Should my girlfriend have a right to be mad because I didn’t pick her up from a bar when she was drunk?

I'm probably going to get hate from some of the other girls but oh well. It's not that I personally think you don't care, but that might be what she thinks right now, which you have to make her understand. With that being said however, your girlfriend is also a grown assed woman. As long as she's not your fiancé or wife, she's not your responsibility, especially after only 3 months of dating. I don't think you're wrong at all. At least you cared enough to make sure her friend was okay to drive her, and even if she wasn't your girlfriend should have had that figured out before she went out drinking.
Yes she does. Her friend may not have actually been okay to get her. A lot of people drink and say they’re fine when they aren’t. Your girlfriend probably knew she wasn’t fit to drive her back.
Basically, your girlfriend tried to be responsible by contacting someone who she knew wasn’t drinking and you didn’t really seem like you cared. I’d be mad at you, too.
But common sense would tell you that if she felt the need to take an Uber that’s most likely the reason. Either way, you didn’t care enough about her safety to get her yourself. No matter why she took the Uber, you still suck.
What’s wrong with ubering? Why can’t she do that instead of me driving 20 minutes to get her when i have work in 2 hours. I have to sleep you know.
It shows you don't care. You can't know how someone is okay over a text. Her friend could have been hammered too. You're her dude. Her drunkenness asked for you. You didn't help, no matter the reason. It's a bit dickish. Sort of like the middle finger to her.
she probably thinks you couldnt be bothered to get her and you dont care about her, tell her you would get her straight away if she was in trouble or stranded but she was safe and you had work and also she might be embarrased and not answering instead
She decided to go out and get hammered. She put herself in that position and with Uber and Lyft out there, there was no damn reason to bug a guy that had to be up early for work for a ride. If she doesn't understand, then you are better off without her.
The way you said that makes you sound abusive and controlling lol. I feel bad for your girlfriend that she didn't find better.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!What you could do next time is ask her to take uber and then offer to pay for the uber ride.
She probably needed you at that time badly. But don’t worry she’ll calm down and realize it’s nothing to be upset about.
She sounds like an asshole, not you. It’s not your job to get her home unless she came with you.
These chicks commenting are unbelievable... you’re not her dad. It’s rude of her to get drunk without a ride back and call you that late when she knows you have to work.
THANK YOU!!! I think these girls today rely on their boyfriends too damn much. Like I said before, she should have figured that out before drinking
She's an adult so should be responsible to find her way home. Unless you told her you'll pick her up and bailed, she should chill.
Yes. If my man wouldn't pick me up i guarantee anouther man would
Nah she’s just making a big deal out of dumb shit
This was a compliance test. You failed. Make it up quick or prepare to be dumped soon.
Picking her up wouldn’t be whipped. I’ve had non boyfriends do much more for me than that. I’d be pissed if I were her too.
Actually what I would have done is say fine I’ll get another ride and make sure it was another dude who dropped me off.
Good for you. Either way, they dont live together so he won't see the other dude.
Yes... I would be mad too
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