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Guys, how important are looks to you really? (Page 3)
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Looks are important. there is no lying about that.. but it's not the first priority in the long run.. I prefer personality first then looks..
Honestly, to guys? More important than it is to girls.
Everyone's ideas of beauty is different !!! Even though you may not find yourself attractive, someone else sure will no doubt about it. Learn to love yourself babes <3
Just be rich and watch all those problems go away. Hurry up and be rich you lazy mofo!
A little. Her heart matters most. (Brains definitely come in second place. 🥈 lol)
Looks aren't everything. It's a plus, but it's what is on the inside that counts.
I'd say out of 10 the importance of looks is about a 5 or a 6
Your personality should also be as good as your looks.
She has to be at least a 7. Otherwise I just won't be interested. Just being honest.
But most girls are 6 and above anyway.
Most men are shallow, some men are vain. But a few are decent. Just putting it out there.
I'm not sticking with a women that looking at makes my dick go soft
oh fuck off ya limp old fart
There are plenty of couples that aren't attractive that are really happy together.
oh fuck off kid
@wootamandawoot41 What's your problem? And I'm older than you.
You shouldn't put yourself down... i bet that you are pretty
Guys are a lot more shallow than girls. They go for looks.
'Course they are important, but they're not everything.
I agree and I am surprised also with it
@Pinky_what_why About what?
what u said
@Pinky_what_why No, what you surprised about?
Lol, what u said about looks are important but they're not everything it just came as a shock that a boy thought that ok
@Pinky_what_why Ohhhh, I get it.
Well thank you :)
lol u finally got it and np anytime
Find you someone ugly also. I’m sure there are plenty guys out there who think the same thing.
So what makes you think that you can't change your ugliness?
It's so much harder for us girls. A guy can shower, shave, buy new clothes, and he's good looking already.
We girls have to invest and spend so much time on our appearance only to be scrutinized for the smallest thing like a shape of our fingernails or size of our feet. Guys can overlook major flaws in their appearance but we can't get away with anything less than perfect.
Friend of mine was once told by a guy that her fingers were too chubby. I was told my ankles aren't slim enough.
We can try and try and at the end of the day some of us will never be good enough.
@ArrowAndABow I think it's the other way around. Guys have it harder because they have to do all of the leg work in order to have a relationship. Girls are just filter-feeders in that they can just sit back and have guys come their way.
@ArrowAndABow
"It's so much harder for us girls"
No, it's about the same.
"We girls have to invest and spend so much time on our appearance only to be scrutinized for the smallest thing like a shape of our fingernails or size of our feet."
You think girls don't do this to us men? Do you have any idea how many times I've been rejected for my height? for my curly/afro type hair? for my baby face? for my crooked lip? all things I can't control. I don't have any sympathy for these type of rejections, as i face them all the time.
"Friend of mine was once told by a guy that her fingers were too chubby. I was told my ankles aren't slim enough."
That sucks, but there are more than plenty of guys who wouldn't even think about those things.
"We can try and try and at the end of the day some of us will never be good enough."
You're right. But I'm gathering that you don't want to put in the effort here and want an excuse to not change.
Chubby fingers? Holy shit. That's some dumb shit to complain about.
It is to a point. But, without a personality, it's pointless
Absolutely we can... if you have guy friends haven't any of them tried to poke you?
If you get the right guy he will like you for who you are
I used to not care. But after being on here for a few months I realize how fucking shallow girls are, so I give no fucks about body shaming now.
Interesting. I feel the same way towards men
@latinabutterfly96 I don't blame you.
What do you typically shame men for?
Well. A few things.
1- they try to justify their idiocy and lack of decency with the excuse that they’re “visual” and they’re “inclined to sex naturally”.
2- some of them are highly hypocritical. They want a gorgeous model but they don’t take care of their own body to make themselves attractive... and then they’re shocked that they get rejected.
3- I think personality wins if they’re the right person. Guys give it too much importance, and yet again justify it by saying they’re simply visual
You? With women?
@latinabutterfly96 I thought this was about body shaming.
It’s related lol
My actual standards aren't high but if i find out a girl says shit like "I only date guys this height or up" i'll fuck with her even if i pass her fucked up inspection.
I go out of my way to ruin shallow people. This one guy i know broke up with my friend after she broke her nose in a car crash, i got him fired.
Lol... I know how you feel. It sucks doesn’t it? My best friend got played by this jerk who thought she deserved it just bc she wasn’t the best looking. He then asked ME out and talked trash about her (just imagine how low he went) and I fucked with his head so hard it’s not even funny. He deserved it
I ended up dating this girl in college who made fun of me in college for being short. I was with her for about 6 months and ended up getting her to be anorexic for a bit. dropped subtle hints and what not to make her think she was fat. She wasn't, but it was about the payback.
Lol I can’t believe I’m saying this but good for you😂😂
@latinabutterfly96 thanks
Honestly. Some people just deserve it
@latinabutterfly96 well i mean, to me it extended to all women. I know it's an issue, but it's okay.
Hey, just know there are some cool/chill women too. I’m not like that, I promise. ☺️
@latinabutterfly96 I bet there are, but I'm too far in. All through highschool and most of college i was "too short" or "too dark" or "i don't date friends" I got lucky and ended up just becoming good looking so I for now i rather try to make people shitty like what they did to me. I don't really care for a relationship right now.
Well good luck... but don’t become what you hate. ;)
@latinabutterfly96 I don't mind becoming what I hate. If i learned anything from all this, it's that it's girls vs guys, let the smarter one win.
I sadly agree. To an extent...
@latinabutterfly96 as a girl you'll win by living off a guys career. You can even just use your looks, marry an older guy with money, split with him, boom you got 50% of his shit.
No because we don’t have that “luxury” anymore. It’s not even a luxury. I’d be kidding myself if I pretended to be happy in a marriage where I wasn’t doing anything productive for myself. Lol, I like to learn and I like to be innovative and that’s what I’ll be. ;)
or find some guy with money who never dated because he was a loser, stay with him for security, but see real men on the side because your husband is a loser and won't leave you because he knows he can't find another woman and he'll lose his shit.
I'll NEVER marry, i've read about this shit happening too much to ever want to take that chance,
@latinabutterfly96 you can keep your career, you'll just get some of his shit.
Uhh no that doesn’t apply today. That’s why there are prenups and postnups...
But whatever. Good luck.
It's not so different from what younger girls do. They date the college jock who cheats on them, so to get back at "all men" they sleep with more jocks. when in reality they just hurt genuine guys who actually wouldn't treat them like shit.
It's also women who tend to demonize guys in break ups. If a break up happens because personalities just don't click, girls are often the first to spread rumors about "how shit" the guy is.
It's fine, you win on that front you hurt the guys you want to hurt.
My friend always tell me that the girls I like are ugly so I guess I don’t mind care about looks
Looks are always a bonus but it's the personality that matters most
Somewhat important
Looks open the door for conversation. But personality prevails in the long run.
As long as she ain't "butt ugly" and has a nice personality, id go for it.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, personality shines through, don't judge yourself c
Looks play a small percentage, around 20% while personality make up the remaining 70%.
Personality comes first, but good looks are always a good bonus :)
I can't fall in love with someone who I don't want to have sex with, period.
That’s fair. I think most people feel this way. I can’t fall for a guy if I don’t want to have sex with him (aka if I don’t find him physically/sexually attractive). Only asexual people would disagree, but I won’t judge them
@latinabutterfly96 I've tried being "nice" to unattractive women who were into me (hang out with them) when I was younger. Yeah it was friend-zoning but I wasn't taking advantage them for money or anything else. But now that I'm older I'm honest early. I know how excruciating it is to be in the reverse roles.
I also dated a girl who I was semi-attracted to for an entire year. I loved every inch of this woman's being at the time, but I found myself less and less interested in sex. That among other things lead to a tragic downfall in the relationship.
Wellp. Don’t beat yourself up. There are lots of women who would actually date and have sex with a guy ONLY to take his money. That’s more cold and calculating than simply being honest. Lol
@latinabutterfly96 oh you don’t have to tell me about those cunts. Already met a few
somewhat, they play a role but not a huge one.
don't be sad about it misses anon, love will come to you like it did to me.
I don’t think it’s important to most guys.
Guys are more visual in attraction.
Looks don't decide wether Love comes or not.
The beauty is between the ears.
If she is ugly I'm not sticking it in her.
shut the fuck up you little fool
Speaking of ugly and not wanting to stick it in her...
it gets your foot in the door but not much else.
You're judging your own self.
The most important thing
Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.
Because you konw exactly how people are...
There aren’t that many ugly people.
I can relate I'm gross looking
Please just look in my eyes thats all l need lol
I voted B... that's why I have eyes
I dont go on looks. Im not shallow
From the scale of 1 to 10, a 7
I bet that you’re cute no one on this plant ugly♥️
lol ok u
Okay
okay
It's about personality
im irish! we have the best personalities
good answer.
@Mikayla03 come over to crumlin! forget the US
They're important, but looks aren't everything.
Average importance
Very important, I don't like ugly girls
Not important
You are beautiful
They're important.
Somewhat important
I doubt your ugly
hush up dan
Why?
whoops sorry. i thought you were danimal
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