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Say whatever you want about me , but I'm picky too , infact the only women who truly deserves respect is a man's mother , other than that if women want be respected , earn it like everyone else
Many of the women are getting picky but men do the same thing with women.
Yes because social media has given them the illusion of endless options
I got rejected by women the same way 10 years ago as i do today.
Not noticing it in The Netherlands, I don't know about anywhere else.
yeah. but things are going to go back to normal when the current generation of women end up being a bunch of old maids. that'll teach the future generations that they can't live in fantasy and expect a perfect partner when you are far from perfect
i see a lot of single women over 40 who would desperately do anything to get a little attention even from me, a guy almost half their age. i'm just saying these young women who think they're the shit should know where they're headed
Nah. Unless you’re looking at like 1900 when it was either marry or become a nun.
On what regards? Marriage? Dating? I would say they are picky till they can’t be. Who wants to play hot potato?
I think women are starting to realize that they deserve better than douchebags who just want pussy
Not saying that all guys are total dicks but there's quite a few out there.
You got a lot of growing up to do. You are 15. When you get older you will see that most men are much more complex than that.
Also girls your age often chase boys who act that way. You say you don’t like it, but deep down you do.
@sonnysunshine That's really inappropriate for you to talk to an underage girl like that.
@Kas19 I didn’t say anything graphic nor would I say that ever to any minors. In fact Im advocating that GAG create a new category for adults to chat in.
But she is naive on this whole pickiness complex (as she should be). Men are much more complicated than that.
Men have long realised that they deserve better than some whores who just want money
But they continue having a lot of sex with those men. That’s why those men exist. If women didn’t like them, they wouldn’t be like that.
@Kaazsz that’s the point I’m trying to make. It’s better that both genders understand this screwed up dynamic when they are younger. We can phrase it without sounding “inappropriate” (@kas19).
When I was a teenager I swallowed that huge lie that women “want a chivalrous nice guy” whole. Unfortunately women are programmed at a DNA level to feel otherwise.
@sonnysunshine I'm sorry that you feel that way but I'm still allowed to express my opinion.
Also I dont chase douches like yourself fyi.
@Kas19 thank you for sticking up for me :)
I’m waiting for a girl to explain to me why I’m creepy until I act like a player and then girls love me.
@sonnysunshine You pretty much said "You say you don't like douchebags that just want pussy, but deep down you do." That's inappropriate, creepy, and uncalled for.
Also, just because some girls her age may like those types of boys, doesn't mean she does. You don't get to put words in her mouth.
@Kas19 “put words in her mouth”... YOU are the one putting words in mine. You just said all those dirty words. I never said any of that.
This is just a pathetic attempt to dismiss my point by labeling me a creep. You girls do that shit all the time. Typical.
And that is why ladies are getting more picky @sonnysunshine is a prime example.
@sonnysunshine Those were her words, but you said she chased after guys that did those things. You know you said something wrong, don't put the blame on me lol. You're the type of people making men look bad.
Not really. Society tells women to act like proud sluts as they deem it as empowering.
Culture is kind of telling young men and women to only seek sex and hookups. It’s fucking ho the dynamic that men and women once had in the dating scene.
@Kas19 no you are trying to twist this into something that isn’t true at all. It’s a cheap shot because what I’m saying is true and deep down you know it but you don’t want to admit it. Instead you pull out the ace hole in one “you are creep” card so you can dismiss my argument.
You would do great as a democratic politician.
@sonnysideup Except it isn't true. And you are also a creep. And I'm not a Democrat.
@sonnysunshine Some girls do, but not most.
You're* Maybe learn basic grammar before calling me dumb. Because now you're not only a creep, but also dumb.
Funny I was going to respond to her asking for a cease fire. But now I’m blocked. So cowardly.
I blocked you so you can leave Kas19 alone.
Leave her alone? She’s the one that attacked me first.
@sonnysunshine grow the fuck up. You said that I have a lot of growing up to do but you're the one who won't leave it be.
She was actually sticking up for me then you attacked her.
@sunnysideup If you think telling you to stop talking to underage girls like that is attacking you, then you must be more sensitive than I thought.
Personally I see a lot of under age girls as predators.
14 year old girls cat called me just the other day! I pretended not to hear. I don’t think she needs protection she knows very well what sex is lol.
@Kaazsz what 14 year old would do that to a 33 year old, & how do you know she was 14? That’s bs
@Kaazsz that's seriously the dumbest thing I've ever heard of. So you really think that 14 yo girls are sexual predators? I'm not saying they're delusional when it comes to anything sexual.
I know their age by looking at them. I know their age cuz they go to school with kids that I know. It’s never one girl. It’s groups of young girls. And it wasn’t a one time thing either. I’ve been cat called by very young teenage girls REPEATEDLY.
I’ve had to avoid friends teenage daughters. Because they look at me like hungry animals and follow me around and make me feel awkward lol.
All I’m saying is young girls are not innocent. If she’s on the internet talking about sex, she’s not innocent. There isn’t anything I can say that will hurt her. She probably knows more about sex than I do for all I know lol.
If you ask me, y’all hate yourselves. Women are just as sexual as men. That includes teenage girls. You don’t want to believe it because you have a self loathing. You believe that it’s bad for females to be sexual, especially at a young age. You shame them and make them think they are bad. You are all sick fucks if you ask me. Shaming everyone for their sexuality. Especially women cuz you do it to yourselves worse than us men do!
Now all these dumbass dudes are gonna reply and call me a cuck because I support women’s freedom to be sexual. And you will hate me for suggesting that teenage girls aren’t always innocent little flowers.
Both sides are blind ignorant and full of hate and self loathing.
If underage girls wanna talk about sex on the internet that’s their right. They can make fake accounts and do it anyways. You don’t need to protect them. It’s only your idea that girls should be these little chaste angels who don’t think about sex. These innocent little flowers that might be psychologically corrupted and partially destroyed by the sick bastard of a man, the evil sexual predator male, who swings his internet dick around fucking up little girls minds. Can’t you see how much hate you have and how stupid all of you are? I can’t stand none of y’all.
@Kaazsz it seems like your a pedophile
A pedophile is someone sexually attracted to ‘pre pubescent children.’
All men are biologically wired to be attracted to teenage girls. Just because the law says 18 does not mean our biology agrees.
No I’m not a pedophile, I’m simply saying what’s on my mind and you’re choosing to avoid addressing what I’m saying by trying to lable me as a sexual predator, as you do with all men. Because us men are evil and you hate us. And you hate yourself because you can’t admit you want the dick just as much as we want the pussy.
It’s really sick honestly. All of y’all are sick fucks.
This is mental illness. When society shames you for your uncontrollable biology, it creates a separation in our mind. You shaming girls for wanting sex, calling males predators for wanting sexy. This is why society is fucked up. This is why stupid conservative fucks are all over he place hating transgender people and women. Because our beliefs are inherently harmful and we breed our own mental illness. Thanks for accusing me of being a oedophile. I’m not. But it doesn’t matter because you hate me because I am a man.
Well honey I don’t hate you. I think the way you think is fucked up and harmful. Same with those guys you were arguing. I mean Jesus they are just straight up retards I don’t know why you even replied to any of them.
I don’t hate y’all. I just wish you’d all stfu lol. I guess. I don’t know what I wish. I wish for freedom I suppose. For people to stop shaming our young developing adults and creating mental illness by shaming the fuck out of them.
@Kaazsz legit nothing that you wrote doesn’t make sense, & I’m not gonna read it all because i might lose some brain cells
Well, you could say I don’t make sense or ask for me to clarify. But you aren’t interested in actually talking. You just want to debate with morons like those other two.
I’m not a moron for defending myself. @kas19 was taking some real cheap shots. She’s like a POS coward that punches you in the back of head and then runs off like a total coward when I turn around to see who did it. She got my comment reported/deleted because it’s okay for her to call me a “creep” but I can’t call her a cunt when I’m fighting back. Then she blocks me because she’s too afraid of what I’ll say back.
All in all these girls are young and our society enables them to act this way. I sometimes think I could talk some sense into them but I guess I’m dumb for assuming that and wasting my time. Yeah they can get away with it now. But Father Time is much harsher on women than men.
Have a nice night.
Yea she’s quite a character I’ve realized. But this is all silly as fuck. There can never be any productive discussion when those who are talking have an automatic distaste for eachother.
Damn. I just read the whole thread. I think everyone on gag is seriously frustrated with dating and the other gender. Would suggest same sex dating as a solution but then I'll just get a bunch of homophobic insults thrown at me and get called a libtard.
All of you are complete losers , the girls aren't listening to logic , they just ignore it and try to make their own retarded logic ,
Same with men. Humanity is fucked I hope another meteorite cleanses the earth once again like they did to dinosaurs
@Mafiaman nah, we just need another "Noah's ark" and leave the bitter cry babies to drown
I'm with @tonicandgin
@tonicandgin remember women included
@Mafiaman i didn't specify gender.
Seems that way, but at the end of the day its personal preference.
Yes, females wield ultimate power in forming relationships. This allows them to hold incredibly high standards, even when they themselves resemble sandbags.
True... ageist as well. I'm only 95 but some girls don't wanna know 😁
Why settle for the first willing dude if you 100% know you can do better? It's simple logic.
They've always been picky. That's how the human race got so far.
It’s possible I call those women pretty dramatic but it’s natural what’s life without a little drama
And you discovered this just now? You 'noticed' it. Have you been doing hard time or something?
Im very picky. Always have been. I don't see anything too wrong with it.
Because you know your attractive
@needadvice1245 i guess there's that.
@needadvice1245 lol she's ugly. Just to get her pussy, stop saying that. Likes of you explain why women are picky getting pickier.
@Alexx988 I'm saying that because that's why she thinks like that because people tell her that's why I said that in the 1st place so don't jump in a conversation thinking your some hero
@alex_x988 haha coming from the guy who's asking 'rate me' questions 🤣🤣
@alex_x988 lol every women is beautiful just because you don't like it doesn't mean shit man. Grow Up
Lol you really are ugly, now from inside too. Im ugly or hot can't change your ugliness!
And without your ton of makeup and filters in pic, I wonder how you can come out of your room even!
@alex_x988 the reason i haven't blocked you is because I'm not offended at all. Your opinion about me means nothing. I love the way i look and many others do too. 🥰🥰🥰
Lol you are still a 15 years princess! And did I ask why you didn't block me? Same I could say. And yeah you can't change your face so you should be accepting your ugliness. You can change your insides tho.
by the way that anonymous were you who commented on my rate me question? Cause there's only one girl there with your age range and you said before I was asking to rate me. Do tell (I won't bite)
@alex_x988 haha bye 😘
Haha so Got you. take care of your mind n senses!
This has been going on for nearly 2days all because I made 1 comment smh
Lol you changed your dp to show some cleave... Face never worked for you!
@alex_x988 haha you didn't get anything loser. I just feel sorry for you.
@needadvice1245 ya all your fault 🤣🤣😋 jk
@datgirl I didn't want anything lol? 😕😂
@alex_x988 dude clearly you have major issues. You're attacking me cause you're triggered about something. I dont care about what one stranger loser online thinks about me. I have way too much confidence in the way i look. So jokes on you.
They've always been picky. They pick the white skin ones and reject the dark skin ones. They think white is better. Especially latinas
Black men do it way more latinas usually date Latinos
No just staying single because other people are staying single and they all sleep with eachother.
Women are getting more picky as men are getting more douchey
What do you expect? When women become cunts, men just won’t care.
@selfdestruction Lol 😂
@selfdestruction the only cunt here is you
@Girl2890 Did some guy or guys piss you off that much?
Yeah, it's definitely NOT the men who have become douches. If men treat you badly it's probably because they're reciprocating.
Men are douche bags because women put out like nothing and therefore they don’t have to try anymore.
@selfdestruction i think its more so that when a guy assumes all girls are cunts, they stay away from those guys, causing them to become more douchey
Or plot twist, beacuse most women are more picky especially with physical expectations the guys that look better and dont have to rely on their character as much are the ones girls are picking. Hence why some womeb feel there are more asshole men around now. My ex girlfriend admited to me she used to fall in that trap.
Ugly dudes are jerks too
Yeah anyone can be i didn't say that they couldnt
Why would woman magically become more picky? Oh maybe because a woman's apperence has been judged for centuries? So yeah duh we are going to have a taste of their own medicine. Also, there are more asshole men around, considering that I have been assaulted and harrassed multiple times by different ages and races, it is clear that woman can say "no more of this shit," I used to think like you and that feminists were exaggerating or whatever but when I grew older, everything that woman have been saying has been true. Men did it first, now woman are able to without public shame and humiliation like in the past
@shawno96 sorry if I was coming off aggressive, this wasn't aimed toward you, I guess I just got caught in my past pains and vented about it. I think society as a whole is picky
Bad men have been always assaulting women its less common in the western world percentage wise now then the 1900s looks bad but there is a higher population now. Also they didn't magically become picky all of a sudden. Its has happened gradually. I think for the most part women AREN'T too picky personality wise although there are exeptions. But its being noticed not just by me but many others that in a physical appearance sence the social media age especially has spiked the pickyness of women.
I think it is because men are picky and have used the ideal image of a dream girl that they can't compare to and so they prefer a guy that most likely doesn't exist
I don't think so, They have always been picky we just notice it more these days.
As they should. Everyone should be picky unless you just want anything available.
Definitely, I assume it's because of online dating.
Yeah because most guys are jokes these days I can’t take em seriously
You gunna pick though the boys to find the men I guess. But it doesn't help that woman play games all the time.
@g-b1996 I don’t think I’ve encountered such a thing called a “Man” guys these days don’t take relationships seriously, so that’s why I’m picky, excuse me bitch? The women lay the games all the time, are you outta yo mind, get yo head out your ass pls
Probably. While asking guys that "everybody is beautiful". As long as "everybody" is a girl.
Only on dating apps. 80% of women only go for 20% of men.
That’s why men shouldn’t use dating apps
That's another bullshit pseudo-stat pulled from ass end of the fake red pilled part of the manosphere. If anything women these days are less picky about how much validation they can get in any given day, but lack the self esteem and self worth to bag a high quality man. Too many inflated female egos.
I'm not picky I just want the right one to love me he doesn't have to have the biggest or car or bank account if love him but I definitely notice I would say yes lots of women is picky if I can see it men definitely can
Sure but the problem is a lot of women think they deserve better than what tgey actually deserve.
Shouldn’t we all? There’s a line though between unnecessary and necessary. Some women are being unecessaey especially if they offer nothing.
Just because they don't want to date you doesn't mean they're too picky.
To picky is a good thing I like it
Why u personally attacking the OP? He asked a general question
@Prof_Don I wasn't attacking him. Usually these questions stem from personal struggles.
@Kas19 stop you're gonna make the asker cry
Usually being the key word there. Im Speaking in general and there's a lot of people suggesting women are more picky. I see obese women only talk to real fit dudes.😂
I think women have always been this picky
Definitely not, marriage rates have been universally declining for a while now. Low marriages rates are directly correlated with female empowerment.
The fact that people aren’t getting married has nothing do to with women being pickier. It has to do with people just not wanting to get married.
It's ironic since most girls are well below average when you strip all the makeup off
Yeah, they’re expecting more and more but offering less and less.
They have always been more picky as they have much more options that guys.
Both genders can be picky.
Yea for the most part
Women are getting more picky with guys
Yes, too many doushbags about.
On both sides
If there's no vibe, there's no point to even try.
im really picky and i dont like people touchn my stuff wit askn me first cuz i will notice
Only some of them.
Don't generalize
Probably, I don't really notice.
dont think we are , the heart wants what it wants
I had a girl I was casually dating try to friend zone me with that same bullshit line “the heart wants what the heart wants”.
Just imagine a guy dumping a girl and saying “the heart wants what the heart wants” when he wants to pursue someone else. It doesn’t go down as well in reverse.
As if they aren't picky enough
Women need to.
No the selection of mens just getting shittier
feminism is way easier to blame than that. women turning men off and pushing them away. maybe if it's generation X you can say that
Yeah the SJW movement has them feeling extra
social media is having an effect on that
It feels like it sometimes
I'm not picky at all if I like you I like you
I feel like they are now a days.
I think it's like that
Well if he ain’t my man I don’t want him so yeah
At least in the west, absolutely
Duuuuh! :-D
yes and i love that
Of course they are
It's never bad to be picky though
I’ve always been
No I don’t think so