Am I a gay magnet? and what to do about it?

[AbdKilani]

I am wondering , why is it that i attract mostly guys , specially in dating apps !!
Like WTH i love women , i am not BI, not homo , so why do i keep attracting males?
Cast your vote and lets see if i am or not !!
Plus share your thoughts if you have the same issue (Girl or a guy )

I am a gay/bi guy and i find you attractive

I am a gay/bi girl and i find you attractive

I am a straight guy and i find you attractive

I am a straight girl and i find you attractive

I find you disgusting (EWWWW) you stinky piece of human trash

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+1 y

Please cast your vote, it is better for the results
Guys are casting their votes, and it doesn't look good XD haha

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+1 y

The results are good, it say that i have hope , most straight people are attracted to me (both genders haha)
So , i am glad that you cast your votes, people
Thanks a lot

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+1 y

The crazy questions that I had lol

[ImSoSquishy]

i attract a lot of gay guys, too. on apps, social media, walking on the street here at NYC, and especially when i'm at gym working out. there's nothing i could do about it. i always have this awkward feeling in my head when i feel someone is staring at me and everytime i look at the mirror in front of me, i always see a dude staring at my butt while i'm doing squats or deadlifts. and it's funny how everytime i start my set they just sit there and stare right at me, the moment i finish my set to rest, they quickly do a bs set to act like they were doing something the whole time. i tried complaining at every gym i've been to but every time it's just "there's nothing we can do since there's no direct contact or communication" or something similar.

[AbdKilani]

that is awful... i think they should have a gay gym then and a straight one

[Anonymous]

Its cause most gay guys are not attractive and on datting apps people only go for attractive people. Since your attractive they go for you. It is just like girls only the pretty ones really get attention.

[AbdKilani]

interesting , but all girls get guys on dating apps mostly

[Opinion Owner]

Its cause most guys on dating apps like tinder will go for almost any girl.

[AbdKilani]

Including me , damn it

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend was just telling me the same things yesterday. We're both on PoF to meet people, and we're open. He's a modern day Viking, and works in tree removal, so he does hard labor all day. He's not at all girly or effeminate. And I think it's because he's a dominant figure. These guys that message him want a powerful stronger man to take care of. He says most of them just message him wanting to suck him off.

[Opinion Owner]

by the way, you look just fine to me! You're not my type, but I don't think you're "ugly".

[AbdKilani]

Thanks
LoL , i get the same messages XD , it is awful , why don't a girl message me that hahahah

[binarybabe001]

You're a very nice looking man, if another man hits on you, all you have to say is "thanks for the compliment but, you're not my type." I have used this in the past when women would hit on me and there was no hard feelings about it.

[AbdKilani]

Thanks , i am nice when rejecting sure :)
I have a cool temper and good manners :)

[Tamera952]

This sounds like a loaded question… Gay guys are not interested in ones that They cannot have. Went straight to dating site are you on deck guys are giving you attention? I don’t believe you.
You better stop playing games or come out of the closet buster

[AbdKilani]

haha
Not really , it is just as you see it , i want to know if i am attractive to girls more than guys , cuz i am really tired of being single , i just wanted to confirm that i might have a chance one day finding me a woman.

[Tamera952]

That’s the part that’s loaded. It’s not an EITHER OR type of thing, or question. PLUS! finding someone attractive is SUBJECTIVE and not something you can pin down. So there’s no saying if guys dig ya, then girls will (or won’t). — Just gotta concentrate on ‘BEING AN ATTRACTIVE PERSON’ for all audiences, and eventually someone will connect with you.

[AbdKilani]

Sure i am focused on being attractive always, i take good care of myself , and always look good :)
Thanks for the advice

[Jjpayne]

It's that baby face, lol. But seriously I think you are attractive, I don't know why girls would not like to date you. You look good. I hope you get some answers on this post that will help you. In fact, just ask girls what you can do, if they are not already telling you in this post already

[AbdKilani]

I asked many times, and got to many answers
but none of them were 100% the reason...

[Jjpayne]

I don't know man, the best I can say is sometime you can't force love it will happen when it will happen

[AbdKilani]

True

[frontyer]

Guys are less conserned about looks. If you look decent most guys would want to fuck you. Same with guys and girls. Guys would fuck msot girls, just becasue they have a pussy. Same goes for gay guys.

Its a good thing tho. It means you're attractive enough for a guy to fuck you. Girls would want to fuck you aswell, theyre just not as straight forward as men.

[AbdKilani]

Hahaha
Mostly guys want me to fuck them!

[frontyer]

Hahaa well isn't that even better?

[AbdKilani]

hahaha nooooo

[SpeshalK]

I think girls and gay guys are pretty much attracted to you equally amounts, since they're pretty much the same gender. .. jus 1 is in the wrong body...

... I think gays jus let u know they're attracted to you more because guys are brave and confident... while girls are shy and timid and don't want you to know they like you

[AbdKilani]

I hope so
But look at the poll results, straight guys are attracted lol

[SpeshalK]

Hmm... weird... either jus a coincidence or some girls are trying to pretend that they don't find you attractive lol

[Carrylovescurry]

Crap. Gays are men not women

[AbdKilani]

@Carrylovescurry yes you are right XD

[SpeshalK]

@Carrylovescurry yes. But they're men with a girls mind. ... or else why would they be attracted to their own sex?

[Carrylovescurry]

That's sexual attraction and even then gay men say they are attracted to different things on men then women. For anything else they are just as men as straight men.

[SpeshalK]

@Carrylovescurry WHAT! ? So what u r saying is they're actually men who jus have a sexual desire for themselves? That is just sick!!!
I feel violated. .. those type of gays aren't born that way in my opinion. . They let they're sexual fetishism developed into something more... when they should have jus made themselves normal and be attracted to girls from a young age

[SpeshalK]

If u r a man in a man's brain who is attracted to guys... u are letting yourself and choosing to be gay in my opinion

[kaewk]

Because you have hygiene, and care about health. The average male is filthy lol, but most gays are very uptight so you’re confusing people.

[AbdKilani]

hahaha
i am normal guy , a dudes dude , the manly cool man... the put some dirt on it and move on

[Alexandrianaleigh]

Think about this, it's possible for you to find a girl really attractive, even if they are lesbian.

[AbdKilani]

Wow
Really, that is great , wishful thinking though , the facts say otherwise
I am 26 years old never been on a date man... or have a thing

[AbdKilani]

But thanks for the good words :)

[Tamera952]

Well what does ‘that’ mean? Being 26 is just a number thing. Maybe you’re on a different path. Who knows? ... just be thoughtful and kind, and be proactive. Otherwise there’s DOUBLELIST. COM (the solution for Craigslist personals)

[AbdKilani]

@Tamera952 LoL thanks for the great words :)

[alice55]

They surely just find you physically attractive. Maybe try to change your pics? Maybe that's the pics that made them think you're gay or something.

[AbdKilani]

LoL
My pics are gayish?

[alice55]

I don't think so but after I'm not a gay man so I'm just trying to give you advice / idea about what can make them think you're gay.

[AbdKilani]

I get it
Thanks :)

[alice55]

You're welcome :)

[AbdKilani]

:) :)

[Tamera952]

Haha

[airylnovatech]

You're not a gay magnet, you're actually a straight human. Magnets can't be gay.

[AbdKilani]

hahaha yes i am sorry

[Demised]

Lmao. Same problem with me brother. Where ever I go or hang out with my friends, guys are always complimenting but rarely any girl does. No idea. 😂

[AbdKilani]

LoLz
Life is hard man

[Demised]

Naah. So many other things to focus on.

[AbdKilani]

haha
Not when you grow up

[Demised]

What do you mean?

[AbdKilani]

You will start needing someone to take care of , and feel more responsible as you grow up

[Demised]

I take care of my mom and kids.

[AbdKilani]

Nope , you would want more than that

[Demised]

I guess..

[hasrett]

Why does it matter? Just take it as a compliment and move on.

[AbdKilani]

lol
It does , why , i want to know why girls aren't attracted to me

[Oram52]

That's because we all know secretly you dig guys haha ;)

[AbdKilani]

hahaha
noooooooooo

[genericname85]

Lol you can't choose who likes you. Being attractive for women means you're attractive to gay men.

[AbdKilani]

not really , as proven here !

[genericname85]

What have you proven and how? I don't get it.

[AbdKilani]

That straight men and women are more attracted to me than gays XD

[genericname85]

There are just little bi and gay guys on here so that's really not a valid argument considering the sample you use to make that argument.

[AbdKilani]

well, i won't take this for granted for sure
I just find it interesting though

[genericname85]

Make the same question that only allows bi and gay men. That would be more valid.

[AbdKilani]

i won't have to repeat it , my original goal was to find why i always end up with a guys matching me on dating apps, which now appears that they just want a D to suck , nothing about my looks to be specific , and that i confirmed that i attract women

[Anonymous]

Is this your subtle way of seeing how many men find you attractive?

[AbdKilani]

lOlZ No !
I am just making a poll , to know what should i do in my life XD
Thanks for pointing that out , but it is not my intention , TBH i am trying to see if i could get girlfriend since i barely get matches on tinder XD which is not working (Even though i asked for a girlfriend on G@G before , but got deleted) , and see what to do about my curse of being chased by gay men !

[Raven93]

I don't know but you look like Andy from The Office

[AbdKilani]

LoL
I take that as a complement , i guess!

[AlexEfron]

Didn't vote XD
I'm straight. I'm not attracted to you.
Why use dating sites?

[AbdKilani]

Great :)
Well, i have no chance that is why i used dating sites (which is not working )

[AlexEfron]

XD for some reason I am not interested in dating at all :P

[AbdKilani]

wait for a couple of years, when you see a guy holding a girl's hand in the street and you get that bitter feeling :(

[AlexEfron]

I see them every day XD
A couple got beaten up by elderly people for hugging in public XD

[AbdKilani]

LoLz
Here it is normal... XD

[AlexEfron]

Holding hands or getting beaten up in public? XD

[AbdKilani]

Holding hands and dating

[AlexEfron]

I know XD
It's common here as well... just some exceptional cases

[AbdKilani]

Aha , nope it is everywhere here

[AlexEfron]

No. I meant the public disapproval being some exceptional cases XD

[Anonymous]

As a straight girl I can honestly tell you that you are really attractive

[AbdKilani]

Really !
Okay that is great , i can die happy now <3 thanks :)

[Opinion Owner]

lol you are welcome

[AbdKilani]

hehe :)

[Roje_Kurdish_Gil]

Turkish people loves you you have a lot husband lol

[AbdKilani]

I know Xd

[Roje_Kurdish_Gil]

😂😂😂😂

[AbdKilani]

hahahaha

[cancan73]

I'm not gay but I recon you could turn me lol
It's your fault for being so hot 😂😂😂

[AbdKilani]

Haha ouch XD
I am looking at the poll results , it doesn't look good

[RolandCuthbert]

There are gay guys. . .

in Jordan?

[AbdKilani]

yes, but more were in Saudi Arabia !

[RolandCuthbert]

It just amazes me they would be so open about it in either country.

[AbdKilani]

Not much actually , but they are more free now XD

[RolandCuthbert]

More free? Gays are not under the threat of violence?

[AbdKilani]

yes, well if you go in the streets you will see a lot of gay (looking guys ) in KSA
In Jordan we already have LGBT going here , and it is out in the open

[RolandCuthbert]

Amazing.

[AbdKilani]

Not that amazing , they are getting annoying actually XD
Being loud , too loud XD

[RolandCuthbert]

No, that is actually one of the most amazing things I have heard here at GaG. Understand, i come from a different culture than Jordan. I would have never expected gays to be seen in plain sight there.

[AbdKilani]

Oh yes, they are all over the place

[Fitness-Fanatic]

Maybe you give off a gay persona and vibe 😂

[AbdKilani]

Haha
No , i am normal , you know even from my questions a lot about how i act

[Fitness-Fanatic]

Then maybe they find you attractive, and want the challenge of turning you gay 😜

[AbdKilani]

Hahaha
They all have failed, i don't want a blowjob , i want to hold a girl's hand and take her out to dinner , open the car door for her... etc

[Fitness-Fanatic]

Lol I'm sure you'll find her

[AbdKilani]

Me too hahaha