Are you more into shy or bold people?

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Tbh I don't care, but shy (and awkward) guys are charming in my opinion 😊

That's lowkey how my ex pulled me, I was crushing hard because I thought he was so cute and shyness attracts me since they're really putting effort in to talk to you.

Bold people are great too tho, they appear more confident.

What attracts you more?

Isabellaioss · Accepted Answer

I was highly into men who are bold and carry a dominating aura, however that was until I came across a guy who was shy. It was when I started talking to him that I realised how genuine and careful such guys are with talking to you. Unlike those guys that are bold, shy guys are more aware of what they say and tend to be careful of its effect on you. Sometimes I feel that the choice of most women today including me is shaped by the male characters we see in movies or read in books. We tend to be attracted to guys who resemble such persona with hopes that we get to live and experience that fiction. But trust me you'll only know what suits you once you've experienced it for yourself in your own story.

Cutegirl06 · Accepted Answer

Honestly shyness is what attracted me to my boyfriend too! I don't like guys that are all macho trying to prove how tough they are to everyone. My boyfriend is just so sweet to me. He's sent me flowers before just because ❤ We both are alike in a lot of ways. I'm just like you I'm shy and attracted to shy guys.

molonski2 · Accepted Answer

I don't mind either , but too far one way or the other is incredibly annoying , over the top bold tend to be opinionated , over the top shy give you nothing , and the two meet at the full circle of annoyingness...

One thing I hate with super bold , is they state opinions as absolute fact , and that should never be.

Kaneki05 · Accepted Answer

I mean they have to be bold enough to talk to me. And I do like someone who ain't afraid to say what's on their mind.
So bold winning some points here, though I wouldn't call half of my ex's bold they were more shy for sure.

Oh your single now sorry it didn't work out.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

I am very bold, but I have my shy moments. I am usually shy in love and bold in everything else.

7Phoenix7 · Answer

I like both. When I was younger I was quiet and shy. Some shy guys liked me but I found myself more attracted to the bold guys that were confident.

I'm no longer shy. Im quiet, but bold enough to initiate a convo with a guy i find interesting... and I find myself a lot more attracted to the quiet, and sometimes shy guys. We get along well. But I love bold guys too.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

If I have to choose, I would say more in bold direction :D I'm shy enough in the face to face situations :D

Wallythewalrus2 · Answer

I’m into shy quiet girls. In my experience, they have always been very loyal and trustworthy and really know how to love very deeply. The one downside, relationships can often die of boredom, so that’s why I compliment them with my boldness and outgoingness. I have gotten more than one girl to do something she never, ever thought she would and I’m not talking entirely sexual either.

Saiesh30 · Answer

A shy girl can be bold 😉 but a bold one won't be shy haha.
I looked for someone shy and get attracted towards them more than the bold women. The element of surprise in the shy partner is worth it once you reach their level of trust.

etsylo · Answer

both are nice, but im pretty much shy myself in a way and my boyfriend is pretty bold. kind of like a balance between us <3 with this, it helps me to be bold and open and it helps him to be vulnerable and soft at times.

Matadorius · Answer

I say this because I'm the same way, I think shy girls are cuter and more interesting to get to know. Because I can get to know talkative and extrovert girls more or less by observing them, even if I haven't met them before, but quiet and shy girls seem more interesting and mystical to me.

Slim57 · Answer

I think shy, I've dated both, mostly shy, bold people usually want to go out more and do more stuff and can help you get out of your shell a little if you're shy but I think shyer people wanna not go out as much and I'm more into that since it fits more to my shy lifestyle as well

genericname85 · Answer

i like both. but i do not like overly loud attention seekers.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

Bold, italic and underline, when you said bold, the only thing my mind is showing me is microsoft word 🤣🤣

Friendlybro79 · Answer

Somewhere in between but rather be more bold than shy if I had to pick. Really it's more important to me that a person just be themselves.

Anonymous · Answer

Both as well. I find the shyness quite cute and that and as you say I guess as it's harder to talk to people normally its something else you know.

Bold I guess would be more likely as I'm super shy and anxious so I definitely would appreciate the fact they were able to do things easier.

Worst · Answer

Shy, I think people with confidence are way more intimidating, so I feel like they expect a lot more out of you; but with shy, I believe their a lot more easy going in that sense, so it would be easier to talk to em

_Bernadette_ · Answer

Shy guys are cute. Bold guys are hot.  I like them both😈😍

Altheavas · Answer

In between, reserved, ambivert. I can’t see myself with a full on extroverted character. Gosh!

Apple1996 · Answer

I'm very shy so I naturally go for the opposite so guys that are confident and extrovert

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

I needed someone to match by  bold ness.

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

Shy people have always been easier to talk too, the easier they are to talk too, the easier it is to open up as a person I think.

Starrrboy · Answer

I prefer shy and introverted girls so we're both the same vibe, but in reality I usually attract bold girls and not gonna lie it's been growing on me, I kinda like the dynamic lol..

Staximus · Answer

If a woman is too shy to even let it be known that she is attracted to me, then it's a waste of time. There's got to be a bare minimum of boldness

Fabiloso · Answer

The shy type that never stops trying to be bold.

Al_Musafir · Answer

Someone who's shy but still knows how to put people in their places.

pass_the_celery98 · Answer

I'm more into shy girls, bold girls who want to be Ms. Dominant all the time is a turn off for me as a guy because I find it emasculating.

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Both depends how I get on with someone builds from there

JustinTheGreat · Answer

I’m a bold person so I prefer to connect with people who can match my energy

Fireguy17 · Answer

More bold. I need someone who is more independent. I simply can't be there all the time.

hbkfan · Answer

I used to be shy but eventually I got over my shyness and became more outgoing I still have trust issues with people at the beginning though

Jerre · Answer

I’m more bold than shy, but I’m not concerned about girls being shy or bold. If they are shy, I will try to get them away from that.

ChefPapiChulo · Answer

both are good. but i think i prefer loud since i like the opposite of what i am, to balance me.

AmeerX · Answer

I like shy girls but I really don't have a preference

AydenHazor · Answer

I don't have a preference either way. Both have their attraction

Z1pTD · Answer

It depends on the situation. Probably shy tho?

mohannad5 · Answer

In real life, I'm considered somewhat shy with women

LunarEclipse433 · Answer

I guess you would consider me shy as I don't like being the center of attention.

Anonymous · Answer

I like you. Confident and smart.

Wise4myage · Answer

Right in the middle!

RedInnocent68 · Answer

Love them both. For different reasons. 😉

Andres77 · Answer

Calm quiet but confident

NathanDavis · Answer

either way... but confident (=

Kelly6 · Answer

Both work for me

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

Bold without being an a-hole

mandyfire98 · Answer

Bold people usually.

LigiLigi · Answer

Shyness is cute ASF!

elizamichale1 · Answer

I like bold people

DJB72 · Answer

I prefer a quiet girl over a party girl

alexiah · Answer

I’m shy and I’m into bold guys

Mynameisbobby · Answer

Shy and quiet people

collie22 · Answer

I like shyness

CubaPirate · Answer

Just caring funny people

nawtee_me · Answer

Bold girls for sure…

TallAnon · Answer

Both are fine with me

HouseMoat · Answer

Bold, as I'm shy myself

Yellovv · Answer

Little bit of both I think..

LazerBean · Answer

Bold

Anonymous · Answer

Bold always less drama

Bigjake1995 · Answer

Either

ConfessingSteph · Answer

Bold :)

LavLavLuv · Answer

Bold

12karen · Answer

Same, that's cute 🥰

balyai · Answer

A bit of them

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