a women not matching upto their imagination, they'll talk rubbish and add comments. Never bother about such nuisance.

ThatWeirdDude · Answer

1. Stereotypes
2. You are ranting about physical standards because of one post you saw
3. This is the internet so fuck you
4. Fuck you again

But to be serious, there is a pretty high physical standard for both genders, not just for women.

gcusack · Answer

Your listening to the wrong people, I like girls that are comfortable with themselves and keep themselves fit, all that injected plastic is repulsive

JasonKrueger · Answer

Because being like Chris Hemsworth and Chris Evans isn't high physical standard for men.

stifler1979 · Answer

Guys get shamed by women, too, just in different ways. We all have it rough one way or the other so just accept it.

coolgod · Answer

It's not so Would u like a guy with man boobs, big belly, unmaintained beard and bad hair Even v have to work out on our body

dsgaboy · Answer

You sound like a huge drama queen, men avoid those more than fat girls

Gavyn · Answer

There are literally just as many standards for men as there are for women. You just don't hear us complaining about it.

Anonymous · Answer

Big pockets, 6 pack, nice car, good looking, grate smile, funny but not to funny, charming but not too charming, Big penis (Sorry but it's the truth) umm I think I cover the most for guys so yes there is a lot of physical standards for guys too

The_Psych_Student · Answer

Not all guys are like that. Most of us don't care, it's personality that we care most about

ArchersArrow · Answer

you want your boyfriend to be that hot? don't ask for him to spend his money on you

Guanfei · Answer

Yeah, because women don't look for muscular successful hot guys with money, and movies, ads and magazines show only fat ugly dude. Are you high?

DanOh2018 · Answer

Uh women have more choices than men do on the dating/scene. I literally don't know wtf you are talking about.

winterfox10 · Answer

I think people are more vocal against women, but believe me when I say that the standards are just as high for us.

soreel34 · Answer

That it's wrong. Fuck how you look, can you clean and cook, can you hold your ground. Can you handle my humor my self you girls think we care how you look we really dont that's just a bonus

Heirio · Answer

There are also standards for men. Height is quite a significant one in my opinion, which is not a very good standard seeing that, unlike weight, it cannot be changed.

Mrblueballs42 · Answer

Not all men like like big butts nor do they like overly big boobs. Women shame men all the time.  I guess us men know what we like just like women know what they like.

IndyChris · Answer

Seems to me women care less about looks than men and it had always been that the woman must attract the man. The men have typically been the pursuers and the women the suitors and deciders.

avalos99 · Answer

90% of guys don't give a shit about that women, gays, and insecure asshole make women feel like that. Yes we like beautiful women but when we settle down it for the way we feel with that person

jasco · Answer

tbh i am not sure if this is right but um well its just must people say it doesn't look right when women where what they want to wear plus sometimes some women dont look gud in that

TheViscoKid · Answer

I think the high standards for men are still there. Look at the way commercials will have women fawning over men like John Cena but more or less being turned off by men like Rob Schneider.

babaganoosh · Answer

Because women push a different set of standards for men and having a perfect body is not as far up the "what women want list" like is on the "what men want list".

denaliwells · Answer

There's more "demands" for the male body now then there ever was. Just saying women bring on them selves you can be picky but we can't that's kinda fucked up if you ask me

Logan27 · Answer

Men have standards too. Men have to have good hair, be lean and have muscle and also have good teeth... oh and have an acceptable sized dick. Otherwise he's unattractive.

Timelord583 · Answer

Guys have dicks and they can be them most of the time. Don't focus on the bad ones, focus on the ones who will love you no matter what your body looks like.

JSPlasmo1 · Answer

It's because you have never been a Man or seen the ridiculous standards we have to live up too. People have standards and attraction is a biological function not a choice.

EinsamerWolf · Answer

B-fuckin-S. We're expected by a lot of women to be built like Thor or Dwayne Johnson. Big arms, big pecs, washboard stomach, and be over 6 foot tall. Oh, and flawless skin too, and a perfect beard.

A-man-22 · Answer

The standards are the same. I don't see a difference. Try to look at the societal standard for men I think you will agree if you look from the other side.

gps181 · Answer

Why is there such a high status standard for men but not women? A man has to be rich, funny, powerful etc. but women don't have to in order to be desirable. Your desirability is based on the opposite sex's desire. Nobody 'sets' these standards.

steelRipper · Answer

Because nowadays nobody gives a shit about real beauty or inner beauty

Einstein0com · Answer

Because women keep asking men for more money, so he can not afford any high physical standards, just to makes her happy. As the same time women knows that as much higher standards she can get as much money she can ask for.

wolecollner · Answer

Being average height isn't hard. Most women are average height, that's why it's the average

geiri · Answer

Evolutionary sosial behavior, woman just look good and in return man must provide

redrum187 · Answer

They must? I've seen fat ugly bitches in relationships...

DollySummers · Answer

Men do to. Why do you think the fat ones do get much luck.

lightedvoid · Answer

Hmm personally I've always felt less for not being the more muscular and out going type of guy everyone seems to want to be around, so their is a certain stigma for guys to I believe but not as out spoken as it is for women

Fancyatrip · Answer

Life is easier for men which isn't fair but it's true. Anyway from my opinion I probably put a higher demand on myself than anything else. Wouldn't train so hard not only at the gym but mentally and emotionally to improve me from all aspects.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Not all Men are looking for Women with high standards.

peanutmorehead · Answer

Most men don't care that much. Its mostly women who hold women to higher standards

airylnovatech · Answer

So you based your entire opinion on a single, clearly idiotic guy?

HarleyRider21 · Answer

Men have pressures too. Also its not always the slim thick girls that are attractive, Curvy girls are too.

ActiveAlbz · Answer

You saw this from a post online. People troll heavy online. They do and say things the wouldn't in real life so I would pay this no mind.

SleepingSnorlax · Answer

I think this is incredibly wrong We just dont talk about it for the most part because men are taught not to talk about their feelings 🤷🏻‍♂️

mraraboosh · Answer

It’s easier for women to lose weight and look slim. You ladies on other hand demand that we men have abs and be physically fit.

anuragk033 · Answer

There is not such kind of things both genders have preference

KCRiley · Answer

Don't think that's true at all. The standard for men takes more work to achieve and maintain, even. We generally just have to not eat to much.

JENGA · Answer

What? If we ain't tall or have a small dick or are fat or just plain "ugly" then women and men alike will ridicule us too. What are you talking about?

ObNixilis · Answer

Most men are pigs a select group of us are actually real men. And we will love a girl no matter what she looks like.

Zhan_ · Answer

Well here is a high physical standard for both xD I can recognize that women have a harder situation but lol

Anonymous · Answer

Bullshit. Men have to be 6'2 tall! That's like less than 10% of the worlds population. We have to be handsome. Have muscles, work out at the gym and have a big cock.

Gnome0 · Answer

I don't know why some men think they are entitled to be surrounded by hot women. If seeing someone who is unattractive to you ruins your day, you aren't very independent or self-reliant.

TrustOfWorthington · Answer

There is for men too. Slim, trained, mucular (at least sixpack and abs), a variable amount of bodyhair... I actually do not feel what you wrote a girl must look like

jeffnevrotski · Answer

Its the same for men as well. Me personally dont care. I've met beautiful women that were not NOT someone i wanted to be around. It matters more who you are not what you look like

Jalaco · Answer

The post was probably a troll, don't listen. In general there might be higher standards for women, but by no means do you have to meet those standards to happy and successful.

hunter206 · Answer

Women don't have to have any of those, that's all bull. Also you're saying that men aren't criticised too? That we aren't told to be ripped or not fat?

aly987 · Answer

I think not everyone thinks about looks only... The thing that matters to me most is that how well your partner understands you... looks are secondary ! ...

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