Why is refusing to date seen as a negative thing? (Page 2)

[R_Cakes91]

I think it’s great that you don’t want to date. I’ve stopped wanting to as well. Just fed up with the entire thing and want to focus on myself for once.

[TinawAllison]

I don’t blame you. Then there’s a certain percentage that want to see if they can get a person, s pants for one thing only. That’s what scares Me away. Worried whether or not they get into pants. I don’t want that at all.

[ChiPaPa]

Wow. Rather than being supportive, her ulterior motive is showing.

[lightbulb27]

you definitely need to find some more mature friends.

[Agape93]

Do as thou wilt. If that’s what is good for you, who cares what others think?

[LuvMeSomeBoys]

Didn’t know it was seen as a negative thing. It’s a choice.

[mixedgirlmagic]

Its seen as a negative thing bc some of us girls are enotional and desire love

[Anonymous]

It’s really good to be single. Your not being idiot and co dependent on another person to make you happy like 80% of the population

[Shamalien]

Totally hear u on this one, be wary of ur friend, she will do what she can to manipulate u. by the way, what u are talking about doing is the defn of mgtow, focusing on yourself, going your own way

[selfdestruction]

In this day, dating is shit. Especially for boys and men. Some women really can’t take no for an answer. What’s worse is that internet accuses men as the bad guys for thinking of them selves.

Stick to your morals, my dude.

[Ashutosh12345]

its not negative. moreover its a good thing rather than to meet u wantedly and then ignore/reject

[NoToriousROB]

Dating is too lopsided and it’s just a waste of time, for both men and women because of the scumbags and flakes that exist today

[Anonymous]

Refusing to date isn’t a bad thing, but it is uncommon. But that’s your choice.

[Anonymous]

I’m MGTOW and I don’t give a fuck what people think that’s your problem right there. Don’t let the system control your thoughts.

[bloodys2]

Do whatever the fuck you want Idc
I thought that after leaving your girlfriend youd improve, but you still complain, you still talk down to people and don't even try to hide how hateful you are anymore.
I give up

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

And nobody asked you that

[aaronbw]

Yikes... do you know him or something? Geeze

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

@aaronbw She more or less harass... tried to "help" me for months now.

[God-vs-Satan]

Because asexuality is something people are comfortable knowing about others.

[Fuentes]

Yup chase the money not a bitch because bitches come with money

[vapnguy]

I would love to date but im 53 and can't find anyone interested in a 53vyear old

[Johnson420bud]

Umm... thats not even a good question... being told has been a negative thing since birth

[Anonymous]

MGTOW is telling the truth mostly not all of it

but I am the same
I see no reason to date women anymore

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

I understand, and I honestly don't see any point in dating anymore.
But I don't like MGTOW either, so I think I'll just stay alone.
I don't hate women nor men, but I see interpersonal relationships are just a waste of time.

[Opinion Owner]

at this point it is just sex

there are very few good women
and they are mostly invisible

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

I don't even like sex, my ex made me hate it, so I guess it will be just work and bed for me! 😂😂

[Opinion Owner]

trust me dude

I am not doing it to much myself
I stay to myself

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

I understand

[Anonymous]

Women want to always be with someone because they feel useless if they don't have one

[Anonymous]

But it IS a negative thing, you are shutting yourself off and letting a bad experience condition your life and make you miss out on some great woman.

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

That's not really something I want though - one has been enough.

[aaronbw]

Jean... you're only 22. Might seem bad now but it gets fine later on. Take this from someone who's been stabbed in the back repeatedly.

I'm not saying it's bad what you're doing but it's not good either. People are idiots and will always screw something over but the point is there are genuinely good people.

Just take a step back, breathe, have a coffee and take a break. You'll be fine and soon whoever broke your heart won't even matter anymore and you'll move on. Who knows, maybe you may find someone again on accident or at least find a best friend. Saying "one is enough" is, in all honesty a bad thing to say in regards from dating. You dont owe anything to anyone but punishing women because one broke your heart is honestly immature.

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

@aaronbw Maybe I'm just doing it out of grief and spite, but also because they keep hounding me about it. It's unhealth and a jerk move I know, but I really don't know what else to do.
My last relationship has been a net negative, and I don't think I'm punishing women by refusing to date - I let them free to find someone better and more suitable for them.

I'd put relationship second or third place and make them feel neglected anyways.

[aaronbw]

What I'm saying is you're too young to say one is enough. I'm not saying as a matter of fact, because I've been there. I just want you to keep an open mind. Go ahead and focus on yourself for a bit, thats what should happen after a breakup. But the punishment was the "one is enough" statement as if saying all women were the same. You just have to be careful how you handle grief.

Like I said man, I've been there so at least try to understand where some people are coming from, they aren't trying to force you to date again right away.

[Anonymous]

Those are words of someone who's deeply hurt and still bleeding.
Are you sure you don't want to confide in someone?

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

I'm fine, thank you.

[zeineboyy]

Because society is blue pilled

[thedoctormsh]

Yes I feel it bat to be single for a long time.

[Slim57]

Because it's a social norm

[Anonymous]

Is it? By who?