How do you stay motivated to date after getting rejected?

I keep getting rejected by girls and it keeps denting my motivation to keep trying. I often get friend-zoned by girls even ones who are younger. I've been ghosted also a few times for no reason.

Any tips?

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Trust me, same. I’ve told over 10 guys I’ve liked them and not a single one said they liked me back. I feel like I constantly put myself out there and get nothing back in return. At times like this, you just got to keep your held up high. There are plenty other girls out there for you, you just haven’t found her yet. If it wasn’t meant to be, it wasn’t meant to be, there’s no point crying over spilt milk. And so why if you get rejected, that just mean she’s too stupid to see what she has infront of her. Try again, and again, and again until you find your dream girl.

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  • I’m sorry that is truly a stab in the heart. But tbh a lot of women tends to go for men who doesn’t broadcast that intent of a relationship until they’ve hit whits end inside of the dating world. All I’d say Is make yourself seem more like s challenge rather then a solid answer because they tend to friend zone the tomorrow guys “good guys” when the today guys Kill there heart

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  • It sucks, but I always try to remember that if it didn't work out, it wouldn't have worked out anyway.
    Of course it still hurts when you get rejected, but you get over it with some time. Try to not linger on it too much

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What Girls Said 7

  • Those girls weren’t seeing what they had in front of them. If you feel unmotivated then take a break and give yourself some time. Don’t think that something is wrong with you just be patient because she’s probably out there looking for you just how you’re out there looking for her.

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    • I've been told that several times

    • And do you believe it?

    • I get that you feel unmotivated trust me I do I’ve been through that but know your self worth and importance. Everyone has someone waiting for them even when you doubt it. You just gotta be able to see it.

  • Age has nothing to do with it...
    Self confidence is attractive, and I'm sorry being blunt is just how I am. You don't sound as if you have any. Most friendships bloom into relationships. Be a great guy with self confidence and the rest will follow...

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  • "Every rejection gets you one step closer to finding your partner."

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  • With great difficulty, all I can say is just be patient and persistent eventually it'll pay off

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  • It seems like you're doing something wrong.

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  • spend time with friends and family

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  • You just need to find the right girl.

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What Guys Said 23

  • Women desire male attention just as much as men desire women's attention. There are hundreds of questions on GaG from women asking -- why don't guys ask me out? How do I get noticed? So if you are getting a lot of rejection there's something you need to change. Recount a specific encounter and maybe someone can give you more specific advice.

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  • I'm sad to say that there's a part of you that just has to say that you're gonna keep pushing ahead, no matter what. Dating blows... even when you find a great girl, you're dealing with a human being with all her personal problems, and frustrations, only difference is that when you find a great girl, you talk yourself into believing that she was totally worth the effort, because if you don't then you'll have to go back to searching.

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  • Keep trying, use wit, be confident, remember, women hunt in packs. If one says no, go to the next one. For every 10 or so no's, there is a yes. If you can strike up a conversation with a no and find out what's wrong with your game, that helps out a bunch. See if you can get some more pointers.
    Whatever you do, dont just pull out your schlong and put it on a ladys shoulder... I've only seen that work once.

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  • I admit it sucks, but don't always take rejection personal, there could be other factors going on in a chicks life that made her reject ya. Also, try to take rejection as a lesson to improve yourself on anything you might be lacking, e. g. confidence, etc

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  • Rejection is all a part of the process, Usually after a failed attempt of a proposal to date I evaluate the situation and find what I did wrong and go from there I treat it as a problem and I’ve never come past a problem I couldn’t solve with some determination and confidence

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  • Go to reddit. com/r/theredpill. This addresses all of that, read the side bar, realize it's all great advice. And your life will change. Trust me, I've turned around several friends lives who were pathetic with women just with that advice on the sidebar.

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  • This is happening to all of us. The successful conquests are always fewer than the rejections. Just don't repeat the same mistakes over and over. And if you don't know what mistakes you do then make your own research. Message me if you want.

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  • It really does suck when that happens, I feel you man, but think of it like this your putting yourself out there and making a effort, thats bravery, if anything focus on yourself, people attract to people that take care of themselves.

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  • You need to figure out why it is that they're friend-zoning you, it probably has something to do with the way you act towards them. Any ideas?

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  • Its all a numbers game... if your striking out a lot you need to hit on more.. also don't make an effort to be nice or come off as needy... girls hate that shit... Nice guys finish last for a reason

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  • Either go gay or go MGTOW. They're your only other options.

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  • Read up on how to be a 3% man. Read the book 10-15 times and you'll be golden ponyboy.

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  • In America there's a 50/50 male/female ratio. Statistically, anyone can find someone to have sex with.

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    • Source?
      At present, there's roughly a 3-4% difference favoring females, with a.076% margin of error, not accounting for intersex marginalization, trending at 0.6-1.7%.
      Have a look at this link and decide for yourself if 50/50 is a fair rationalization:
      data.worldbank.org/indicator/SP.POP.TOTL.FE.ZS
      I submit that it's not.

    • That's at least a 3-4% chance of finding the one

  • Don't accept the friend zone. Make your intentions known from the very outset.

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  • Don't give up you'll get there and it will be nice, believe me.

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  • I don't. Rejection shuts me down indefinitely. If I sense an attraction, systems may fire again.

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  • Don't care. You gotta get that ego in check to get some action.

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  • Just think of this: there are too many women for me to be alone so bye cunt and lets look at another one

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  • Tbh I don't know what u can do, just keep trying. There's always someone that will like you.

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  • I dont

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  • I feel your pain brother wish I could help.

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  • move about

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  • Read “No More Mr Nice Guy” by Robert A Glover, I was like you and now I understand a little better why guys get friendzoned and all that and If you don’t like reading not to worry you can get it in audible and your first book is for free and that’s how I “read it”

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