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It depends on what we call nerdy and how nerdy.
I would say I tend to like nerdy guys, in the sense that I usually fall for guys that maybe would either enjoy reading books a lot, love scifi, enjoy getting knowledge and know a lot about certain topics (robotic engineering, computer programming, cinema, history of philosophy, etc.), like comics, videogames or even rol... However there are nerds who are annoying who are logically smart and brag about it and behave condescending with other people, because they lack of any emotional and social intelligence.
I get it!
That's 100% false, at least for me. I only like nerdy guys. Guys that worry more about learning and questioning things. Guys that pay more attention to intellectual topics and exercising their brain instead of other superficial things...
I hear that.. very nice!
Women are attracted to confidence and passion. They may not find your nerdy interest interesting but there's nothing more attractive than listening to someone gush about something they love.
They hate and despise actual nerds.
They love hot guys who dress like nerds.
It's not the same thing. When girls say they "like nerdy guys," this is what they mean:
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False. Simply because a blanket statement like that can't be accurate. I would think there are plenty of women that are attracted to varying degrees of nerdy.
Sometimes they are. When I lived in Germany, I saw nerdy guys with SOs all the time,
I love nerdy guys!!! It's the only type of guy I've really ever dated
Think back to high school. Who got all the girls? It was the jocks. The nerdy kids who were coding or in the chess club were more likely than not virgins until their late 20's or even 30's. A lot of nerdy guys will say to themselves " Oh I can't get the ladies because I'm in the physics club" or " I like comic books and this is why the girls won't date me" or " I need to play football if I ever want to get laid!"
This is complete and utter bullshit.
Most woman don't give two shits about football or what ever sport. The reason they all got the tingles was because the jocks were cocky assholes that did not really give two fucks about anything.
Woman will never admit it but that attitude is what gets them all hot and horny.
What the nerds of high school never understood was that woman are attracted to strong , confident men. As a rule woman are not into nerdy guys because they lack confidence , they lack a certain level of manliness that gives woman the tingles. Just like with sports, most woman don't give two shits about the chess club or the physics club.
As long as a man is :
-confident
-does his own thing
-knows what he wants
-does not chase after woman like some lost puppy
- and is just the right amount of cocky.
Woman will always get the tingles. Nerd or not.
False mostly. But it also depends.
First and foremost, it's matter of perception. I don't think it's valid to generalize millions of women and speak on behalf of all of them that [Women] don't like this and that. It's not accurate to do so.
There are many nerds who found love. You know, true actual love destroys every measure by all means. My prime example would be Dr. John Nash. A nerd who suffered from schizophrenia and still her wife was attracted to him and stood by him at all costs to the end.
Well too late I already did! Just trying to get a gut reaction. OBVIOUSLY it's a matter of perception but some feel one way or another for a certain reason.
lol yea too late! ouch!
And right! i believe mostly would say false as they're saying so far.
I think so too!
While it is false, I think that most women are not attracted to nerds, or at least those who are high on the nerdiness spectrum. Ultimately, the nerdiness can be overcome by becoming successful in life and in one's career. Just look at Bill Gates and Jeff Bezos.
That's fair!
False. Many women find intelligence & quirky behavior/ personality very attractive. Who doesnât love a man who knows what heâs taking about. Who likes to be goofy & who isnât afraid to be authentic himself. Itâs sexy
yes.. yes they do!
Hmm well I donât have that many guy friends, and almost all of them are nerdy.
I see them as friends and it is hard to see them as anything more. But they are definitely great and trustworthy friends that are there to help you and laugh whenever you need.
It depends on the level of nerdiness, if a guy is smart and is very interested in nerdy things but he is also interested in other things, if he takes care of his appearance and does not look like a complete nerd, then of course he can be attractive.
But Iâd say overall I donât see them as very attractive
False, in elementary school every girl ridiculed me for it. But middle school and onward they found the intelligence to be attractive. If your successful and knowledgeable in something that can be a boost in attraction. However, if you don't make an effort to look appealing your going to get minus points not for being nerdy but for looking uninteresting.
False, most of the time theyâre usually really nice and passionate, being a nerdy girl myself itâs a plus. 😊
Totally get that!
Say what?
Ha Ha Ha good one
Logical nerds to me are a huge turn off. I mean when they think they know everything and act like theyâre smarter than everyone
Well that is a good point!
True but all of the women will say false and they will say they are nerdy. Of course there is nothing about them that it and they are just into using several labels for themselves.
Ahhhh maybe now we are getting somewhere!
Itâs so false, I almost got possessed by the spirit of trump to yell âFAKE NEWSâ
bahahahaha no doubt!
Is that nerdy man a closet software engineer mega bucks balla? Or is he simply socially inept, broke and lives with mommy in his late thirties there is a difference.
To be honest I didn't think that far in advance. Forgive me LOL.
Fairnuff đ
They probably aren't if the guy looks like the one you posted, but if they look like this, a lot of them would be attracted.
Nerdy guys are amazing, I just dislike the ones that are political about everything. Aside from that, yes fill me with knowledge.
wow didn't know they were so political.
False look at serena and alexis ohanian, Zuckerberg, Steve jobs , the men of shark tank
Totally agree!
I love a nerdy guy who takes care of his appearance
I know right?
Well there you go!
Hot, charismatic social butterflies usually like other hot, charismatic social butterflies. Nerds like hanging out & hooking up with nerds.
What messes people up is getting too obsessed with their eyes & thinking they love someone unlike them because of lust.
people say âguys/girls donât like nerdsâ but they really mean the hottest non-nerd doesnât sex it up with nerds. But why pass up good sex & love pining for someone who youâd be bored with in 20 minutes?
Also, nerds can be total asshats and jerks too, letâs end this idea that bookishness, brains, anti popularity or whatever means youâre nice or kind.
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