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If you do then don't be attached to the person so when you guys break up it won't effect you. I just see dating as an experiment now. I can date people but have no true deep feelings until the person does a lot for me to fall to fall in love
I dunno but I feel like a person that hops from relationship to relationship is not content with their own company. They find it hard to be alone. If they have this track record then I would be cautious.
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I'd go out with someone who just got out of a relationship, but not date them seriously for a while. They need time to work through their feelings before any real dating takes place.
Depends how soon it was and how they’re handling it and if they’re still caught up on the person and stuff like that but in general I wouldn’t if they’ve just broken up
Yea but it gives you an advantage
As long as theyve moved on and the ex isn't trying to get them back then yea
Could you look at my situation?
My ex broke up with his girlfriend about a week before we dated.
I found this convo on his phone a week after the breakup and while we were dating. Took place 3 months ago.
The convo was this
Her: “we can work through this. It was just a fight. I’m sorry for everything”
Him: “it’s over and was a shame. Cause you will make a good girlfriend for any guy if you just calmed down”
Her: “I was just insecure. Your exes wouldn’t leave you alone and I didn’t know how to handle it properly”
Him: “what a shame. Go away”
Her: “are you really in a new relation this quick. You were so controlling with who I could talk to. Yet look at this?”
Him: “yeah and let me rub it in your face some more. She is so amazing. Everything you and I went through I learned from. I’ve already met her whole family and they are amazing. I had an exam this weekend. If I didn’t I would be out of town with her”
Her: “you don’t deserve me”
Then a week later she cussed him out then they blocked eachother
It’s funny cause this happened months ago. But last month we had a discussion cause he was liking his exes family’s post. Yet he never knew them. He told me he would go block them. When he got there he found out they already blocked him. He just laughed.
Wow you're dating that douche? No offense because I don't know their situation but he's not empathetic at all. I went through something like her but I don't know how soon my ex moved on. I however move on quick so yea i started flirting a few days later but i wasn't ready to actually start dating again until at least 2-3 months later. And i mean she prob had a right to be insecure since he stopped caring for her so quickly. Bt even my ex and i woulsnt rub that in eachothers face. I just hope he treats you better and u dont go down the same path
No apparently she was the douche. They had a huge fight and she said that he was a “asshole and bad in bed” and that’s when he left.
She kept apologizing and begging. That’s why he did that
Well damn. Yea they were toxic for eachother. Still sucks that he got in anothee relationship asap but as long as you're happy, dont worry about the ex. Just make sure she quits contacting him. He needs to keep her blockef
They are still blocked. But I saw he was liking posts of her family even tho they never knew eachother. But they all blocked him
So from what I read in the texts is that she was accusing him of being controlling.
She told him “you made me block my male friends. I had to take all my calls in front of you. You had dreams of me cheating. But I did it all for you. Now you are off with some chick running around. Yet your exes would pop up and be friends with your family. And anytime I said anything you would just flip the tables.”
He said they had been best friends for 2 years then dated for 6 months
Be careful. And show you're not scared of him. You dont need him running you too. If he tries, end the relationship
No, but I would tell them I really would not want to set us up for failure but I can be a friend.
Not to mention I do not want to be a rebound.
Well yeah. Sometimes it just happens. I don’t usually set out to date anyone ever, it just happens unexpectedly for me.
NO ! Ain’t gonna be anyone’s rebound or rehabilitation center , we all have our own problems and battles! Don’t be a burden to someone else !
If they'd wanna date me for the right reasons then I don't see why not.
No because I wouldn’t think they’re mentally/emotionally ready for a new relationship. Maybe be there for them.
Yes , but take it real slow and hot jump into anything cuz usually someone that just hot out of a relationship isn't right in the head completly
If they have been out of the relationship for a month or more and had no contact with their ex so I know she isn't just using me to make them jealous then I could.
I could, though, it would have to go slow and stay light for a while.
Depends on if she still has feelings for the ex. If she does, then no.
My ex broke up with his girlfriend about a week before we dated.
I found this convo on his phone a week after the breakup and while we were dating. Took place 3 months ago.
The convo was this
Her: “we can work through this. It was just a fight. I’m sorry for everything”
Him: “it’s over and was a shame. Cause you will make a good girlfriend for any guy if you just calmed down”
Her: “I was just insecure. Your exes wouldn’t leave you alone and I didn’t know how to handle it properly”
Him: “what a shame. Go away”
Her: “are you really in a new relation this quick. You were so controlling with who I could talk to. Yet look at this?”
Him: “yeah and let me rub it in your face some more. She is so amazing. Everything you and I went through I learned from. I’ve already met her whole family and they are amazing. I had an exam this weekend. If I didn’t I would be out of town with her”
Her: “you don’t deserve me”
Then a week later she cussed him out then they blocked eachother
It’s funny cause this happened months ago. But last month we had a discussion cause he was liking his exes family’s post. Yet he never knew them. He told me he would go block them. When he got there he found out they already blocked him. He just laughed.
Most people need time to breathe after a relationship ends. As a rule, I'll wait until her husband's funeral services are complete before making a move
Yes. No one wants to be free until I enter in their life. We should not worrying about her past. As everyone grows after leaving something behind.
Did that once, didn't turn out great. She went back to her ex.
So, my answer will be- yes, but only if she's truly over her ex.
Probably, never tought about it, it's a non issue, but I would be careful with that, a lot of people enter in a relationship just to forget an old one, and that is not healty, for both
Yes if the person has been wanting to get out of abusive relationship
Or toxic relationship of any kind.
No, if he got dumped or something.
Everybody 'just got out of a relationship'. Some never even did. ;)