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Nope not really a red flag to me at all. I mean I suppose it does send a vibe of "I'm not interested in sex" or in some cases "I'm insulted by the very idea of sex". But that's, like, easily dismissed if you actually show interest in sex.
And then in that case, it's a positive because it's a new meaningful experience and hasn't been reduced to some craving you need to "deal with".
Honestly I'm more concerned how it's perceived in men. I'm a virgin myself. Gotten close a few times, just tended to call things off early when I would see it wasn't going anywhere. But I feel like women expect some level of experience and "leadership" in bed. Like they specifically want a guy who has been doing this a while.
Hard to find someone who doesn't sleep around. I find this to be a huge plus in today's age because it means your different.
Different usually means attractivness. The guy that said it's a red flag is immature and doesn't appreciate your value and you devotion to wait for someone important to come along.
Alternativly, telling you it's a red flag can be a manipulation. You start to beleive it's a bad thing, sleep with him, all of a sudden you've betrayed your morals for someone who doesn't give a crap about them.
Not really, the only times I've heard a guy say they wouldn't date a virgin girl was because of clinginess, which I honestly don't think most guys mind (to a moderate degree). Otherwise, it's a good thing.
You can usually tell why he's a virgin, and that's the red flag.
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A virgin? Absolutely not a red flag. It’s a good sign. Especially if she’s attractive and you know irs by choice.
Shows high values and morals
Yes kind of. Being a virgin at that age no, but the fact that you didn’t even have a serious relationship all this time makes you think. Doesn’t necessarily mean it was a bad thing as to why she didn’t have a relationship. Maybe she just wanted to focus on school, get through college. But the way society is most men as well as women have usually had a relationship by that age. Unless they weren’t that attractive, overweight, etc. I can understand being a virgin, some women want to save that for marriage, but again the no relationship part, that’s what makes me question things. Now if you were a virgin in your late 20’s or older I’d seriously think something is wrong.
If he doesn't like that you are inexperienced, he likely just wants to use you for sex and leave you. You being inexperienced likely means you wouldn't have sex early on and it would take him much longer that he is willing to in order to get it from you. If you continue seeing someone like that, wait 6 months first. I'm sure he would move on before that if he wants to use you for sex and leave after.
In a sense I think I understand him, but on the other hand I value her virginity more. I'd wager that because of the world we live in and how girls conduct themselves nowadays, it's kinda weird if a girl was never in a relationship and by that extent hasn't lost her virginity.
Virginity is very good and green flag... for a serious relationship. It's only a red flag if he just wants casual sex.
So bam, you caught him. Dump him immediately unless you want to give him your V and never hear from him again. You will be crying your eyes out if that happens. So just be smart and avoid that.
Absolutely not. If he thinks that, he's got serious problems. Find someone who appreciates who and what you are. Don't let this guy get to you and make you think you have issues when really, all he's telling you is, he wants a hoe with "experience".
No. The amount of women that are hoes is so common, that a woman that is a Virgin is valuable because it's rare here in America.
No. For many guys, it's a green flag. I don't care either way; just don't have a body count higher than your age.
A great sign for family orientated men, look into female pair bonding.
If you asexual then maybe, otherwise no, guys tend to prefer virgins over hos.
No. Red flags are signs of a bad relationship, if it is unhealthy for example. It is perfectly okay for a women to be a virgin.
You are a Dimond in the ruff. Keep it that way.
At 20? Not at all. He's an idiot.
It's a red flag for him. Find someone else.
I'm not bothered by it
No but I don't date virgins
No, if anything it's preferable.
Nope. Sex before marriage is a red flag.
Nope
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