Is vaping a dealbreaker for girls?

[Anonymous]

I’ve stopped smoking a year ago, I’ve tried everything and vaping is the only thing that works for me, there’s no smell off my breath, I’m not doing anymore damage to my health than someone who eats meat or eggs, so is it still a turn off?

[Justagirl106]

The amount of people here that think vaping is not bad for your health disgusts me. Vaping is actually worse for you because it has much more concentrated drugs. It is a deal breaker for me. But honestly even if I was okay with it, the fact that you have no clue that its still harmful is a deal breaker.

I don't have a problem with people making their own decisions to use vapes, but I think it is idiotic and I won't be a part of it. And obviously I don't want to date an idiotic person, therefore I won't date anyone that vapes.

[Asker]

Lol do you work for the tobacco industry? It’s not nearly as harmful as smoking tobacco, I never said it wasn’t harmful, we can’t know that until they do tests on the long term effects, just out of curiosity do you eat meat?

[SentientBrick]

What sort of "drugs"

[Justagirl106]

You said "I'm not doing any more damage to my health than someone who eats meat or eggs". And that is false.

[Asker]

Is it though?

[Justagirl106]

@SentientBrick Nicotine

[CarpetDenim]

I for one think plain old nicotine and some blueberry flavored water vapor is probably less damaging for a person than a mix of nicotine, hydrogen cyanide, formaldehyde, lead, arsenic, ammonia, benzene, and all the other hundreds of harmful and cancer-causing substances found in your everyday cigarette, but I guess that’s just me.

[Justagirl106]

@CarpetDenim I agree that cigarettes have some disturbing ingredients, but vapes also have some ingredients that are bad for you, and unfortunately that information just isn't as available to the public as it should be

[SentientBrick]

Must be careful where you get information on vapes. Much like many other widely used items there can be a lot of misinformation and pseudo science around it. Not to mention the push from large tobbaco companies to restrict or supress sales of these products. Vaping poses a threat to the bottom line of these companies because its pulling in the younger genereations and hurting sales of their old fashioned products.

[helplease27]

Vaping isn't harmful and it helps quit smoking so for me no it wouldn't be. I understand it, nicotine is addictive but harmless to vape its the other chemicals in cigarettes that cause damage. Valing and smoking aren't the same thing and people who think it is just needs to learn more about it... oh n well done for quitting

[Asker]

How do we know they aren’t harmful though? I don’t think they’ve done any long term tests, they are definitely much better than cigarettes obviously, I just don’t know if they are completely harmless and thanks 🙂

[helplease27]

Nothing you do is completely harmless but yes the tests and studies are done, all you need to do is look it up 😊

[witherwing]

I thought all sorts of smoking, vaping and pot would be a deal breaker, until I found a person who forced me to see it doesn't matter. But the habit is still really annoying. The craving for nicotine and the withdrawal. It's not as bad for your health, but you're still addicted to the habit of smoking.

[Asker]

I know, I don’t want to be vaping for the rest of my life, kind of funny but I started smoking fags because my girlfriend did

[helplease27]

From what you just said i think the problem is your caring to muxh about what other people do or think about you. Vaping is better for u than smoking and if the girl is gonna get shitty over it she's not right for u

[MascGirls]

I have a problem with it if they decided to start vaping for no reason (no reason usually meaning "it looked cool"). A pointless nicotine addiction. I know several people who have completely waned off of cigarettes with the help of vape and I see nothing wrong with that.

[Asker]

Yeah I don’t get that, why do it to yourself, I suppose you could say the same with smoking cigarettes, it’s been great help to me and I’m slowly working my way down in the strength of the liquid, I don’t want to be on them my whole life

[Phanta]

I've just started vaping this month. I was an alcoholic, and doing so has allowed me to quit drinking altogether. If your physical appearance was obliterated in clouds of vapor like the picture, I'm sure it'd be a turn off. But if it just produces a little vapor I don't see what the problem could be.

[Asker]

Congratulations 👏👏👏 alcohol is not an easy addiction to beat, my late uncle didn’t, so that’s great keep it going! Yeah the pic is just to get people’s attention lol

[Phanta]

Thanks

[D_Bone_Steak]

I switched from smoking cigars to vape... after about a month of coughing shit up, it's almost as if I quit inhaling anything at all besides my addiction to nicotine. But yeah, that constant cough is gone and my breath is better... I think it's better than it was.

[MollyTheOriginal]

Yes, for me. I think any kind of smoking is gross smelling and idiotic for the obvious health reasons... I smell it all the time when I'm walking in the city, against my will mind you. I don't want it in my own home.

[Asker]

Fair enough

[MollyTheOriginal]

Also, I didn't read the description until now, but: smoking via vape may be more 'pure' in the sense of not inhaling the carcinogens from traditional smoking, but it contains a much higher pure nicotine content, which is just as damaging to health.

[Asker]

I’m pretty sure it’s more to do with the formaldehyde than the nicotine, but like I said I won’t be on them for my whole life

[MollyTheOriginal]

Hopefully not, though I've heard studies saying that while vaping is successful in getting people off cigarettes, it often just acts as a replacement for it in the long run...

[Asker]

Oh yeah I’m well aware of that

[avahawkins]

addiction and attachment to drugs isn't attractive for some

[Asker]

I get that, I think the same about people who drink excessively, guess that makes me a hypocrite lol

[avahawkins]

maybe, but if u quit smoking (which is impressive) im sure u can quit vaping.

[Asker]

Oh yeah I will I’m working my way down through the different strengths of liquids and I will get off them eventually

[Love45talk]

Go on chantix or chamonix. Helped me quit in 14 days and stayed quit

[Asker]

I heard they have bad side effects for people with depression

[Love45talk]

I have psychosis and it didn't affect me at all. Maybe cause I am taking medicine for it. But yeah I heard about the bad side affects too

[Asker]

Interesting, well it Just doesn’t seem worth the risk to me because I’m in a good place rn but thanks 🙂

[StephenCF]

In the past it wouldn’t have been a dealbreaker, but one friend from work seems to love doing it when I’m with him in the privacy of the stock room, so much so that I’ve grown sick & tired of it & no longer appreciate the sight of anyone (girls particularly) vaping

[Asker]

doing it inside in front of someone is incredibly rude, I don’t blame you

[StephenCF]

True, but him doing it first or second time round I didn’t find it rude. I found it annoying when he started to do it at every opportunity, to the point where I struggled to picture him without the thing in his hand, held up halfway & ready to be used at any moment 😖

[Asker]

It’s illegal in my country to smoke them inside, lol sounds like you just really don’t like the guy anyway 😂

[StephenCF]

I actually do like the guy himself. He’s quite the comedian & I try to spend as much time around him to make my workday better. It’s just his bad habit of vaping. Back in the days, he only smoked but it wasn’t the same since he obviously couldn’t do that indoors during our shifts like vaping 😒

[outside_Toronto]

Yeah

[Asker]

😂😂😂

[DeviloftheValleys]

It wouldn't be a dealbreaker for me, but it would be a point in the against section. I irrationally dislike the use of most mind-altering substances for recreational use, the exception being caffeine.

On top of that; an addictive personality is not positive - as I have had an experience where a girlfriend developed an addiction for me and my company - which was very unhealthy.

[ILoveAnime]

Vaping doesn't really do anything to the body so why would it? I've vaped myself and I can tell from experience that it's not a big deal to people.

[GamerGirl1128]

So, my mom actually vapes, and it kind of upsets me because I worry she will start smoking again. However, if I know she is absolutely NEVER going to start smoking again it doesn't really bother me. As long as you are sure you will never start smoking cigarettes again, I don't see a problem. I'd advise, not to vape in places indoors. Even if it's, "just," a vape, it still seems rude and turn-off-ish to use it inside.

[Asker]

Yeah that’s super rude and illegal in my country

[CarpetDenim]

It’s a dealbreaker if it’s some stupid teenage boy who thinks he’s cool because he got his hands on a vape, but if it’s a case of a guy who used to smoke cigarettes and used vaping as a means of quitting, I am personally much more accepting of that

[disgustingweebtrash]

I vape

[CarpetDenim]

You don’t vape

[Denz1510]

Well I'd rather not walk round or sit in a massive cloud of vape

[Blueymusic]

Vaping is worse than regular smoking. 20 times worse. (Fact)
It’s a deal breaker to girls of course. I’m not even supposed to breathe that stuff in. Total deal breaker for me.

[SentientBrick]

Could you link to the peer reviewed study your quoting? I'm interested.

[Asker]

lol what? 😂😂

[Blueymusic]

@SentientBrick I've seen it on the tv with the puppets beeping each other out. so I can't really quote it exactly. there is two of them and it says on there. I'm actually serious about this. if you have seen it. I'm not sure what channel though.

[Asker]

So it’s fact because you saw it on tv lol you’ve said enough

[empathic]

I vape. I dont do it outta habit. I do it cuz i want to. Dont care what people think. Just gotta find someone like minded.

[empathic]

Tbh i think its funny pissing snobby people off with the smoke. They think its gonna hurt them or something 😂😂

[chris678788]

It is for me only because I’ve had several close family members pass away from lung cancer.

[helplease27]

Vaping doesn't cause cancer, there are no toxins in the liquid unlike cigarettes. Someone who vapes will actually be helping prevent it

[chris678788]

Actually, there’s a ton of chemicals that cause cancer in vaping. One of which is called formaldehyde. Another very specific chemical is called diacetyl. That one is found a vape flavoring. It’s linked to a lung disease called bronchiolitis obliterans - popcorn lung.

[ItsyBits]

It's a dealbreaker for me.

[SentientBrick]

Why?

[ItsyBits]

I just don't care for it. It seems pointless and silly.

[SentientBrick]

Do you know why some people use nicotine?

[ItsyBits]

Because they're addicted to it.

[SentientBrick]

Oh, so its definitely not for stress relief or as a poor crutch for anxiety and depression. They do it merely to be addicted to something. How intuitive of you.

[SentientBrick]

I had no idea people were so one dimensional in their reasons for smoking. You've really opened my eyes thank you.

[ItsyBits]

No need to get angry... I just don't like it. Being an alcoholic is a dealbreaker for me too even if their drinking started to relieve stress or anxiety.

[PondyPand]

Yeah fuck no for me.

[Asker]

Fuck no it’s not a dealbreaker?

[PondyPand]

Fuck no it's a deal breaker.

[Asker]

Ah ok no bother

[Lance1965]

Nope. I have no problem with it.

[ChocolateMarie2001]

Vaping is for douches.

[Asker]

Is it more douchey than smoking cigarettes?

[ChocolateMarie2001]

I think both is equally.

[Asker]

Fair enough, Is using Nicolette patches douchey?

[Asker]

I don’t really know what douchey means tbh

[ChocolateMarie2001]

No there trying to better themselves.

[CarpetDenim]

People who used to smoke cigarettes but switched to vaping are also trying to, and have, bettered themselves

[BrightAct]

Ew vappingg

[SummerOwO]

Yeah, it’s kinda gay..

[Anonymous]

It's a turn off, but not a complete dealbreaker.