For me personally, I have always been attracted to men's-men. Guys who aren't afraid of physical labour, getting dirty, yelling when their team scores, and being physically protective over me. I love a guy who can fix stuff around the house and explain to me how cars and shit work. It's just my preference. However, this age has given birth to less-defined individuals who are perhaps more fluid in what they consider masculine and feminine.
I. E. Guys who like to wear thongs, dress in women's clothing occasionally, who want to be extremely submissive (not that this is inherently female, but it's more common) etc. There's also many more guys out there who are very emotional and sensitive, you get the gist.
While I have no issues with these men personally, I am not attracted to them in the slightest. I'm turned off by guys who are super sensitive, submissive, who wanna dress in women's underwear lol. However, this has been a problem for a few people because I'm apparently enforcing a "toxic" idea of masculinity.
So, I want the internet to weigh in: Am I a hypocrite? Am I wrong for feeling this way? How do you feel about concepts of masculinity?
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The kind you're seeking are men with high testosterone and they're not that common. They're the only kind who aren't affected of liberalism and genderflued bullshit due to their stubbornness and masculinity. They're also the best looking, masculine af and they're strong.
They're however hard to get as in their interest or attention is difficult to get because most girls don't appeal to them so it takes those girls hard work (from what I've seen). However, there is a kind of girls which is also not that common which makes them fall in love instantly without her doing anything (in my experience); very feminine (naturally high estrogen) girls (note there is a difference between girly and femininity). It's their weakness.
I'm like you. I feel completely turned off, even disgusted of those who aren't masculine and try to be something they're not but that might be also due to my hormones (my estrogen is high), I generally don't fall for men who show or have any feminine features even when they're small. Must be completely masculine, the opposite of me. I have the luck that I generally attract such men lmao otherwise I'd be definitely ending up with 75 cats later.
The cats part is funny , but you know isn't it being more manly that a man can contain a woman feelings and all that feminism and not wager , just prove that he is right when it comes to that topic.
I know , almost every man in the world has seen what feminism effect and was like Agh, but it is more grow up and more manly to just leave them be, and go for the most feminist extremist girl and not be intimidated by that.
You mean a masculine guy dating a femininist? Most of them look like whales and I really doubt if there will be any attraction towards their personalities because it sucks. They try to act like men and masculine men aren't attracted to that.
I was talking about femininity not feminism though. Femininity is biological, feminism is made up bullshit created by fat cows who want to have all the benefits and leave men with the disadvantages.
Yes, i know i want a woman that shares her feelings with me , not cover things up and act tough
Amen to that! I couldn't have said it any better myself