When it comes to dating... Is being a VIRGIN a red flag? (Page 3)
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Some girls still have high morals
Christian for example its very normal for the girls to remain virgins until they marry.
If your a girl a guy being a virgin is a red flag and a turn off. A girl being a virgin is turn on for most guys.
I don’t think it is for others but for the Virgin or inexperienced person more so if not completely just within their minds. Others don’t seem to mind at all and it seems to be a turn on for more than few
They might be religious, have no libido or were to insecure to do it in the past.
True, some others might have not fallen in love yet with someone.
At my age it is but then again I never had a interest in virgins, even when I was one myself.
so even if u were a virgin before u dont mind or did mind hte lady was avirgin
@kitty71 Yes, look at his age: 54. A women with some reasonable age gap and a virgin is very strange (40 years old, means 14 years gap!).
Of course it is not a red flag.
The idea is absurd.
Everyone starts out as a virgin. Some stay that way longer than others and for a variety of reasons.
We were all once a virgin. A red flag suggest there's something wrong. I could never believe being a virgin is a bad thing.
One male down-vote, seem not to understand it.
I don't get why anyone would downvote. Maybe they just didn't like my pink hair.😂
LOL, maybe. :-) Sure, everybody was a virgin at start.
Opposite for me. I'd not date a guy who had or has premarital sex. AKA he has to be virgin but with exception that he has been married before.
Same for me. I may consider a young widow without kids. Anything else is a no no
I won't mind if he's been divorced or widowed, and I don't mind him having kids either, as long as he is okay with the idea of us having our own kids as well.
No... I have dated many virgins. I have left most of them virgins. I don't see why not having experience in sex acts would detract from the ability to have fun, care and support each other
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Depends on age under 22, I wouldn't think twice. The older you get after that point I would get more and more curious why you have not been attractive to women. But it would never be a red flag.
You don’t know if it was their choice. Maybe sex was sacred to them and they had not met anyone they felt was worth it. you may not find that attractive either, but being a Virgin doesn’t mean people don’t want to smash 😌
I could have worded it better, but, that is my point. Why is operative. I ignored religious conviction because in that case, I assume the man would view it as a positive, and the question implies viewing it as a negative.
Not a red flag I’d respect it but I wouldn’t date you.
Weird distinction, but okay.
How?
It's not a red flag and you respect it, so it's a weird that it would be a deterrent.
A red flag would be someone that cheated before someone being a Virgin isn’t a red flag it simply just is I can’t change that. And I respect it because it’s your choice to wait good for you. But I like sex so I wouldn’t date you. I’m not waiting until marriage.
A lot of people feel some type about my post and that’s cool.
You're assuming that they're waiting until marriage.
Oh maybe I read it wrong
So does you answer change given that?
Yea because it doesn’t mean he won’t
... and what would that answer be?
I suppose
You suppose what?
Being not a virgin is a dealbreaker... I wouldn't stick another girl's used tampon in my pussy, and I wouldn't stick another girl's used fuckstick into my pussy either.
Not really. I don't like the idea of lots of sexual partner. I prefer a low body count and if they is no it's better
Being a nonvirgin is a red flag
It’s a red flag if you’re 30+ and aren’t saving yourself for marriage. I would then be very curious to know why you can’t get laid.
For those very experienced, yes if they're strictly in it for the sex. For others, not so much
No, probably not a red flag but a turn off if you're like past 25.
Why is it a turn off? Just curious
Because at a certain age you expect a partner who will know what he/she is doing and not that interested in being a teacher in these things.
I see.
So even if they are virgin by choice cause they want to wait till marriage?
For me yes because most probably they would shame me for not living by the same rule.
Ya I guess some do.
Not in my experience. I was 35. When i opened up and told my ex the full story she didn't flinch, she found it endearing how much i squirmed as i was telling her. Was a really big deal to me
No, a red flag would be if he had sex with many girls.
Because it is just the body/virgin-count that matters to him. For me, I'm honored and feel proud to remove virginity from my 29 years old girlfriend (then). :-)
Being a virgin by itself no, but depending on the reasoning it could be
Very true, sex-deniers or religious believes are 2 main reasons, why I see virginity as a HUGE red flag. Beside of that, it makes me proud and her (and me to her, too) special and I respect that.