Why is there such a high physical standard for women, but not men? (Page 8)

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Women must have big boobs, big butt, no stomach, be thick but with no fat in the undesirable regions, be pretty, have long hair, be average height. Men can look however they want and still shame women for not having what they want. This is because I saw a post online saying "How do you flat ass girls feel when you walk past a group of guys knowing you about to ruin their day?"

k242k · Answer

Simple truth: girls too judge a lot but they dont express.

ericmash82 · Answer

To me I think men in society are valued more in their opinions but I find it not good it supposed to be 50/50 everyone's opinion is valued we should stop living in the olden ways and embrace the changes

opurba · Answer

U show ur ass to make their day sunny. Ur naked ass might make them think differently.

sonfking · Answer

The main reason is because girls are many to guys So guys feel as if they can choose their tastes

eyesofbourbon · Answer

I relate to this so much. Men suck with their unrealistic expectations

AuroraTay · Answer

Its a male dominated society. It will be like that until roles are changed. Its history

BlueJack · Answer

Lol, get abs they say. No more man boobs they say. Look at those biceps they say. He has too much chest hair they say. Can't be manly and wear makeup, but you want a good looking guy. XD Should I continue?

trumpify · Answer

It's hilarious if you think women don't judge men and expect them to be a certain way.

Haileybugeja · Answer

Sooo true, for me it’s because I get jealous and what to look like everyone else so guys will like me more... I know, you should make sure you feel good about yourself buts it’s really hard not to try to please others instead...

Raj027 · Answer

Can't exactly what & how to answer the question,,
But well done for the question,,
But the society is a devil worst than animals..
Listen to ur heart & do whatever u feel right for urself..
Sorry I was unable to answer the right way.. !!

piercy26 · Answer

I wouldn't listen to those self centered pricks there probably just saying stuff like that because his the one that can't seem to find a girl for him self but I for one dont go for looks I go for personality because that's what counts in the long run

anononon123 · Answer

Lol, guys standards for physical features are not that high... it's all about what society pushes through the media to make money... just imagine the industries that would fall apart if women didn't buy into it...

Karebear75 · Answer

The only thing I look for is nice eyes and smile. Body shapes can change

prsist · Answer

Society and the media perpetuates a certain image women must achieve. Women are judged on beauty, men on strength and their ability to provide. It is simple biology. Everything else is simple preference.

TheNateSolo · Answer

Don't girls also have some standard for how a guy looks? You see girls that fawn over guys like Jensen Ackles or Chris Hemsworth. But guys that aren't all that attractive gets friendzoned by them. Correct me if I'm wrong, though.

Anonymous · Answer

Just don't be overweight really. There are always going to be levels of beauty. There are plenty of girls that want big arms on their guy too.

agrape2104 · Answer

Generally the guy makes the first move, no? So the girl would usually wanna give the guy a reason to make the first move? I don't know tbh just a guess funny how like 200 guys commented and like 30 girls

CaseyRodriguez · Answer

I think women put a lot of it on themselves.

disgustingweebtrash · Answer

There is, just women care more about money than looks

Kiran04 · Answer

Because the high standards for men are in wealth and accomplishments. Same shit, different day.

jessture · Answer

Because women spend way too much time competing with other women

Josephmanuél · Answer

No, I believe that every man is unique, so is every Women, one man will find you attractive but another might not there will be more of people who find you attractive than the others, you will find yours soon. I promise..

LegateLanius · Answer

Bullshit. Most men don't demand that. We all have our own tastes. Women are also more picky.

lucidmemoirs · Answer

Do you have any concept of how much harder it is for a guy to look "hot" to a woman than the reverse?

BExNeko · Answer

Believe me, guys can't look like they want at all. "If thy areth not muscular and working out, thy shallt have a hard time" - BExNeko, 07/07/2018

jmiz1 · Answer

Uhhhh ha that's so not true women do the same as men. Men must have muscular body, big dick,. Perfect hair.

JamesSteed · Answer

Why is there a high standard for men having intelligence, a good sense of humour and high income for men, but not for women?

Anonymous · Answer

Men have more than looks to live up too.

conquerthafuture · Answer

That's so fucked up. Whoever said that is just a terrible person. Honestly to me an attractive personality is as important as an attractive body

CornKing · Answer

Sure that's why male models have six pack abs and are about 7 feet tall with a chiseled jawline and 2% body fat

JorgeCS_99 · Answer

There are beauty standards for both genders equally sadly, if not just take a look at any blockbuster, specially the superhero genre

Jack776 · Answer

To put it bluntly women want men that can care for them and men want pretty women (don't tell the feminists)

JakeLukas · Answer

Guys have to be fit or they're shamed (fit as in hot), muscular, they have to have a nice voice, can't be fat, etc

Mypage · Answer

Its women who spread this non sense and guys who are judged for believing these lies.. Stop the fixups and you'll still get guys..

BHooper · Answer

I disagree. Men have the same problems just in different formats. For example men must have a 'big dick', be tall, be masculine and stuff like that.

Anonymous · Answer

That is a ridiculous post. Not many guys actually think that way. Some girls would say that guys must be at least 6'2", have a six pack and big muscles. Some don't feel so strongly. Don't think of all guys when it comes to that.

StickStickity13 · Answer

We do have high standards. If you're not muscular, tall, good hair, handsome, then you're overlooked.

ajay_india · Answer

More important standards for life than physical standard were already expected from a man. So physical standard is not emphasized well enough like in case of a woman.

anonymit · Answer

I can understand from the other side that there are social issues. Tbh I have never crudely commented on anyone and won't. But wome. Intimidate me sometimes so I feel the same on my side too.

Anonymous · Answer

That's the standard *you* apply to women, not the standard men apply to women. There is no high standard.

That2kKid21 · Answer

That's bullshit. Men have giant standards. They gotta be bulky but athletic. They gotta be strong but fast. It's not one way, that's just how you feel about it.

Zion666 · Answer

Look, it's women themselves who have paved the way towards a society which sexualizes women, by dressing the way you dress and so on. So go and cry somewhere else.

Deukalion · Answer

don't believe that standard's. Me personally i love small ass and normal boobs to small , the other standard's you say for me sounds fat. It's on every person taste.

Anonymous · Answer

You think that because you're too privileged to even see the struggles other people face that you don't because of your gender.

Anonymous · Answer

A fat man has given up on life and is a loser A fat woman is happy, heathy, and full of confidence.  So hows that work?

Skullpool · Answer

It's easy, because you as a social group don't demand all the things men does. And mostly, the women need to have a partner, men are just fine being single.

Giggletr0n · Answer

I assume that you have never heard other women dreaming of grinding on a George Clooney type?

PrashanthGujjeti · Answer

A girl with the good physique drives everyone crazy. Who doesn't want to have one.

ehhhhhhh · Answer

This is bullshit total feminism guys get treated just as poorly

Whysosirius7 · Answer

Are you having a laugh? I really hope this is a joke question because men are judged SO much

Nicynodle2 · Answer

This is really a loaded question, would you date a 500lbs greasy neckbeard?

Snooki · Answer

Um there is a physical standard for men too girly.

lilwebster · Answer

I'm in shape I workout all the time. Guys dont want a girl that's so overweight she can't gey off the couch they want a nice petite or athletic body

Anonymous · Answer

Personally I like tiny girls. 5foot, a cup, tiny ass. But looks come second for me I want some who I can love and talk to. And that loves me for me. I'm also a fat ass so I don't have much cbouse in that matter.

handyman129 · Answer

Men should learn to accept a woman's wish and they should be able to dress and look however they want

Achellis · Answer

There is no standard unless you accept it as an standard, do not oblige yourself to reach another one's standard. What's your standard? Reach it

doogo · Answer

My thing is you just have to have a nice body such as I. Many skinny women look underage so it's hard to tell sometimes.

boomboomtown01 · Answer

are we talking about the model like fantasy like person?  i think it does not exist out of airbrush :)

jdrrichmond · Answer

That's not true for me. First, that doesn't describe what I want, and second, attractive girls don't want a guy with a gut.

Anonymous · Answer

Because most women don’t hold their men up to any standards.

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