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Guys, how important are looks to you really? (Page 3)
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Attraction is a complete package - face, body, personality, character etc. You will have your best parts that seem attractive to guys, some will just be attracted to you only by the fact that you cared for them at a certain time. You can work on your best parts and then flirt and see, you can understand the increased interest. Also, if women judge themselves then they will always be ugly and fat lol.
Me doubts this is about looks. Something else going on here.
And a homework task for you... :)
Go to the busiest mall in your locale, find a seat in the busiest part of it, and sit and watch all the people going by. You'll be amazed at all the ugly people walking by together holding hands, smiling, obviously in love.
No, love isn't about all the beautiful people, we have so much of this celebrity worship that average people are somehow just displaced. It's just not reality.
another almost sensible statement. you're growing on me browneye
@wootamandawoot41 - are you posting anonymously and then answering on replies?
no. i am what i am. what you see is what you get. im amanda
@wootamandawoot41 - but this isn't your question. Are you stalking me? LOL
you keep showing up in the questions i answer lol no im not stocking you old fart. now you're not growing on me as much
@wootamandawoot41 - LOL. Okay. :)
I just answer the feed as this shit comes up.
How important are looks, really? pfft. I mean come on. Love can't start till attraction does. And then there needs to be conversation.
I like to say, "There's an ass for every seat. Or a seat for every ass." LOL
amen! and agree. i answer as feed comes up as well
@wootamandawoot41 - another brownye-ism...
"Turn them over and they all look the same." :)
thats so not true bahahahha
@wootamandawoot41 - Well, the bottom line is asker is confused about relationship dynamics. And she's likely not as ugly as claimed - people who do this are either generally in denial, one way or the other.
There are likely any number of suitable men that would date her and love her if she just got off the 'whoa is me' routing and found them interesting and desirable. Guys are WAY more interested in a woman's level of attraction and desire for HIM than ANYTHING else. Everything else is secondary, even her looks.
And any woman can benefit from a make-over. If a girl needs help then get some. A little make up, a new do, some clothes, and voile - a beauty!
New homework task... watch the movie SHREK. :)
agree to only partly agree.
You know looks are important. But the appeal of certain looks varies man to man. All I can say is that I have seen many couples with one partner being really good looking and the other really unattractive. So love does cross all boundaries. They had to date first. Flirt just a little and see how it goes.
I am 31 and no close relationship even though my most opposite sex friends compliment s me every time... To be true for me good look needed initially to start conversation but later It is okay for me if I know the person.. Still long-term relationship is not possible with a girl that is less attractive to you because she would always be insecure about the relationship
Don’t talk about yourself like this darling. We are all beautiful in our own way. Want confidence? Lift some weights and get an irresistible body 😏 and be your awesome self. That’s all you need. F#%* what men want or think.
you are amazing <3
Thanks you sweetness 🤗♥️
you dumb?
the look is the first thing you see about somebody. So even if you are great (personnality), I am sorry but look is important.
Some people can overlook this, but this people are not numerous in my mind. Sorry and Good luck.
I don't know if it helps but ugly people had it hard since the beginning of times : you're not alone.
First I have a hint for you. Be a good girl, good wife, learn to cook, tidy up, just be a perfect wife and it is only a matter of time that somebody will crave you, because there are men, mostly these who have more brains and less hormones, who will appreciate that over beauty.
As per beauty, it depends. Practice, eat healthy (vegetarian if possible), do not be too fat or too slim and there is no way you can be ugly. There is a way to look good. Always.
I’m not exactly beauty queen 2018 but I go for personality. If the personality is a 10, their appearance is a 10.
But they need to have good personal hygiene and do look after themselves
That's right!
For me guys don’t have to exactly be models for me to like them. I start liking guys because they know how to make me smile and laugh and just talk to.
Appearance doesn’t matter overall, I just wouldn’t get with someone with yellow teeth and smells foul... general hygiene is a must for every future relationship 😂
Here's my view. Good looks will get my attention. Good personality will keep it. A good person who truly appreciates me and cares about me can have my heart. I can get past looks if the woman in question gets my attention. This however I am not gonna lie would require some outgoingness on her part. If she is shy as well as physically unattractive getting my attention may be difficult.
Both are important looks and personality , if do not match on those 2 things we just cannot be together , im not gonna date girl tha is lower looks / intelligence then me , just NO
Yes LOOKS IS important and just deal with it both for males and FEMALES ALSO!!! , and dont believe they are not
Well it differs some will put a lot of stock on looks others won't
Personally looks are mainly an attractor for those I don't know
Someone I don't know or barely know
The more I get to know a girl the less it matters
So if I got to know a girl who is sweet kind wonderful and makes me laugh I would not really care about her appearance
I'm sure you are being a little harsh on yourself. If its a weight thing, its just fitness and training, to shape your body, and a little bit of time with a hair stylist, and a beauty therapist, you will by surprised with what they can do, you have to get out of your current mindset, otherwise no one will want to be with you because you're not comfortable in your own skin.
Assuming that what you say is true. I have a friend she is super ugly (sorry not gonna sugar coat) like literally like a 1 out of ten in face no joke.
She worked on her body and she literally has slept with soooo many dudes it's not even funny. Last I heard her number was like 55 guys no joke. She has been married twice has 3 kids and still cheated on her husband.
Her husband is no lie pretty good looking and tall. So if she could do all this you can snag a guy.
Lmfaoo😂😂😂 oh god! This is tragic but still hilarious
@latinabutterfly96 it's also true
I know
Looks are important for that initial attraction, but looks are not everything. I know this is going to sound corny, I don't think anyone is "ugly". I think for everyone out there, there are several others out there that would think that person is attractive. Some women give off an un-approachable vibe, maybe that's why guys don't ask you out or try to flirt with you. Maybe you should try to ask someone else out, someone outside your circle of guy friends.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
I don’t think you should talk that way about your self. I obviously have no idea what you look like but don’t put your self down. Attractiveness is also how one carries them self. A beautiful women that is a bitch can easily make her self very unattractive. There is someone for everyone. Be positive. There is beauty in everyone.
They are not important to me. If someone is attracted to me for whatever reason that is enough to gain my interest. Most people in this world are below average to average looking and a lot of them have partners which blows apart the "you must be good looking" attitude that a lot of people have on here.
Important.
However as you age your natural looks are a smaller proportion compared to whether you are in shape, dress decently, nice hair and clothes etc. Basically there’s a high chance to be “average” or better based on what is under your control. (More so than as a teen)
Looks are important, but for one, you most likely aren't ugly (perhaps just a little plain), but a good sense of fashion, good grooming habits and above all an excellent attitude, personality and self esteem will outweigh all of that. So, try meeting some new guys, finding common interests and being a little bit flirty. You will do it eventually.
I'm not gonna sit here and pretend that looks aren't important to me at all, but at the same time I value compatibility and what's on the inside above all else. Also don't be so down on yourself, there're some guys out there that favor a good personality and/ or someone they can connect with and who know? You might not be as ugly as you think. Do what you like to do and you'll eventually find someone.
Looks are undoubtedly important!! But this isn't just your face and stuff, its overall. Physical attraction is hugely important for initial attraction and attention, but once you properly love someone, looks are merely a bonus.