@anon1903 That is because I wear certain clothes, like the dress shown, that will hide my flab. If you can tell by the pic I don't have a very narrow waist.
I'm actually more attracted to larger men/women, whether that be a lot of fat, muscles, or just height.
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Nope.
I feel part of my attraction to a person is how they take care of thier body.
I love hiking I love walking I love moving. I love talking about health. I really dont care for take out food. It would be a match that I could not deal with.
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@ihatetheirfiances
If he lost weight and still could not get the date... than it wasn't his weight that was the problem.
he needs to do some soul searching and ask himself what kind of energy am I putting out to repel others away. Attuidea always will matter first. And sometimes when we get used to rejection we naturally reject people without even realizing it first as a defense mechanism
No because its really a mental defect. No self control. Its also a lifestyle issue, im physically fit, how can i enjoy sports with my girlfriend if she's too fat to do them? I dont want to do them by myself.
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I would easily date a chubby guy and even prefer chubby guys to super fit ones, HOWEVER I don't find myself being attracted to unhealthy people and obese is unhealthy.
Yes, only on the condition that we both exercise together often and reach a healthier goal and lifestyle together. I want her to be healthier and I will do it with her. Its a win-win.
Nope I would not for the very simple reason is I take care of myself. I go to the gym 5 times a week and workout between and 1 hr 1/2 to 2 hrs so I would not get with someone who does not take care of themselves.
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Less likely, we are not compatible. I like to stay fit -- running, hiking, cycling. I don't think an overweight / obese person suit my lifestyle.
Wow, now I know why I can't get a date. Guys don't dig fat chicks. :(
not bad, hon. I'd not call it fat :)
@anon1903 That is because I wear certain clothes, like the dress shown, that will hide my flab. If you can tell by the pic I don't have a very narrow waist.
its all right
I feel you...
@Daniela1982
Looking pretty good to me.
I'm actually more attracted to larger men/women, whether that be a lot of fat, muscles, or just height.
Nope.
I feel part of my attraction to a person is how they take care of thier body.
I love hiking I love walking I love moving. I love talking about health. I really dont care for take out food. It would be a match that I could not deal with.
@ihatetheirfiances
If he lost weight and still could not get the date... than it wasn't his weight that was the problem.
he needs to do some soul searching and ask himself what kind of energy am I putting out to repel others away. Attuidea always will matter first. And sometimes when we get used to rejection we naturally reject people without even realizing it first as a defense mechanism
Uhm no!
Not in this lifetime.
If i care what i look like and my health you have to to.
Unless a medical issue, obesity is plain laziness and shows me you could cAre less about yourself👏✌️
Oh so I should get butt implants too
Where do you get off with that.
No because its really a mental defect. No self control. Its also a lifestyle issue, im physically fit, how can i enjoy sports with my girlfriend if she's too fat to do them? I dont want to do them by myself.
I would easily date a chubby guy and even prefer chubby guys to super fit ones, HOWEVER I don't find myself being attracted to unhealthy people and obese is unhealthy.
No, I need a woman who is healthy.
I am quite healthy myself, so I just want a woman who is at a similar level
Overweight and obesity signify a lack of self-control, self-awareness, and an inability to stop something bad from escalating.
But I do think they should work on losing the weight. I don't want to be a single father because she died of a heart attack from being obese
Why did MHO get 0 uppies, while I got 4?
No downies as well.. bit biased, yes?
Yes, only on the condition that we both exercise together often and reach a healthier goal and lifestyle together. I want her to be healthier and I will do it with her. Its a win-win.
Nope I would not for the very simple reason is I take care of myself. I go to the gym 5 times a week and workout between and 1 hr 1/2 to 2 hrs so I would not get with someone who does not take care of themselves.
Overweight yeah, but not obese. Way too many health risks for my taste.
Maybe if I already knew her and knew her when she was thin. Sounds crappy, but it is how it is.
ALSO, it depends on the definition of overweight. "Fat" is not attractive, no matter how you see or say it.
Yeah its not about the weight for me its more the personality. Weight can come off. An ugly personality however is much harder to get rid of.
Overweight definitely. Obese I probably won't be attracted.
My last 3 relationships have been with obese women, not can't walk obese but medically classed that way by BMI charts.
I never have but I am not a small girl. So I'd feel like a hypocrite if I said otherwise.
A little bit overweight, sure. I've dated someone like that before. But obese? No way. I wouldn't be attracted to that at all.
If she has a good personality then yeah I'd be open to it
I wouldn’t date obese of overweight it’s just too much of a hassle.
Thanks for your opinion 🙂