Should my girlfriend have a right to be mad because I didn’t pick her up from a bar when she was drunk?

[Anonymous]

So she had a girls night with her friends. She drank a lot , and at 2am she texted me hammered. She wanted me to pick her up. I didn’t want to get her because it was 2 am & i had to be up for work at 4am. I told her to get a ride with her friend that was already there with her. I even texted that friend to make sure she was ok to drive & she told me she was fine , and she would take her home. For some reason my girlfriend ubered home & now she won’t respond to me today. No i do not live with her. I have only been dating her for 3 months. She texted me all night calling me a dickhead & told me to F off. Of course if she was stranded or something i wouldn’t even think twice of going to get her , but in this situation I don’t think she has the right to be mad.

Updates:

[silvermoon84]

I'm probably going to get hate from some of the other girls but oh well. It's not that I personally think you don't care, but that might be what she thinks right now, which you have to make her understand. With that being said however, your girlfriend is also a grown assed woman. As long as she's not your fiancé or wife, she's not your responsibility, especially after only 3 months of dating. I don't think you're wrong at all. At least you cared enough to make sure her friend was okay to drive her, and even if she wasn't your girlfriend should have had that figured out before she went out drinking.

[Allie_Oops]

Yes she does. Her friend may not have actually been okay to get her. A lot of people drink and say they’re fine when they aren’t. Your girlfriend probably knew she wasn’t fit to drive her back.

Basically, your girlfriend tried to be responsible by contacting someone who she knew wasn’t drinking and you didn’t really seem like you cared. I’d be mad at you, too.

[PondyPand]

It shows you don't care. You can't know how someone is okay over a text. Her friend could have been hammered too. You're her dude. Her drunkenness asked for you. You didn't help, no matter the reason. It's a bit dickish. Sort of like the middle finger to her.

[candycanehearts]

she probably thinks you couldnt be bothered to get her and you dont care about her, tell her you would get her straight away if she was in trouble or stranded but she was safe and you had work and also she might be embarrased and not answering instead

[brocklee]

She decided to go out and get hammered. She put herself in that position and with Uber and Lyft out there, there was no damn reason to bug a guy that had to be up early for work for a ride. If she doesn't understand, then you are better off without her.

[jennifer_bloom]

What you could do next time is ask her to take uber and then offer to pay for the uber ride.

[Anonymous]

She probably needed you at that time badly. But don’t worry she’ll calm down and realize it’s nothing to be upset about.

[pineappleshortcare]

She sounds like an asshole, not you. It’s not your job to get her home unless she came with you.

[TacosRAwesome]

She's an adult so should be responsible to find her way home. Unless you told her you'll pick her up and bailed, she should chill.

[Wowgirl10q]

Yes. If my man wouldn't pick me up i guarantee anouther man would

[painted]

Nah she’s just making a big deal out of dumb shit

[Anonymous]

This was a compliance test. You failed. Make it up quick or prepare to be dumped soon.

[ivannna]

Yes... I would be mad too