Well, standards shouldn’t be set in stone or fixed in place. We may meet someone that isn’t conforming to our personal standards, but that doesn’t mean this is a bad thing at all. Our standards should change as we learn new things about ourselves and our lives. As we live our life and experience new things, our standards are apt to change. In one instance, we may meet someone who is below our standards, and then two years go by and that same person is now above our standards.
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Yes they will bring you down to their standards and drain your life blood from you and your will to live.
My friend said her ex-boyfriend didn't want to date her when she first pursued him cause he thought he could do better. She had to work hard to convince him to give her a chance. After dating just three months he wanted to marry her and she had to dump him for being too obsessed with her and he had ten girlfriends before dating her so its not like he was new to dating.
If you start off feeling someone is below your standards, why are you dating that person? To feel superior? You cannot improve another person. That is completely up to them. You accept someone as they are and enjoy them for the qualities you value, or don't date them.
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Depends on the situation and what your standards are.
If you're into that then yeah. But in the end, it's so sad, you sit there wishing your partner had the qualities of your ideal soulmate, which isn't fair to them after being in a relationship for so long. Growing & learning together is the goal, babying someone is not attractive.
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Being a responsible capable adult who works, save money, and really good at finances and etc.
I can forgive someone looks but never on broke. I can already support myself. what the point in dating someone who doesn't have their own as well. Seems like a poor investment.Terrible idea. You'll not feel you need to try and lose interest. And she'll feel insecure all the time that she's not good enough and as a result try harder to win you over which will just get annoying. Her friends will see you are above her and try hinting about you guys becoming exclusive way too soon for your liking which will ultimately scare you away.
Yes bc you will look back and regret it thinking ‘why was i so desperate to go along with this ugly fuck?’
I mean unless you actually like them and you're just surprised cos theyre not the type you would usually go forI’d personally date someone below my standard just so it doesn’t hurt much when we break up, especially if I’m just casually dating and not looking for a real long term relationship
If someone's standards are set too high then maybe there is "room to lower" them. Other than that, I don't see a need to date below one's standards.
Not if you like each other and genuinely do try to improve the other! A relationship should be about growing with each other, ykno
The base standards that everyone should have.
Example (not abusive, manipulative ect)
Yes self respect is important.
Preferance standards. Example (height, weight, race, personality)
Not really, dating "out of the box" is good occasionally.Back off dude. Run away from her. That's a recipe for disaster.
Yes and no. Depends on how reasonable the standards were
Well obviously. Because then they're just that, below your standards, below what you want and need in a partner. Which means you'll be unhappy.
Not if you need filler or to rebuild your confidence.
No ,, you can have just as much she is a female she enjoys things, it's gun to get to know what...
Yes. Because a relationship were you aren't happy isn't going to last
That kind of belief is inside of insecure people's heads nothing more.
I would say that depends on what your standards are. You might actually be the lucky one in the situation and not realize it. Lol
Eventually you will get tired of not being with who you really want as your ideal
Fuck Standards, date whoever you want.
Yes your basically playing them
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