You sound reasonable girl.
@Mamamialetmego thanks ;-)
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You sound enlightened
i was going to write this to @Alice2398 but turns out the moron has me blocked... i dont even know who the hell she is... anyway, you have a similar post so... here.."not really... i can count at least 3 way more worse things you can do... i know that cuz i did em :)"and yea... i did feel like an ass.
@Tdiesler. User are stupid and probably be a asshole. if she did any thing good. to be honest.
Saying what I just says nmy having Aspergers, I did just answer this question in laymans terms here. I must make sure that everyone understands that I am never OK with lying n being so cold-hearted. Thank fuck I am not that. So yes, genuine movable touched n grief comfort pity extending the friendly hand yes.🤔🙂😊 All the rest, fuck no.🤔😧😕 Just to be clear lol before I get possibly trolled g or my answer lol. 😅😂🤣😎
It’s called ghosting
@HitGirl_007 I presume that "dating" means you physically spend time with the person, so I also presume you're somewhat local to one another? If that's the case, even if you ghost them on line they could find you in person and confront you. If you're talking about some other kind of "dating", then I completely don't understand !! :)
Why would you bother going to find them?
@HitGirl_007 Again, I'm presuming the pity date is with someone who rarely dates, if ever, and gets no attention. Then someone takes you out and you like them, then you get ghosted. That person could easily want to know why and find the person to hear it from them live. Remember the personality you're dealing with is likely an insecure, low self esteem one, in my scenario. Maybe they'll be too scared and drop it, or maybe they'll want a confrontation. I don't think everyone who's ghosted just accepts it and fades away.
Not everyone that has low self and is insecure rarely dates if ever and gets no attention, one should never assume.You can’t make someone tell you why they ghosted you. Even if you want to know. Even if the date went well and they seemed to like you and then they fucked off. Even if you get asked out a lot and get attention as you say being ghosted hurts like shit when you actually like the person.Especially when you are this person that is so insecure but no one has any idea on the outside as you don’t look like it.But you never get the opportunity to know. You just don’t. Ghosters are just that for a reason. They are assholes, they are cowards, they don’t give two fucks about the other person aka you as they don’t want to see you again.Don’t give those pricks the satisfaction of letting them win again by chasing after them and hurting yourself further. When you still will never get the answers you want.You just have to accept some people just don’t like you for whatever reason. Some people just used you for whatever reason. But there are some good people out there and you just have to hope and wait to meet them and spend your time on them not the ghosters
@HitGirl_007 That's a very good dissertation on ghosting and those who do it, but I fail to see how it pertains to the question of "would you date someone out of pity"? Anyway, my answer is no, I wouldn't. Nor have I ever ghosted someone.
Because our reply back and forth got off topic to the original question when other things got brought up.I answered the question in my original post.
Most dude in gag are shallow and undatable many of them are incel maybe because of high standard that they can't match
Maybe we should all go home and practice having orgasms cos if someone can't give themselves an orgasm how on earth do they think they give anyone a great sexy night?I got my plan, always lots n lots of towels and lube n make damn sure i cut my nails short 🤗🤗🤗😘
I can have sex with myself for hours now n then, I just think if you are gonna do something do it right us know n I hate quickies!
i would also imagine doing it as a "favor", which isn't technically out of "pity" xD
Yeah, it's best to be upfront that someone doesn't intend to stay long term.