Are you more drawn to shy people or outgoing people?

[Persephone02]

Shy people

Outgoing people

[serious]

Of course shy, reserved, sweet, nice, kind and caring type of people. The reason is such people are highly unlikely to test me in any way. Such people will naturally have respect for me and will never play any sort of manipulative mind games as well.

As a man I am always alert and in my opinion outgoing people are more likely to play manipulative mind games ( in any way) and if they do then they will be out of my life forever as I have absolutely no tolerance towards such things.

With people who are genuinely shy and sweet so at least I will assured that their behaviour will always be good and respectful and mature also so I will never have any reason to cease contact with them.

[serious]

Thanks for the MHO

[Persephone02]

You're welcome

[jacob33131]

My preference is shy people because I am shy. But, once I get to know someone I am an open book.

[Persephone02]

Same here!

[AI Opinion]

As an ambivert, I appreciate both shy and outgoing people. Shy individuals often offer depth and introspection, which I find intriguing, especially when we share interests like art or films. Outgoing people bring vibrant energy to social settings, making experiences lively and fun. Both traits can lead to meaningful connections, depending on the context. 😊

[HawkPerception]

I used to think shy people back in the day, because I was also shy myself. And I still somewhat resonate with shy people and understand their mentality because it's where I used to be. But I find that it takes too much of my energy to try to break their walls down and get them comfortable to say what's on their mind.

Now, I think I prefer outgoing people who add energy to my life, aren't afraid to voice their opinions, and are confident in who they are. This is not to be confused with loud. I don't like loud and obnoxious. You can still have a soft, quiet, and feminine energy while being outgoing, confident, bubbly, and adventurous in life. Those are the kinds of girls I'm attracted to.

[DishLady]

A little of both. Sometimes a quiet person is really smart and has good energy so I will sit with them and take the time to get to know them. Other times an outgoing person has a good quality to learn from or does things in a way that's very different, so... there's a benefit to knowing both. I'm more of a middle-ground person -- I'm introverted but have to be outgoing for work and stuff -- so I do like the combination of both in my life.

[MissSunshine2]

As an ambivert, I am a very talkative and social butterfly, so I need someone to be my audience and listen patiently and comment occasionally, sometimes, until I run out of steam.

[QuineJessica]

I love extroverts haha

But sometimes it is only with shy people that you can build the strongest friendships 💚

[WhitneySnow]

Shy people, but on the other hand a number of my friends are more outgoing than I am. I guess both.

[Cute_User513]

That makes sense! I think the other thing is as you get to know shy people more they become more outgoing as they get more comfortable too

[WhitneySnow]

@Cute_User513 yes! Definitely.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Give me your introverts, we will all sit in a room and quietly do our own things in shared company lol

[DryGermanGuy]

In-between. I find both communicating with a "mute" person and enduring the coked-up entertainer type sooner or later tiring.

[WonderingManII]

In the past I would of said "shy". But I have never gotten anywhere with a shy girl. But an outgoing girl tends to be more friendly.

[Persephone02]

Oh. I'm terribly shy but once you get to know me, I open up a lot.

[WonderingManII]

@Persephone02 that's nice, but a lot of people won't spend the time. They just move on.

[Persephone02]

Yeah unless you're a looker.

[WonderingManII]

@Persephone02 That is true, but if you got a lot of lookers around you too, then they will still just go onto the other lookers because they are easier to get to know.

[Persephone02]

That's also true.

[WonderingManII]

@Persephone02 I think that is the problem that instagram and youtube models face too. They always feel like they need to be sexier and sexier and sexier, because they got to compete with so many other extremely sexy looking women. It's an unending battle. That is just what I think.

[MrChinaski]

They both have their charms. But a bubbly outgoing personality only works for me if it doesn't accompany a deficit of self-reflection.

[uzumymw]

Equally to both, but shy people seem to be drawn to me. I have more shy people around me

[Spencer10]

I am a sucker for confidence... so I guys thats a sorta outgoing trait.

[Alex-Snow]

I do not mind shy girls... sooner or later they open up a bit

[Summeroflove]

A healthy mix.

[Still-alive]

A mix if both but if i had to choose maybe more on the outgoing side

[jahaims]

It depends on their values and morals not if they are an introvert or extrovert.

[queenofcardio]

Outgoing people. I'm very social

[YourExLover69]

Shy people since I'm kinda shy myself 😅

[Adogdog]

I would say shy people.

[Anonymous]

Shy girl like you