Are friends with benefits usual one sided?

[Anonymous]

friends with benefits ignores me whenever I text him. But gets mad whenever I ignore him.

[Anonymous]

Feminists tell us that we woman can be like men and enjoy casual sex and friend's with benifits relationships are modern but the truth is that guys use friend's with benifits relationships to have casual consequence free no strings sex with women that are not good enough for them to be in a relationship with until they find a woman who is hotter and with more to offer then they dump their friends with benefits and start a relationship. Women always get hurt in friends with benefits mostly because a high quality guy who is an 8 or 9 will be in a friends with benefits relationship with a girl who's a 7 or 6 or 5 or 4. Of course these women who are 7-4 have trouble finding a guy on their level because they shoot to high thinking they can get a guy who's a 8 or 9 because they have had sex with these guys and can't comprehend that guys differentiate between the women they have sex with and the women they marry.

[Justacatlady]

Are you just texting each other for a hookup?

[Asker]

What do you mean?

[Justacatlady]

The texts he gets mad about or ignores? If you are just friends, then getting upset about him not answering or him getting mad when he feels like you are ignoring him are silly. If your just friends, why does it matter when you text back?

[Asker]

If he ignores me I’m just like ok fine I’ll ignore him. When I ignore him he blows up my phone. He will call me like 4 times then he will text me saying I guess you don’t want d*ck or something like well I tried to hit you up, I wanted to see you but your not anwering. Lol Something to that nature

[Justacatlady]

Seems like he has a weird idea in his head what a friends with benefits is. Maybe you two should talk about what that means to each other. Lay down some guidelines so he isn't trying to act like your man

[Asker]

That’s a great way to describe it. He does try and act like he’s my man. But doesn’t have what it takes to actually be. I think I am going to sit down with him and let him know.

[Justacatlady]

Thanks for MHO 🥳

[mrbobz]

I think generally yes, for it to not be I think if both are on even footing and they both have something to loose and nothing to gain than a bit of fun, then it's not. E. g. two adults, both married to other people having sex but wanting to stay with partners... Ignoring the obvious ethics

[BigTank]

friends with benefits are hella one sided. Most times it's the guy but can be the woman too. Just kinda stupid too, friends with benefits are usually either someone is cheating or both aren't smart enough to just get together.

[bill_towers]

he's probably immature