The topic of men finishing has been a topic of debate for as long as I could remember. Lots of men bring up this topic, especially my male friends. But the same goes for women and it's way more common thank people think. I've always been that nice girl in relationships, I go above and beyond to be loving and caring in a relationship. It's not always enough though. At the end of 2 previous relationships both men told me the exact same thing "haven't you ever though maybe you being too nice is the problem?". Which I never understood. I think men view nice girls as plain and less challenging. Therefore we appear boring. Yet they run after women that play with their feelings, treat them like dirt and keep them wondering if they're loved or not. Yet they keep running after them while nice girls are left in the dust.

"I've always been that nice girl in relationships, I go above and beyond to be loving and caring in a relationship. It's not always enough though. At the end of 2 previous relationships both men told me the exact same thing "haven't you ever though maybe you being too nice is the problem?". Which I never understood." There's a difference between nice and overbearing. Like sometimes it gets to be too much romance and not enough space.

If those guys told you that i think we've found your problem. You date idiots.

Hey! It's me! I lost your contact. I created a new account. I really hope you see this!

What the hell? Nice girls finish first in my book. It's the other way around lol

Great read💜💙💚 we do finish last a lot.

>I've always been that nice girl in relationships Do you understand "nice guys" don't make it this far, right?

They don't finish last. Passive-aggressive bitches who call themselves "nice" finish last.

In my experience it’s the nice guy then turn bitter.

They don't. They just chase assholes

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"I've always been that nice girl in relationships, I go above and beyond to be loving and caring in a relationship. It's not always enough though. At the end of 2 previous relationships both men told me the exact same thing "haven't you ever though maybe you being too nice is the problem?". Which I never understood."

There's a difference between nice and overbearing. Like sometimes it gets to be too much romance and not enough space.

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- Miss_Savanna_Dry
  
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  Please read my whole question before commenting stupid shit. I SAID THIS QUESTION IS NOT ABOUT ME. >>>>READ<<<<
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  I NEVER SAID MY ANSWER WAS ABOUT YOU I WAS QUOTING THE PORTION OF YOUR POST THAT I WAS ANSWERING MOST WITH WHAT MY EXPERIENCE HAS BEEN IN GENERAL.
  
  >>>>>>>> YOU SHOULD TRY TO READ BEFORE JUMPING OFF THE DEEP END<<<<<<<<<<
  
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- Miss_Savanna_Dry
  
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  Okay I apologize.
  
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If those guys told you that i think we've found your problem. You date idiots.

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Hey! It's me! I lost your contact. I created a new account. I really hope you see this!

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What the hell? Nice girls finish first in my book. It's the other way around lol

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Great read💜💙💚 we do finish last a lot.

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Anonymous
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>I've always been that nice girl in relationships

Do you understand "nice guys" don't make it this far, right?

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- Jamie05rhs
  
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  Touché.
  
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Well this topic is important

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They don't finish last. Passive-aggressive bitches who call themselves "nice" finish last.

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In my experience it’s the nice guy then turn bitter.

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They don't. They just chase assholes

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Anonymous
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Nice girls FINISH last.. they FINISH, last

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- Miss_Savanna_Dry
  
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  I see what u did there
  
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Wowgirl30q Follow
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The bad girl acted first is why sadly.

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Nice girls are not nice they mean ugly looking girls.

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Being too nice = Being a pushover

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Anonymous
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Nice girls?
They really exist?

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- Miss_Savanna_Dry
  
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  Like a unicorn. Just joking of course they do 😅
  
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Funny how every word of your question and all your responses below give of a very not nice vibe.

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- Miss_Savanna_Dry
  
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  That is your opinion. Have u even read all my replies to people? there's only one guy I got irritated with, the rest I respected their opinions.
  
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they dont?

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- Miss_Savanna_Dry
  
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  They actually do. A lot more than men realise.
  
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- Vesta
  
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  I don't pick the nice girl last
  
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- Vesta
  
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  get over it
  
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- Miss_Savanna_Dry
  
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  Woah dude what's your problem 😑
  
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- Vesta
  
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  i told you the answer, and you're just trying to rebuke me because you didn't like it
  
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- Miss_Savanna_Dry
  
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  You need to chill ffs. You're not a girl so I just stated from my point of view because you're not in a girls shoes. I never said I didn't like it. You have issues to get pissed over something so small. People can have a difference of opinion without having to jump on your high horse and be rude
  
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- Vesta
  
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  I said they don't, then you went and said they do
  
  Get it in your thick skull, that they dont
  
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Some nice girls never finish...

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If you won't do that to them, why do you take it?

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Nice girls are the best lol

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If you check out reddit you will find your answer

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I don't even know how a "nice girl" would be like

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Maybe just be more interesting?

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same reason nice guys

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nice girls FINISH last

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Only men have problems

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- Miss_Savanna_Dry
  
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  Yes men do but so do we
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  Men have it much worse
  
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- Miss_Savanna_Dry
  
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  With regards to the nice girl/guy problem, yes men have it worse
  
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They dont

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They don't

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Nice girls are bitches in disguise.

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- Jamie05rhs
  
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  Probably true in some cases.
  
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What a myth.

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- Miss_Savanna_Dry
  
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  It's really not. Sorry I'm going to type a long message. My best guy friend, lets call him Brian, keeps on going for the same type of girl time after time, and they usually really hot and outgoing, they always reject or give him attention and play around with his feelings BUT there is a few girls that like him that are really sweet. The one girl tells me often she likes him and feels bad that he doesn't feel the same. He doesn't go for those sweet girls at all. And I just facepalm myself because he complains girls keep messing around with him but he doesn't even give the nice girls that actually like him a chance. 🤷‍♀️
  
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Only if they’re dry

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Aw I’m sorry.

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they dont

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