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It's not women's fault men have become so useless. They don't have jobs, or place of their own. Most guys barely drive. So I don't blame women putting high value on their vagina. They are priceless. As Mondanna used to say. Pussy is power. Lol
What you describe there being an apparent lack of in the modern world, is nothing more than a beta male, a pushover, not a provider and protector.
Someone who appeases the woman with what he has to offer materially, is not indicative of why women are apparently more "picky" these days. Paradoxically, it's the over abundance of cucked simpletons who can't keep their women, despite their material goods, which are driving the ever widening statistical wedge.
YES
And it's not hard to understand why
Guys these days value more the pussy and the ass that a woman has that her personality
Then when the woman turns out to be a bitch
They start and hate all women
you women are the issue its all over the internet
@incelsr You could at least try not to live up to your username.
@incelsr Uh, no, you literally can't. Sorry to break it to you.
@Incelsr Please get therapy
Same thing with women you guys pick the wrong guy , he ruins your life and you start to hate all men
@mafiaman No one mentioned hating men, just having better standards so we don't end up int he same situation with a shitty man.
@Kas19 oh no no no NO don't play "im a woman I'm always the victim " you think I'm joking look at modern day feminist
Personally I’ve had a roller coaster experience with women. On one hand, I would prefer to meet a girl and get to know her and love her for her.
At the same time, I’ve realized that “player” behavior is what women really respond to. Unless I act like a player girls just don’t care.
So it’s like, what do I do? Stay alone forever, or act like aayer. I don’t want to value just the as and the pussy. I want so much more. But I feel as though I have no chance unless I act like a player. It really is bothering me now because being a player is too much work. Lol. Like Jesus Christ it’s kind of annoying but it’s fun because I can get girls and hug and kiss them and have fun. But the. I have to be mr player all the time. I wish I could just be myself. But girls want more than what most men have. They want something more. That playerness but without being a player. Being a player who only fucks one girl. That’s what girls what.
@incelsr wow you really are an incel now I'm usually the one who calls women out on their bullshit when their being arseholes which they are 9/10 but you are just talking about fucking raping women dude you should be ashamed of yourself and if you think your genitalia or your strength makes you better your a fucking imbecile and the same goes to women who think their entitled to top men or any man for that matter because they were born with a vagina are total imbeciles but dude you need some fucking help and its not OK to talk to people like that you say that shit to someone in public I dare you you will be arrested and chucked in jail because youv just threatened to rape someone so in this instance I'm appauled by your behaviour and have to go against you
@Cocacolaaddict I appreciate it. Unfortunately I'm used to it by now.
@Mafiaman What are you talking about?
"Guys these days value more the pussy and the ass that a woman has that her personality"
This is assuming 99% of women has some sort of personality in the first place, don't kid yourself.
@ForbesMagazine Thank you for proving our point.
@Kas19 What point? That most men want sex and don't care about you? In other news! The sky is blue! If it wasn't for the ability to make babies, do you really think men would pay any attention to women?
I have yet to meet any guy that has a female role model, or looks up to some sort of female philosopher, politician, scientist, etc.
Ayn Rand. in my opinion smartest person who ever lived. Is a woman. 😋
@Kaazsz There's a first time for everything, not surprised though. There's a lot of cucked men on this site.
You wouldn’t like her anyways. She is the epitome of a free market capitalist.
@Kaazsz Seems like a Mitch McConnell type, nothing special.
@ForbesMagazine
please name a woman that has done something amazing
@incelsr Why are you asking me? I'm not the one claiming anything like that.
@incelsr Ayn Rand. Enjoy pretending she doesn’t exist.
@Kaazsz No one's claiming she doesn't exist dingus. My earlier comment applied as a general rule, then I disregarded you since you intentionally wanted to be snarky.
I’m not snarky. Y’all are just retarded. You could use some Ayn Rand actually. She will change your life and make you into an actual good person.
@Kaazsz You're are snarky, I honestly think you're "trans."
And I think you’re a mindless goon. Still trapped on Ben Shapiro’s YouTube channel. It’s OK. Ben Shapiro is also coming around in freedom. Despite his religious views, he understands that freedom is most important. Or at least he is starting too. Maybe he will run off on you in a good way for once.
@Kaazsz I don't like Ben Shapiro remotely. You don't seem very pro-freedom either, you seem submissive and you'd probably surrender any sort of freedom you have when threatened.
Lol wow smartest reply ever!
@Kaazsz This is entire conversation has been retarded, you're definitely a tranny troll. You started with a snide snarky remark, then you went on to make weird out of place accusations.
It's not my fault you cut off your dick, go rage somewhere else.
@Kas19 I saying that even if you guys have higher standards you always and I mean always pick the wrong guy , I'm tell you to pick the "nice guys" either ( I don't trust them either ) and then after he ruins your life , and then girls especially your age will start saying all men are evil
I've had to get more picky with women, so... it is what it is. Trying to find one that doesn't leave me feeling like I'm metaphorically about to get hit by a train.
How can that be generalized for women on the whole. There are men who are picky, choosy and there are women who are picky, choosy as well.
Its the same with guys actually.
We are both more picky.
Things are different now.
It forces us to improve ourselves to better self.
better the self for others
Better self, it affects us first.
Then the side effect is others will be more attracted to us.
Thats how the opportunity is more open.
11 years ago sex was way easier to find for everyone wasn't it. Pre 07' seems like s different era altogether. I bet it was better.
Yes I am more picky since I don't end with another cheater or sexists itdoit. I am not trophies to win.
I certainly have. I've become mainly interested in just women. I've liked a total of 3 guys so far this entire year. (one of them being a friends with benefits of two years)
I would and have tried settling but everything is hard to get. That includes guys interest. Plus me being a virgin is a red flag for any guy. Not to mention my weight problem. Yeah 😂 hahaha is date anyone who ask me. As long as he was around my age.
In today's society, at least in the western world, it is no longer necessary to marry in order to be a proper member of society. It's no longer a necessity, but a want. As such yes, women are most likely getting pickier.
because they can. It all balances out around the age of 32 though. Read anything written by Amy Horton lol
They were always like that. Now Social Media pumped this behaviour. Used to they only have local men or colleagues to date but now they can pick from all men in the country.
Just put some social media account as woman and see with your own eyes.
Even men outside of country i know many relationship like that one Croatian guy is dating Turkish girl one Swedish guy is dating french girl i know way more example they all met online and are in long distance relationship.
@Yesplease23 yeah same shit but ldr is so lame. You can't meet, you can't touch eachother so boring.
They visit each other country Swedish guy is even engaged to French girl and he regularly visit france she also visit Sweden often.
@Yesplease23 it's weird. Grass is greener i guess
Hopefully. Women absolutely should be more selective.
Probably. But I can't stand a guy who can't spell. Please know the difference between weather and whether.
Some. But its not a bad thing. You aren't entitled to a woman for having her talk to you
See, this is the issue. When guys are just stating an issue they see in society that affect them
And finding a partner, women accuse them of being entitled.
So men should lower their standards and find a non picky girl
How do you find a non-picky girl without talking to them and finding out they're picky? Not having a go, I know you mean well.
Why should we lower our standard while y’all raise yours? Single is good now a days, boys.
@selfdestruction than don't complain if you want women to have low standard while you have high
Actually I have to say that I’m picky, but not because of looks or anything. I just have a preference
Some have always bern picky some are getting picky but most have never and are not getting picky about guys.
100% true. Mostly because of feminism / misandry. Women only go for the top 10% of men. Others are disposable.
Women have always been selective but I think they're even more so selective nowadays. I blame disney movies and princess culture for giving women unrealistic expectations for how men ought to be.
I personally don’t think so just because I’ve been more open about men because people judge too quickly.
Long story short yes.. The women will say no to prove you wrong but they are always going to be picky
As they should. Why aren’t men picking with girls? They have incredibly low standards and go for any girl that talks to them.
They've always been extremely pickier than men in the dating process. It's best not to let bitter women on the internet taint your perspective.
Women get much more attention on social media and dating apps than men. As a result a lot of women overestimate themselves. The social media attention has an inflating effect on their ego.
Now it's their own wish you can't change it well all you can do it look for the one you can get along haha. But always remember you came alone you will go alone everything you earn will be left here.
Well... For one if they weren't so picky, i just may have a girlfriend by now, who i would shower with hugs and kisses and massages and love. Just saying...
Compared to say 30 years ago they are far more picky.
Like a guy should have a job, and maybe have a car, have his own place, and not live in his parent's house, and pay for things on dates?
Super-picky!! I know!!
Your right, everyone, s ego is out of control. Not all but a lot, the west encourage, s ego, no self control. Male, s will always, s chase female's with the empty dream, s of hopeful happiness that don't materialise or last. I only run after my dog.
Yes and as well we should. Too many guys want women for sex and someone to leech off of financially.
In my experience I've only seem that once but it's not a one way street woman do it too.
This question is about women, not men, and your single experience really doesn’t hold any water because you’re one person. You are also presumably a straight male so you wouldn’t really know the answer to this since you are not a woman and do not date straight males.
Some are some not some like to play after all they are like men soooo its normal
Yup. Because they're learning that they are worthwhile people in their own right, and not just as an adjunct to a man. Funny how that works...
"Getting?" No dude, they *already are* more picky with guys. How can they be "getting" that way when they're already there, and have been for years?
There are times I think i should have been more picky
No they are mostly completely outside of common sense in picking. No logic can explain their choice.
Hell, no! What I've noticed is that women are getting ever more indiscriminate. They'll accept and hang on to guys who would have been kicked to the curb or directed to Daddy's shotgun, decades ago.
Why does it matter though? It is as it is and there isn't much to do about it
Women probably are getting pickier but then again, what are you gonna do about it?
Let them. And once they drive the human race into the dirt and come crawling back to us, we'll turn away.
If it's important for girls to get pickier these days, it's even more important for guys since unlike girls, guys in my country have nowhere to turn if the girl in their life is bad!
Save your money don't be out here trybs save them hoes, dough first then you can select any women thats all these girls care about you csn Swift through the gold diggers
Yep. Even enough fat ugly ones who think they deserve only the best looking guys
It's 2019 girls can date whoever they want no matter if it is a guy or girl in my opinion I like girls better because I feel safer
No, women are just getting dumber. There's a difference.
That's definitely happening it's a good job you pointed it out
Picky? most other women would spread their legs for a hot guy before even knowing his name!!
Key word "hot guy" and thats just sex not picky relationship wise
good point
Everyone’s getting more picky.
With each generation the high demands of the past become standard with new higher demands added.
I don't know. The guy I think I like is tall and strong af. He also has nice hair so like I don't know. I am picky with the guys I like but like not too picky. I have specific taste.
Everybody wants to be with someone better than themselves... nothing wrong with that.
Even guys do it
Assuming same metric it would always lead to a win/lose situation.
I think the ideal relation is one which cover each onthers weaknesses and/or empower their strengths
Precisely bro... very well said
Why aren't you being picky with women? Your looking for a life partner. Why settle? Think hard about what you want and what works for you.
Some of us are
Ha...
@Wowgirl30q @datgirl actually (couldnt take truth so blocked me lol) So you were thinking whole time I needed something and from you! Lmao!! Grow up princess. And I bet you padded bra so hard to get some cleavage for me, apparently. Flaty you don't look like 5yrs elder to me
@alex_x988 what? Which part of that was addressed to me?
nothing. all reply was for datgirl who ran away. (you seem nice :) )
@alex_x988 cool :-)
@alex_x988 bitter for a virgin night my love
@Wowgirl30q I bet you are not even sure about what you said
Seems so to me, yes. I mean everyone has a preference of what they like. But then you go into the picky area where the man has to be 100% perfect. That does not exist. Having too much choice ruins it.
I don't know if they are more picky. But they certainly ought to be way more picky. I say "Don't settle."
If you respect yourself, make sure he respects you even more.
Yes and we should do the same to many no good women and very few women of worth we should stop being so thirsty and actually start dating women of worth not just the first woman who comes along
Yeah we have to simultaneously be honest and still tell her what she wants to hear.
Frankly I'm very picky about the women I date, and they act like children when I reject them
*shrugs* if they want to be picky let me, they're the ones fighting the clock not us.
I think people in general are, there's just so many shitty people out there.
They are super picky and it bites then in the ass *HARD* once they hit their mid 30's.
I think they are but its because most guys are dickheads nowadays
No women are not getting more picky. They have always been this way. I think it's been highlighted as dating is all online now.
Online, yes, because it is purely superficial.
In real life, speaking as an average-looking guy, I have not seen that.
I believe it's called hypergamy. The more free and advance a society becomes the more picky females become. Women instinctively will be programmed to deny it but men will notice the pattern.