Oh damn my man is the same way. I have gained weight recently after this end of year holiday and many of my clothes don't fit me. I told him I am working out and dieting to shed some pounds and he tried so hard to stop me saying I look good and he likes my thick thighs. I look good with clothes on, not naked. I am not sure if their definition of fat or chubby is different than us women, but assuming they are insecure, they feel like if we are slimmer, we will get more attention from the men. They don't like it.
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Sounds like he doesn’t want you to start getting attention from other men.
If you do decided to work on losing weight tell him you’re not doing it for him, you’re doing it for yourself!
Maybe he thinks you'll look even more attractive, attract other men, and leave him.
Makes no sense, because you can't look at it that way every time your partner looks good. Y
Sounds to me like he thinks you're getting ready to trade up for some reason.
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He seriously said that? Does he actually think the only reason to take care of your body is to get into a relationship? Not sure if that's sad, or funny TBH.
He might wonder if you are losing weight to attract a new guy, or other guys. Or he may be too heavy himself, and feel left out and insecure if you lose weight and he doesn't, again, maybe ending in you becoming interested in someone else who is not heavy.
1. If you are overweight (BMI > 25) then do it for your health.
2. Exercise for your health anyway.
3. He seems to think that you are doing to make yourself more attractive to guys. He's comfortable with your appearance now but he's afraid that if you lose weight that you will be attractive to more guys and will choose them instead. This is his way of saying "I'm not all that great but neither are you. If you improve yourself I'm afraid you will outgrow me." Maybe you already have.Lol you are one of the first girls who have a healthy self-view here about their weight. Props for that.
Otherwise, the reason is obvious. You lose weight, you become even more attractive. And from here, it's really not rocket science.He might be into slightly larger women. I’d say you do you. If you want to lose weight and get thinner then do it. You’ll be better about yourself and more confident. And when your boyfriend sees your more happy, then he should be happy for you
That is quite strange what usually happens is that you magically end up with twice the wife or girlfriend and you are the monster if you say anything.
He is afraid you will be to good for him.
because he feel you could do better then him
Maybe he likes you as you are.
That's fine. You look great
He probs want you to be happy with your weight?
Maybe he like a pregnant looking stomach
Probably he likes chubby girls.
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