Should I give her a heads up to let her know it's coming? Broke up 8 weeks ago after two years together. When we broke she asked to take a break, so I didn't talk to her for 3 weeks. After which I found out she had began a relationship with a new guy 3 weeks before we broke up. She of course didn't admit it, only said she was casually dating someone. But there were 1000's of text messages between she and this guy, on my phone bill, that I was still paying for her phone on, I googled his name and has a blog with pictures that basically recorded the timeline of when their relationship began - during ours. He is living with her now. We have no contact with each other, which is fine by me, but I do wish the whole thing wasn't so messy. Should I let her know that the box is coming, or just let her open her door to the Fed Ex man? Incidentaly our last contact she sent me a bitter text and asked how I would like for her to get me my stuff to me, I asked her to put it in a box on her porch and let me know and I would have a mutuial friend come pick it up. She never responded! I don't care about my stuff anymore, I wanted her stuff out of my house, I only care now about eing the one who handles this breakup like an adult who actually cared about the other person. Thanks for your input.