Does it sound like my weight is an issue for him?

[Anonymous]

1. We watched a Instagram video of a girl who was overweight chasing a man inside a car throwing money. Eventually the woman lost weight from doing that. So then my boyfriend says " you should try doing that" and laughed. I asked him what he meant by that and if it has anything to do with my weight and he said it's nothing and I'm overthinking.

2. One day we were talking and I said when I get a break from my child who drives me nuts I want to use that time to meditate and relax. He suggested that I use that time to exercise with him.

3. We had another discussion. This was about vertigo attacks and what causes them. He said his mom got vertigo attacks too but probably because she's in the heat. When it came to me he said the vertigo attacks could be from poor eating.

From all of this I'm convinced he doesn't accept me or like me but I'm a few pounds overweight. But he doesn't want me to leave him which is crazy. 🥴

Yes your weight is an issue for him

No your weight isn't an issue for him

[AaronKrieger]

Might be an issue or just something he's concerned about in regards to your health. He also could just be someone who is blunt and speaks his mind. I don't know him, so I won't know for sure.

[spartan55]

Is your weight an issue for you?

[Asker]

No it's not

[spartan55]

Then don't worry about it. I would get rid of your boyfriend. He is a passive aggressive douche.

[Asker]

Thanks

[BoopBoopBeep]

What's crazy about that? If you care about someone and they have bad health habits of course you'd want them to change. If he were a junkie wouldn't you want him to NOT shoot up?

[Anonymous]

Sounds like he is worried about your weight but just can't find a good way to say thay to you and ask you to lose weight

[Asker]

I know that but when I confront him he denies this and says he accepts me. So I decided to break up with him.

[boggboss]

Sound slide it is yes