What single life privileges do you lose out on once you go into a relationship?

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ImSoSquishy · Accepted Answer

the common stuff i have dealt with with most ex gfs after being together for some time are no more gaming, no more travelling alone for some me-time, no more bros night outs for a beer on Friday nights, no more everything in general and a lot of things will revolve around her or she will tell me i don't love her anymore then i end up just giving in and do it lmao. what we gain is text spam, a lot of random demands/requests, a lot of slaps to the arm, get molested while cuddling and watching movies together at home, and listening/hearing about the horrible bitch she hates at work.

i mean as much as i complain to them about these little things, they just end up laughing and teasing me to our friends when we're hanging out because everytime while i'm complaining i'm doing things for her at the same time, they find it very funny how my actions and words are always contradicting.

demonics · Accepted Answer

Breathing takes a big hit. Your own thoughts... those go away. Like stuff? Yea no more stuff for you.

Arctic_Fox · Accepted Answer

Being in a relationship alone is a privilege! I love my partner and I’m so thankful he loves me, no guy has genuinely loved me before! I’m happy to sacrifice things single people can do to be with someone.

Pink2000 · Accepted Answer

Sometimes people tend to lose their friends and family, ability to make decisions, themselves, and much more.

ChronicThinker · Answer

You have to consider someone else's needs, that's about it.

lumos · Answer

I think the biggest "privilege" you lose is the capability to be completely selfish when it comes to your own life choices. If you're single, you don't really have to take anyone else into account when choosing a job, where to live, what you want to do in your spare time etc. When you're with someone else, especially long-term, you'll have to take them into account, because you're supposed to be a team and make compromises for each other. It wouldn't be fair if just one person makes all the big life-changing decisions, while the other one just tags along and can't say anything about it.

Cuteusernamehere · Answer

I've been married for a long time. I don't miss the sleeping around part of being single because I never did anyway.
The biggest thing for me is the accountability. Every decision I make I take his feelings into account before I make it. He is like a living breathing projection of my conscience. Not being able to be selfish is annoying but I wouldn't change it for anything 😊

Cammy137 · Answer

Other than being able to fuck around, the only thing I can think of is the freedom to just say "fuck it" and go away somewhere traveling for a month. My relationship is nothing like any of these photos though. All our costs are split evenly, my partner is just as immature as I am and we dont sit (or stand) around using our phones when we're out with each other.

TheSikuu · Answer

Imma say this purely based on myself cause I'm kinda weird and Don't think this applies to all that many people.
But once I'm involved with someone (even if its just that we like each other and we know), I begin to feel guilty for being attracted to other women.
I really wish I could flip a switch in my male brain and lose all interest in other women.
When I'm single I get to flirt with a lot of girls and get nudes and hook up and all that but once I really like a girl I don't miss any of those things.
I only miss being able to look asst a girl and thinking "wow she's gorgeous" without feeling like an asshole.

jessture · Answer

Well this weekend I am off from all of my jobs. I have no idea what I'm doing sat and sun because I'm going to figure it out when it gets here. That wouldn't be possible in a relationship, my entire weekend would suddenly be full of crap I dont want to do.

olive01b · Answer

It depends on many factors... depending the type of relationship you want to have, the maturity of both parties... I believe that being in a relationship gives another view point on freedom, it does not necesarily mean that you lose your freedom as an individual
(in terms of abstract ideals, not physical ones, such as economic ones)
Personally, it is just another way of experiencing life, that does not mean you 'lose' yourself as an individual (if there is maturity)

BrittBratt2416 · Answer

See I this is kind negative promotion about relationship/marriage that men do that I don't like. Anyway, what privileges you lose? None other than being single that's about it. You can still do the hobbies you enjoy, my boyfriend hasn't had to give up sports, music he likes, the clothes he likes to wear, the games he likes to play/watch, can still go hang out with friends etc. Unless you get with someone who is controlling or have children, nothing is really lost or taken away from you.

Anonymous · Answer

Things you lose:

1. Free time - you’re always doing something you don’t feel like in a couple

2. Fewer household chores (if you’re a chick) - most guys want you to cook & clean their place

3. Better sex - once you’ve been together a while, a lot of people don’t try as hard to please

4. Sleep quality (if you’re a chick) - studies show women sleep worse next to men, though men sleep better with women

5. Independence: suddenly someone wants to tell you how to dress, how to wear your hair, what to watch on tv, etc

Popnlock · Answer

you can't fart... or leave the toilet seat up... you can't watch popular shows when you want because thats being selfish... you gotta share your chocolates...

lilaqua · Answer

Basically nothing with the exception of being able to sleep/flirt with a lot of different people. But to be honest being in a good relationship is so much better than any number of unattached flings you could have.

tanya11029023 · Answer

Less time -- > less hobbies which you love, less learning --> decreasing of own potential --> decreasing of self esteem.
Although sometimes it can really work and it'll be mutual progression, than its good relationship

Goodwifie · Answer

Dude not all marriages look like that.
I think dating now would be really hard especially through dating sites because people judge you more for your looks even before you both meet.
I love cuddling up with my husband before I go to sleep, sometimes I do fall asleep in his arms.
We take care of each other and raise our children together with absolute team work, a united front.
Being partnered up means never feeling alone and having someone there who has your back when times are tough.

Anonymous · Answer

Making decisions with consideration of your partner. Being single you have less risk as if things go wrong, it only affects your life. Having a partner means the risk impacts someone else as well. So you are a bit more careful and have to have the odds more in favor of paying off.

bacca400 · Answer

First if I'm with the right person I don't really lose anything. Second, when I got married I got a prenup, so no big loss if we get divorced. Third, I've already "played the field" and I'm just not interested in it. I like being in LTR. Since I'm married our relationship is pretty good. We understand each other, we communicate our needs, so we get our needs met.

Astoriana · Answer

Not needing to justify how I spend my time anymore. That sucks.  Yes, dude. All I did today was watch Grey’s Anatomy in my pyjamas. WHAT OF IT?

saud1998 · Answer

Spend time on your self and money on your self. Don’t really have to worry about pleasing someone

FinalVow · Answer

none because I don't date abusive, self centered people. seems rather dumb to purposely inflict suffering on yourself just for the sake of being in a "relationship"

binarybabe001 · Answer

The ability to date more than one guy because it's not necessary any more and you have a boyfriend who you only want to be with.

EnocV · Answer

I love everything about marriage and a healthy relationship.. Everything depends on how's your relationship... If it is healthy it's gonna be okay...

Amey016 · Answer

You have to put in a lot of time into relationships, I mean can't we see our friends once in a while?

alexacolin21 · Answer

Being able to just causally flirt, flirting has its benefits

Kitten967 · Answer

I don't think I lost out on anything when I got into a relationship. Everything's still the same

ryryryan · Answer

Hahahaha those memes are so accurate. It's a huge sacrifice. You lose the freedom to flirt, hot on, and bang any and every girl/guy who wants it. #gameover

snuggyduck · Answer

The arguments. Ugh! When you are single, you actually don't need to think twice before making a decision. But in a relationship everything is different.

jstacey22 · Answer

Flirting, not having that freedom as you did when you were single.

A-man-22 · Answer

That first image is so true. That's why I dislike marriage.

serious · Answer

As per your first image, you are indicating that the woman in the relationship takes away the earnings of a man, it might be true to an extent.

Lance1965 · Answer

You lose as lot of freedom. You can no longer just think about yourself so you have to think for two people. Peace and quiet.

djmzes · Answer

None

Anonymous · Answer

lose some freedom. i don't like people being skeptical about who i'm with and taking care of insecurities.

Guyana90 · Answer

Stop promoting singlehood. That’s why this generation is so freaking selfish and entitled. Relationships are more satisfying. People are happier in relationships and marriages. Relationships teach you loyalty, commitment, compromise. All such values singles lack.

JellyDonutguy96 · Answer

being able to do personal activities but honestly I wouldn't mind I've wanted out of the single life since I was 16

cherryphi82 · Answer

So far I feel like I've gained a lot more privileges by being in a relationship

Buzzby · Answer

If it's a healthy relationship. You don't lose out on anything. You can express you feelings talk openly. Say what's on your mind.

LittleSally · Answer

Let me guess: you're single and hating women for it? Ooookay...

Smegskull · Answer

I've been single so long I can't remember. Stayed happily single for 6 years now though so must have been pretty big.

Anonymous · Answer

Freedom to do whatever you want when you want, having total control of your money, always eligible , not having to hide your pictures and contacts on your phone and no drama

Anonymous · Answer

Losing the privilege to booty call a friend with benefits

HikerDude · Answer

The totally free schedule is what I miss the most in relationships. When you're in an ltr, there are always things to be done...

NovissimumVirorum · Answer

Everything, relationships are like prison sentences

Anonymous · Answer

As a guys, you lose your freedom and a good chunk of your income.

KatherineJ · Answer

If that’s what you think a relationship is like, then you should consider staying single.

LittlePrince85 · Answer

Freedom to do what you want when you want, to choose where and what you eat. To spend money on yourself.

Tohhru · Answer

Girls just lose their freedom where guys just lose their money and peace of mind

TazWax · Answer

Sleeping in bed alone

CINDY16 · Answer

The third pic is annoying.

Ninene · Answer

It depends on what kind of you're relationship you're talking about here.

little_bird1 · Answer

You basically lose your common sense.

Paris13 · Answer

The Freedom to Breathe. xx

Anonymous · Answer

Exciting sex life Freedom Space Tranquility

findingdreamland-1 · Answer

I am afraid of losing my freedom.

mel1695 · Answer

Being able to flirt with other people.

aialex · Answer

Me-time, especially if he's clingy

desert_rose666 · Answer

Free time and self-oriented planning

BOUNTYGUY9 · Answer

you lose your own life

cuddlydreamer · Answer

Personal time and space...

Bungle · Answer

Being able to leave a skid mark down the John and spending the next week or too trying to pee it off

NerdInDenial · Answer

Doing whatever you want

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