TRUE or FALSE. Women are not attracted to nerdy men?

TRUE or FALSE. Women are not attracted to nerdy men?
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  • It depends on what we call nerdy and how nerdy.

    I would say I tend to like nerdy guys, in the sense that I usually fall for guys that maybe would either enjoy reading books a lot, love scifi, enjoy getting knowledge and know a lot about certain topics (robotic engineering, computer programming, cinema, history of philosophy, etc.), like comics, videogames or even rol... However there are nerds who are annoying who are logically smart and brag about it and behave condescending with other people, because they lack of any emotional and social intelligence.

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  • That's 100% false, at least for me. I only like nerdy guys. Guys that worry more about learning and questioning things. Guys that pay more attention to intellectual topics and exercising their brain instead of other superficial things...

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  • Women are attracted to confidence and passion. They may not find your nerdy interest interesting but there's nothing more attractive than listening to someone gush about something they love.

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  • They hate and despise actual nerds.

    They love hot guys who dress like nerds.

    It's not the same thing. When girls say they "like nerdy guys," this is what they mean:

    TRUE or FALSE. Women are not attracted to nerdy men?

    Not this:

    TRUE or FALSE. Women are not attracted to nerdy men?

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  • False. Simply because a blanket statement like that can't be accurate. I would think there are plenty of women that are attracted to varying degrees of nerdy.

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  • Sometimes they are. When I lived in Germany, I saw nerdy guys with SOs all the time,

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  • False

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  • I love nerdy guys!!! It's the only type of guy I've really ever dated

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  • False. Many women find intelligence & quirky behavior/ personality very attractive. Who doesn’t love a man who knows what he’s taking about. Who likes to be goofy & who isn’t afraid to be authentic himself. It’s sexy

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  • While it is false, I think that most women are not attracted to nerds, or at least those who are high on the nerdiness spectrum. Ultimately, the nerdiness can be overcome by becoming successful in life and in one's career. Just look at Bill Gates and Jeff Bezos.

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  • False, most of the time they’re usually really nice and passionate, being a nerdy girl myself it’s a plus. 😊

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  • Logical nerds to me are a huge turn off. I mean when they think they know everything and act like they’re smarter than everyone

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  • Say what?

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  • Depends... there’s the normal nerdy guy who nice, sweet and smart, and then there the nerdy who is smart and all but gets high on fruit-scented markers😂

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  • True but all of the women will say false and they will say they are nerdy. Of course there is nothing about them that it and they are just into using several labels for themselves.

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  • False mostly. But it also depends.

    First and foremost, it's matter of perception. I don't think it's valid to generalize millions of women and speak on behalf of all of them that [Women] don't like this and that. It's not accurate to do so.

    There are many nerds who found love. You know, true actual love destroys every measure by all means. My prime example would be Dr. John Nash. A nerd who suffered from schizophrenia and still her wife was attracted to him and stood by him at all costs to the end.

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    • Well too late I already did! Just trying to get a gut reaction. OBVIOUSLY it's a matter of perception but some feel one way or another for a certain reason.

    • lol yea too late! ouch!

      And right! i believe mostly would say false as they're saying so far.

    • I think so too!

  • False, in elementary school every girl ridiculed me for it. But middle school and onward they found the intelligence to be attractive. If your successful and knowledgeable in something that can be a boost in attraction. However, if you don't make an effort to look appealing your going to get minus points not for being nerdy but for looking uninteresting.

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  • Is that nerdy man a closet software engineer mega bucks balla? Or is he simply socially inept, broke and lives with mommy in his late thirties there is a difference.

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  • It’s so false, I almost got possessed by the spirit of trump to yell “FAKE NEWS”

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  • Think back to high school. Who got all the girls? It was the jocks. The nerdy kids who were coding or in the chess club were more likely than not virgins until their late 20's or even 30's. A lot of nerdy guys will say to themselves " Oh I can't get the ladies because I'm in the physics club" or " I like comic books and this is why the girls won't date me" or " I need to play football if I ever want to get laid!"

    This is complete and utter bullshit.

    Most woman don't give two shits about football or what ever sport. The reason they all got the tingles was because the jocks were cocky assholes that did not really give two fucks about anything.

    Woman will never admit it but that attitude is what gets them all hot and horny.

    What the nerds of high school never understood was that woman are attracted to strong , confident men. As a rule woman are not into nerdy guys because they lack confidence , they lack a certain level of manliness that gives woman the tingles. Just like with sports, most woman don't give two shits about the chess club or the physics club.

    As long as a man is :

    -confident
    -does his own thing
    -knows what he wants
    -does not chase after woman like some lost puppy
    - and is just the right amount of cocky.

    Woman will always get the tingles. Nerd or not.

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  • False look at serena and alexis ohanian, Zuckerberg, Steve jobs , the men of shark tank

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  • Stop trying to understand what motivates a woman it's never the same. Not even on the same day.

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  • It depends because what YOU may not find attractive another person may. I'm not attracted to nerdy guys but I've known several people who are.

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  • They probably aren't if the guy looks like the one you posted, but if they look like this, a lot of them would be attracted.
    TRUE or FALSE. Women are not attracted to nerdy men?

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  • I'm a nerd in history and language. I've never had issues attracting women!

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  • I love a nerdy guy who takes care of his appearance

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  • Honestly they just mean an attractive guy with glasses and a few quirks
    Not actual nerds lol

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  • Its no different than other men.

    Tall, fit and good facial structure men who happen to be smart and like "nerdy" things... many girls will like.

    Short, fat, balding man who likes the same things will not get women.

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  • I love nerds bc I’m a massive nerd and most of my friends are nerds so they’re just my kind of people

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  • False. A bit of nerdiness is always an attractive quality in my book.

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  • Hmm well I don’t have that many guy friends, and almost all of them are nerdy.
    I see them as friends and it is hard to see them as anything more. But they are definitely great and trustworthy friends that are there to help you and laugh whenever you need.
    It depends on the level of nerdiness, if a guy is smart and is very interested in nerdy things but he is also interested in other things, if he takes care of his appearance and does not look like a complete nerd, then of course he can be attractive.

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  • Lol allllll of my ex boyfriends were nerds, they are the only type of person I’m attracted to honestly.

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  • True
    I realized they aren’t actually attracted to the real nerdy guys
    It’s mostly the cliche nerdy guys

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    • And as you can see this is a very interesting question I must say
      The girls are saying yes in the votes yet the guys say no

      I think this confirms what I’m saying...

  • A nerd is safe no worries. They know that they are his queen and would never cheat. The nerd is just thankful to have someone.

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  • Nah i prefer geeky dudes and long as it isn't an obsession to them

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  • They say its false.
    But when a girl gets with a nerdy guy, she will soon loose interest and her mind will. start wandering for other guys.

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  • That depends if they're nerdy enough to have a Nintendo 64... I love the 64

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    • Had one as a kid, now i play the games i love on my phone instead. Android has perfect N64 emulation trough Mupen64-FZ.

  • Im a classic case of one that disproves that theory

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  • False... I love nerdy men. My only problem is they won't take initiative.

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    • Geeky guys need a bit of comfort in order to do that, i also had a past at a young age where most girls just let me know i am worthless as dating material and that shatters my confidence when it comes down to approaching. But recently i learned the tricks of the trade so i am to the point where once i am healed physically ill be making more effort in taking the lead.

  • They're just attracted to a hot guy wearing glasses

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  • Correction: Women like nerdy guys that look attractive to them.

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  • I love nerdy guys

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  • i like nerdy guys as a nerdy girl

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  • False. Just don’t be creepy or sexist and I’m down asf

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  • It depends on the girl

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    • Well of course but what are your thoughts?

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    • Each girl has her own definition of what nerdy is, and some girls are ok with it and some girls aren’t. A normal nerd is probably fine, a hardcore nerd is not.

    • Ok thanks for the comment!

  • Some girls do, but most girls don't in my experience.

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  • It depends on the person...

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  • l don't have a clue as l am very cool

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  • False

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  • Women are individuals who have individual tastes.

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  • My ex was nerdy and I'm attracted to him.

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  • I know women who go for that.

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  • I love me a nerdy guy. Oh yeah.

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  • False for sure!

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