I definitely get worried if it's a time someone is usually texting me and he didn't, or came in too late and all... I wouldn't call the police but I'd just get really worried 😬What you described is not me though thankfully 😂
I see it as like "positive" vs. "negative" energy, if you will. I don't think there's such a thing as too much "positive energy", like my wife is such a positive and loving person. She shows up to the airport (almost an hour drive) every time I come home from a business trip and then runs and jumps into my arms each time, and I do that multiple times a year. But she doesn't freak out when I'm not there, for example, she's just very positive and eager to see me again. So I love that kind of affection and devotion and never encountered a case where I thought it was too much.What was too much for me with some exes was that they accompanied that "positive energy" with equally strong "negative energy", like loving me but also being paranoid about losing me or paranoid about me cheating or something like that, and that doesn't come from loving too much. It comes from being afraid.
So I think if you can tame any "negative energy" or thinking patterns you might have, you should be good. You can be super affectionate when a person is there without becoming crazy and obnoxious when they aren't there, you can miss a person like crazy without actually feeding all sorts of negative thoughts about losing them (just focus on the positive thoughts about seeing them again), etc. If you can do that reasonably well, I think you ought to be fine.
Yes true... I'm more positive about it I guess
That's not me at all thankfully 😂
Good because I know many wives that are like that and they won't even let the the husband out of the house to watch the football game with his friends they always got them tied up.
Well I would be sad if he's not around, but I wouldn't tie him up and make him stay miserable lol
If you showed interest I'm sure at times he would invite you to join him and the guys. I always took my former girlfriend along pretty much
Yeahh I might would wanna join lol depends
Yes indeed I hope so. Let me know how the IQ test is coming along for you in the future since that girl said the last results for you were low?Lol just kidding 😂
Lol hey the last results were above average 😂
That's cool I never really paid attention I just kind of read certain things here and there
Oh okay lol
Well that's good that you're an up beat type of a character and I like that by reading what I read in here today. You have fight in you and you don't let that girl push you around. I saw that you were kind of feisty in the other thread so I kind of pushed you a little bit here in this thread about the topic and you passed 👍
Haha I'm usually a lot more chill, I just felt bad about what she said about my friend lol, if it was about me I would move on And thank you...
You are very welcome my friend enjoy the site and keep moving forward
*moves forwards* *bumps into a wall*
Lol you have a nice sense of humor I like that
Oh you've seen nothing yet 😂 but thank you lol that's nice of you
Well that's something special that's not really seen on the site that often. You're very welcome by the way
Thank you so much for most helpful award I appreciate it
Oh you're most welcome 🎀
Aww lolAnd yes same about the last part
Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions
I agree with you
😂😂😂😂I'm defitnely not the second type 😂 just the first... except for public displays of affection since I'd get too shy in public lol...
I asked my girlfriend why she keeps kissing my cheek and putting my hand around her waist in public and she said "because we haven't got wedding bands yet" and usually I'd find this creepy but she's too cute to be creepy 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
very true in every thing that you say
I never ever get clingy with someone in public... it's too private... lol And wowwwwwww... veterns are amazing!
Then you're perfect! :)
Yayy thank you sirrrrr
I'd have thought having PTSD would make clingy girls even more attractive. Have you ever tried to be stressed while a girl you love is hugging you? It's impossible
@Devon_Ten On the contrary, it's VERY possible. In can not only be an aggravating factor, it can be the principle cause. Sorry, Devon, but "I'd've thought " doesn't trump actual experience. YMMV, of course. If you CAN use a hug from your sweetie to de-escalate, more power to you.
Checking up on you daily but a bit more when you're sick, missing you easily, being sad when you're not around and wanting to spend more time... not holding you forcelly though lol also worried easily, and being very effectionate at home...Basically stuff like that lol
You dont like that? Really if you don't want to be checked on daily. And checking up on you daily when you are sick? If you don't want that then don't go into a relationship pleas. Just keep it at friends with benefits.
I used to even check on my friends daily. So maybe friends with benefits is to much. Just keep it at sex buddies.
I'd never have friends with benefits anyways lol but I do check on some of my friends
Oh oops I missed the first comment 😐
I really love it, that's the way I'm clingy with someone...I really never said I didn't like it lol...
Yeh I said you. But refered to the person that don't like clingyness. I had a clingy girlfriend once. It goes a little bit further then checking up every day. But these days if I send 2 messages in a row, they call me clingy. So I just think this clingy calling comes fort out of being scared to commit and being scared of love in general. Because what you said is not clingy to me. :P
That makes me feel way better about myself...😂
Then that's great by my ideals thanks for hearing me out
Thank you for that noiiice opinion lol
Thank you for being so cool... (づ￣3￣) づ
Awe... hey weird question... wanna add me on here?
⁄(⁄ ⁄•⁄ω⁄•⁄ ⁄)⁄
Dang I was trying to message u direct but it didn't let me cause I'm to low level. (,,•́ . •̀,,)
No no not 24/7 communication... I got work to do 😂
Awe I'm sorry for that
yeah i only recently found out so im not even close to being over it. apparently shed been with him for a few months and when i got suspicious of if she lied to me multiple times. i even knew exactly who it was and now their together. smh
Wow... ) :
This is so true... I was clingy to my ex... She thought she needs space and she don't like it