When I hear the word clingy it reminds me of someone who is desperate for constant approval or vulnerable. It is a weakness, and can be understood OR cringeworthy depending on how you look at it..
Having someone be invested in you and want to be with you is not something I'd ever complain about but don't get to the extent that I can't take a shit without you breathing down my neck
Shouldn't really be a deal breaker for any man really, it's a sure sign they want you and only you and if they take up too much of your personal time you can work on it with them or just include them in your social activities👌
I like it a lot if the girl is physically clingy and she initiates lots of affection when in private. I like her to be a little physically clingy and possessive in public if other girls are around to show that I belong to her. I wouldn't like the kind of clingy where she would be constantly calling me every day.
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Yes. I'm very independent and don't need someone constantly breathing down my neck. If you don't trust me enough to let me live, and feel the need to constantly check up on me, then it makes me think you're being controlling and will only serve to piss me off and make me push you away. In the same way I'd trust my partner to not cheat or do something stupid, I'd expect them to pay me the same respects.
Hell nah to be honest when a person is clingy it gives the feeling of wanting to just be around the person cause you have a mass amount of feelings for the other and I think clingy is cute af
My girlfriend is clingy. We've found balance tho by her hanging out with me on cam when I play video games and she masturbates on the phone late at night while I try to sleep. So it all depends what you two are like.
It's not much of a dealbreaker, but constant need of attention and talking is tiring. Sometimes you need your space and I don't think I'd work well with someone that's clingy because I really like my space to be available.
Ugh like clingy as in what? texting , calling, or seeing you too much? I dont mind some text but yeah clingy would make me feel like I couldn't do anything
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NOOOO. Okay so at first im a distant kind of person. But clingy when i get comfortable w the person and when i see the person likes me despite all the shitty parts of me.
If they are too clingy, then it will just annoy me. I don't think I'd dump them, though. I'd just let them know that I also want time/days to myself so I can do my own things.
yeah i only recently found out so im not even close to being over it. apparently shed been with him for a few months and when i got suspicious of if she lied to me multiple times. i even knew exactly who it was and now their together. smh
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When I hear the word clingy it reminds me of someone who is desperate for constant approval or vulnerable. It is a weakness, and can be understood OR cringeworthy depending on how you look at it..
Having someone be invested in you and want to be with you is not something I'd ever complain about but don't get to the extent that I can't take a shit without you breathing down my neck
Shouldn't really be a deal breaker for any man really, it's a sure sign they want you and only you and if they take up too much of your personal time you can work on it with them or just include them in your social activities👌
I like it a lot if the girl is physically clingy and she initiates lots of affection when in private. I like her to be a little physically clingy and possessive in public if other girls are around to show that I belong to her.
I wouldn't like the kind of clingy where she would be constantly calling me every day.
Yes. I'm very independent and don't need someone constantly breathing down my neck. If you don't trust me enough to let me live, and feel the need to constantly check up on me, then it makes me think you're being controlling and will only serve to piss me off and make me push you away. In the same way I'd trust my partner to not cheat or do something stupid, I'd expect them to pay me the same respects.
very true in every thing that you say
NOOO to my future boyfriend COME CLING ONTO ME SO I CAN LOVE YOU LMAO
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No, I wouldn't say deal breaker. Though it can be annoying, space is valuable and you shouldn't try and take that away.
Hell nah to be honest when a person is clingy it gives the feeling of wanting to just be around the person cause you have a mass amount of feelings for the other and I think clingy is cute af
That makes me feel way better about myself...😂
Then that's great by my ideals thanks for hearing me out
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How clingy? Like I can deal with checking up on me and wanting to spend time together, but I cannot deal with 24/7 communication and contact.
No no not 24/7 communication... I got work to do 😂
My girlfriend is clingy. We've found balance tho by her hanging out with me on cam when I play video games and she masturbates on the phone late at night while I try to sleep. So it all depends what you two are like.
It's not much of a dealbreaker, but constant need of attention and talking is tiring. Sometimes you need your space and I don't think I'd work well with someone that's clingy because I really like my space to be available.
Not in my opinion. I like all of their attention on me
Clingy CAN be cute, most of the time however it isn't 😂
Ugh like clingy as in what? texting , calling, or seeing you too much? I dont mind some text but yeah clingy would make me feel like I couldn't do anything
NOOOO. Okay so at first im a distant kind of person. But clingy when i get comfortable w the person and when i see the person likes me despite all the shitty parts of me.
I’d die for a clingy one.
Nope I like my alone time but I'm extremely clingy so I would be happy with it
Well maybe if he’s too much that he seems obsessive and won’t let me do anything lol
If they are too clingy, then it will just annoy me. I don't think I'd dump them, though. I'd just let them know that I also want time/days to myself so I can do my own things.
I don't think so
I never had a girlfriend so , i won't know how annoying it would be, but if it is too much i might be annoyed
no because my ex cheated on me and she wasn't clingy and the best most loving girlfriend I've ever had was clingy so i say that clingy is better
Awe I'm sorry for that
yeah i only recently found out so im not even close to being over it. apparently shed been with him for a few months and when i got suspicious of if she lied to me multiple times. i even knew exactly who it was and now their together. smh
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