Are you more attracted to mysterious people or open people?

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hellionthesagereborn Follow
Guru Age: 41 , mho 47%

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Being attracted to "mysterious" people is the most idiotic thing I've ever heard. First and foremost every one is "mysterious" before you get to know them, two dating is about getting to know the person so they would never stay mysterious for very long. I mean what, do you just never want to learn anything about your partner? Married 25 years and still not know what their job is or who their friends are? Its an idiotic metric of attraction. So open is fine.

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Furuok Follow
Xper 7 Age: 52

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Relationships are a bill sharing experience. Sex is often the reward for tolerance.
I am not a cheap date for those wondering if any? At all probably not! This site is full of very intelligent people, I am the one in leather trying to keep up,
hint: JAG

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- Asker
  
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  I think you commented on the wrong post, man. xD
  
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- Furuok
  
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  Yep! Your right, phone is blowing up & I fucked up! Sat down in the wrong classroom again.
  
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- Asker
  
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  xD It's okay! I'll give you MHO for our troubles, good sir!
  
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member53466143 Follow
Xper 4 Age: 25 , mho 50%

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Mysterious, I’d say I can be mysterious at times and someone mysterious as a partner would be really fun
I’d like someone to be sarcastic around and someone to tease and also someone who isn’t very clingy and takes time alone bc I don’t like being surrounded by people all the time, basically an introverted person.

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Dav1ss Follow
Yoda Age: 27

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490 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Kind of in between someone like a mysterious outgoing person

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- Asker
  
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  What things would they be mysterious and open about?
  
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- Dav1ss
  
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  They don't gloat too much about past achievements and are just generally outgoing but don't brag too much
  
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- Asker
  
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  Ahh, yeah bragging is s cringeworthy!
  
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- Dav1ss
  
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  thanks for mho
  
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Logorithim Follow
InfluencerMaster Age: 54

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Open. I like women who communicate well.

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dalibara Follow
Xper 6 Age: 27

+1 y

Open peoples. My time is too precious to be wasted on someone who doesn’t trust me enough to open up himself with me. I am not against being secretive but I hate the kind of peoples that want to be cool by ignoring the others or showing a cold attitude toward everyone

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MannMitAntworten Follow
Guru Age: 52

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I cannot say I ever met a woman who was, "mysterious". As for open sorts, they can sometimes be the hardest ones to get close too because they wait for you to ask questions about them which when you do not only disappoints them on whatever level.

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Drowningkingfish Follow
Xper 7 Age: 24 , mho 39%

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Not as in mysterious that they are hiding something disturbing and are social void. Not so open that they are rude and loud.

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ThisDudeHere Follow
Master Age: 31 , mho 33%

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3.2K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Open. I don't got time for mystery, I watch Scooby Doo for that.

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goforthexplore Follow
Xper 4 Age: 48 , mho 39%

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A little mystery is nice, but I think open people are more engaging and interesting. They seem more outgoing, confident and also honesty is important.

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Angel_Brunch Follow
Xper 5 Age: 30

+1 y

depends on their personality. sometimes mysterious people are more appealing other times open people are better cos they don't hide things

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Under_Maps_OF_twigs Follow
Xper 6 Age: 28

+1 y

Open people because mystery keepers generally hide things for a reason and it is usually dark.

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Anonymous
(30-35)

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Definitely mysterious people!

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- Asker
  
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  How come?
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  Open people scare me... most of those i met ended up being fake... and i'm a curious person so im attracted to mysterious people more
  
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- Asker
  
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  I'm sad that you've come across those types of people. A lot aren't like that though. You just gotta find the good ones! Location can have a big impact.
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  Location? How so?
  
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- Asker
  
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  Culture can have a big impact on how people are raised. Some are raised with less emphasis on proper moral guidance.
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  Ah yes i agree
  
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Clo917 Follow
Guru Age: 23 , mho 56%

+1 y

A mysterious person who opens up eventually.

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DECENTSCOTTISHLAD999 Follow
Yoda Age: 65

+1 y

l am very open my heart fell out

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- Asker
  
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  Metaphorically of course xD
  
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- DECENTSCOTTISHLAD999
  
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  Yes very true
  
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lforman007 Follow
Xper 7 Age: 21 , mho 36%

+1 y

Mysterious people are very intriguing...

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ShadowofRegret Follow
Guru Age: 32

+1 y

I love an elegant and mysterious woman.

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KSHMR7 Follow
Xper 3 Age: 31

+1 y

Mysteriou people, ans i too am mysterious. 😎

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- Asker
  
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  xD Nice choice in profile picture!
  
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- KSHMR7
  
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  Thanks mate 🍻
  
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Peachbae Follow
Xper 5 Age: 35

+1 y

Mysterious people, something attractive about it

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Lance1965 Follow
Master Age: 60

+1 y
3.7K opinions shared on Dating topic.

I prefer open people.

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Joker_ Follow
Master Age: 23

+1 y

I don't care for mysterious people

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Anonymous
(18-24)

+1 y

Why not both?😂

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- Asker
  
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  THAT IS FORBIDDEN! xD
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  Oh?😂
  
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- Asker
  
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  jk, I wanted to see which one people liked more than the other. No matter how small the difference! What about you? Try and choose though! xD
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  I love the mysterious type at first (quite intriguing) but after a while a want the person to be open and honest with me
  
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- Asker
  
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  Ahh yeah, I know what you mean!
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
  +1 y
  Good to know
  
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XxSnowbirdxX Follow
Xper 3 Age: 22

+1 y

Mysterious people!

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- Asker
  
  +1 y
  How come?
  
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- XxSnowbirdxX
  
  +1 y
  Cause they keep me guessing.
  
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- Asker
  
  +1 y
  What if all that guessing turns into a disappointment because there's not a lot of layers to peel back?
  
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- XxSnowbirdxX
  
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  Then I will be more attracted to open people :)
  
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- Asker
  
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  Ahh, alrighty 👌
  
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psychoticallyawkward Follow
Explorer Age: 31

+1 y

Open people.

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fulloflife Follow
Explorer Age: 25

+1 y

Mysterious

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OvershareGamer Follow
Xper 6 Age: 45

+1 y

A mysterious woman. Nah, that doesn't exist.

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- Asker
  
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  Why do you say that?
  
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- OvershareGamer
  
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  women like to share and talk. Women are conversationalists.
  The only time a women is mysterious because they are unpredictable and crazy.
  
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- Asker
  
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  You do realize that that is a huuugeee generalization? xD Everybody is different.
  
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- OvershareGamer
  
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  No its not a huuuuuuuuge generalization.
  Example:
  You can see it even with actors and movies.
  
  Actors: there are tons of mysterious and quiet dudes like Jason Stathem and johnny Depp types.
  Women? They all talk a mile a minute about themselves. haha.
  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jmgB5ov3qmI
  
  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zr8R4y5QFDo
  
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- member53466143
  
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  People tell me I’m sporadic and mysterious.
  I’m assuming part of it has to do with my social anxiety.
  But I’ve got lots of things to say once you know me,
  And no I’m not interested in Netflix, instagram, or selfies, thank you very much
  
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