Guys, how important are looks to you really? (Page 2)

Question

I'm ugly, no two ways about it. And there's no way to change it or make it better, but I really don't want to be alone forever, so I'm wondering how important are looks to guys really? I have a lot of guy friends and can chat to guys no problem but I won't flirty with them because I'm ugly and there's no point ruining a friendship when there's no way they would like me anyway. But I wondered if guys could overlook ugliness for someone they get on with well?

Blessmore · Answer

In a guy's world, there's what you call a "Respect Meter". This meter affects how other guys treat you.
If you hang out or date the hot girls, every guy will bow down to you. They will not make fun of you. You will fit into any group.
If you hang around with girls perceived as ugly, other guys will often make fun of you, tease you etc.

We also have standards.

PlumbumPenatrator · Answer

Quite important to me.. I would never go out with an ugly girl... even though I'm ugly myself lol, but I don't give a fuck.. I'm selfish hahahaha. .. anyway. ... can u send me a picture of u please? U might not be as ugly as you think.

I am the most brutally honest person in the world who is not afraid to hurt people's feelings.. so when I give you a rating.. you can believe it's true and I'm not jus saying it to give you confidence. .. I will rate you 1 if I have to

Yeahhbro · Answer

I always say, get a girl who is just as attractive as you. Compability is not only emotionally, but physically too. With that in mind, if you are attractive, you have more barganing power, than somebody who is not.

BetterWildAdventures · Answer

Attraction is important, but every guy likes different things about the way a girl looks. Why do you think you’re ugly? Send me a pic and let me point out the good qualities I see and maybe some pointers on how to bring out your best look.

Anonymous · Answer

So first off, even if you think you're unattractive overall you may still be okay if you have a particularly good feature that you can emphasize. For most girls, no matter what their face looks like, following a healthy diet and exercising can result in a pretty attractive body. So I'd say start there because you can change it. What would you say is your single best feature?

orioneuropa · Answer

Girls as opposed to guys are just as thirsty or into hot partners but unlike guys girls pretend that's not the case. 80% of all girls go for 20% of all guys cause they only want the other ones. No 20% here admit that. The rest is even lying anonymously on the internet. That's how afraid girls are to say they are horny too. Weird. Just admit it.

Quantum_Leap · Answer

Even if a girl is a really great person, I will not date her if she isn't at least decent looking. That's not to say that other things don't matter too. There are a lot of hot girls out there who are whores that I would never date. But men are very visual creatures.

Dashee · Answer

As long as someone looks like they're taking care of themselves it's fine in my opinion. You don't have to be a fullblown 10 but having plucked brows, good hygiene and brushed hair it's fine.

Malita55 · Answer

Just find an ugly guy to date you. Ugly people go together

jimyee · Answer

Very important. However, you will just have to lower the bar. If you're a 5, try to flirt with other 5s. It would be ridiculous to expect you could get a 9 if you're a 4.

Anonymous · Answer

How can you know if you’re really ugly? Ugly doesn’t exist remember beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Some person might think you’re pretty and someone else won’t.

winterfox10 · Answer

They're somewhat important... Every guy has, and every guy will compromise on looks to get with a girl who has a great personality. There are limits, of course, but dudes are very lenient about these things.

bloodmountain1990 · Answer

They matter, but they aren't the be all, end all. They gotta have a good personality and at least a few things in common.  I've gone on dates with women who were cute but were just boring to talk to.

AlexD835 · Answer

Looks will fade eventually. Personality, values and interests are far more important when it comes to a long-term relationship.

bacca400 · Answer

Basic good looks are important but she doesn't have to be a model. Her personality is also very important.

ertyuiopa · Answer

It's EXTREMELY important. To tell you otherwise, would be blowing smoke up your ass. Having said that... keep looking. Your prince is out there.

Bluemax · Answer

"And there's no way to change it or make it better," That's often more untrue than most people believe.

AustinMan · Answer

Looks need to be attractive enough to get over the individual guy's threshold to move on to part 2, getting to know you.

kankanya · Answer

In my opinion it is somewhat important so go find a man that finds you beautiful. Maybe its somewhere out of the country.

aa180 · Answer

I'm an unattractive guy but still care about looks a fair bit. In saying that, however, if a girl was to reject me based purely off my looks then I honestly wouldn't blame her one bit.

Nik1hil · Answer

Very important for hook up.. Semi important for relationships..  I mean as long as you look healthy.. And are visible.. Not transparent like ghosts and tangible unlike me dreams. I am good.. 🤣🤣

smg99 · Answer

Beauty lies in the beholders eye , for you never know what tomorrow brings. Your mindset changes or your fortune changes your mindset ;)

melanieeeB · Answer

Very important, I don't have a check list or shit but I do want someone I find attractive

Exterminatore · Answer

Not important AT ALL. It’s inner beauty that counts. I can’t even say that with a straight face.  Pretty important obviously.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, it is possible for a guy to overlook a girl who isn't that attractive. I suggest you go out with a guy who might not be as confident or cocky as the others, and there are good looking guys like this. Just fuck all the good-looking insecure guys you can and then eventually, when you're ready, marry the person you resonate most with.

Nycesz · Answer

I always say look isn't everything but i also dont want to my girlfriend to look like a trashcan.

IainG81 · Answer

They are very important to me if I'm dating them. Not important at all if we're friends but if I we want to cross the line into relationship then they must be an attraction as well look wise.

Anonymous · Answer

Guys still bang fugly girls so... anyways you're bound to be attractive to somebody

Myk13 · Answer

Makes me sound bad, but I’ll be the first to say it about myself. It’s shallow and superficial but looks are a higher priority for me than if we even speak the same language.

JohnBoinka · Answer

If GUY is GOOD LOOKING than DICK SIZE doesn't matter and iff He is Not... hmmm... Try MONEY to Bribe any Women to act and Pretend as your PARTNER... hehehe

TrustOfWorthington · Answer

I only have some days when I tell myself, "wow, actually I don't look that shitty" but other than that... I look how I look. I won't change much about my looks but if my future partner wanted me to i would immediately.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

I think people are best with someone about their looks. Im like an 8.5 so id only date 7-10 maybe a 6 if she's very petite because thats my type. If you stray too far it will cause resentment and or jealousy and insecurity in one party or the other.

Anonymous · Answer

“Beauty is In the eye of the beholder” remember that, Put yourself out there more, yes it hurts getting rejected but soon rather than later you’ll find someone.

Shortstuff1980 · Answer

There is always some level of physical attraction but without good personality even the most beautiful will look ugly to me.

jmr204 · Answer

I think everyone can be gorgeous in there own way, I’m sure your just very down about being single for to long... cheer up hun!

DJB72 · Answer

Physical appearance can change in a heartbeat. That's all it takes for a road accident, or some jerk with a glass of acid etc

banga · Answer

Just have a beautiful heart, The most beautiful things are felt with the heart... But are not seen with the eye.

Jager66 · Answer

there is a minimum "bar" to meet in attractiveness, anything at or above that is good to go as far as looks are concerned.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

You never know who would fall for you if you don't give them a chance Trust me not all guys judge by looks and i always go by a girls personality.

esotericstory · Answer

Super important there's many cues of health and fitness that we see in a woman's appearance. Why is this important? Because our baby has to spend the first 9 months in her body to grow.

analyst69 · Answer

We are all attracted to whom we are attracted too. I may see someone as beautiful, but that doesn't make her beautiful, just beautiful to me. Eyes of the beholder...

Wifflesnoofer63 · Answer

Looks are nowhere near as important as many other things. Try flirting with some guys. Like the lottery commercials say: You can't win if you don't play.

Mexicoman101 · Answer

Not the most important but definitely of some importance.

sunrays1 · Answer

Personality comes first then you become attracted to them based on a good personality.

iskg679 · Answer

Looks aren't as important as women think. However, looks still do matter.

BobbyC65 · Answer

You are pretty and beautiful.

Jaysonava · Answer

I don;t know. I'd have to see. SO many girls have said they 'gained weight' and I was expecting a big person but they ended up thin as anything.

Anonymous · Answer

The most shallow boys are the ones who deny that they are, lol

jrmitchell2629 · Answer

I feel that you both should compliment each other so like im a sexy or handsome guy i believe i would be with a woman who is in my same category

justStrange · Answer

It is important. As that is what makes me to know more about her. Also I have a type. I usually go for that type of girls. I judge their personalty by their appearance first.

Kenni · Answer

Very. Just as much as his character is. They're twins really. I can't have one without the other.

humptydumpty01 · Answer

Somewhat  I'm 19 and I've never come close to a girl... lol

Giggletr0n · Answer

2/10, like my kids and act decently to others and Im all good

Coolgirl235 · Answer

Looks don’t really matter to guys trust me it’s easy to get one.

jss123 · Answer

Don't assume you're ugly because you think you are. My girlfriend is beautiful but thinks she's ugly. I'm certainly not the only person who thinks so.

Pizza_lover159 · Answer

Very important. If I see someone In not gonna say "he has such a hot soul".

Iron_Man · Answer

They're very important to me without Looks you don't have a connection

Matt57 · Answer

I think it's about as important as personality, but not more.

MajorZero · Answer

Looks are absolutely important, including the way you dress etc, etc, etc

jacquesvol · Answer

When you start a career, looks are important because managers and HR people are so narrow minded.

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